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By * and C OP Couple
over a year ago
Runcorn |
We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.
Any advice please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, there are many of what you describe but there are also many genuine, friendly and very sexy folks on here also.
You have to be patient, friendly and be yourself for people to judge if you are right for them. Take it from a single guy....  |
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We have met a few people from Fab but get fed up with ping pong emails & people who say all the right things but won’t meet.
We have more luck in clubs & if we don’t find people that we click with, we will have fun with each other, but always in a room where we can be watched as tests a huge turn on for us.
Have you tried going to clubs, there’s a chance of meeting nervous newbies but less chance of meeting time wasters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny ole game this it’s a bit like fishing ,you can go for weeks /months without a bite then all of a sudden you meet up with some lovely people , it’s just how it goes at times even when going to a club there’s no guarantee you’ll play with a couple / single that float your boat . We don’t get bogged down with it all just pretty much go with the flow , but all the best with what ever you guys do |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Lots of clubs in your area. I would go to one make some friends and begin a swinger social life. The rest of what you want soon follows "
This.... there are certain things you can’t shop for online. |
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"Please don’t give up....
Just start going to social_ and clubs....
Once you’re known, you will be beating the couples away with a stick"
this, if you don't want to play in a club, get to a social and meet the type of people who are happy to socialise. There are lots like yourself who don't want to be in the spotlight and would rather be having fun behind closed doors. |
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"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.
Any advice please."
Maybe they think the twattish unenforceable ‘legal’ warning puts them off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.
Any advice please."
I would message you but can't due to filters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.
Any advice please."
Many couples of your age group requirements will have childcare issues. At least if you find a couple at a club, childcare and accommodation issues are sorted. Many clubs have closed off areas/rooms to use. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.
Any advice please.
I would message you but can't due to filters"
Perhaps post your advice here then? |
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"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.
Any advice please."
As a couple on here we get about 40% fake and leave, 30% not our type, 15% don't reply who seem simular to us, 10% possibles and 5% are interesting and meet of which 1% turn out ok.
As a single guy well let's just say it's fun trying although in over a year I've met 2 couples who I have partied with, which I'm told is a good result lol  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.
Any advice please."
There is no magic wand when it comes to fab all you can do is put meets up, message those that take your fancy (and hope), go to clubs and organised socials and try and get your face know.
In our time here on Fab we have found that things go in cycles. We can go weeks/months with out any meets or contact then suddenly be inundated with offers of parties and meets.
Would suggest that you post a few pictures of you both and try to avoid any negativity or something too demanding on your profile, I can only speak personally but as soon as I see moaning status updates and the likes I dismiss the profile. |
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
Henley Arden |
You state on your profile your soft swap and whilst that’s perfectly acceptable it does reduce significantly the number of people as potential play partners.
The one strange think about swinging is how incredibly hard it can be to actually arrange a meet.
Good luck |
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By *arshellCouple
over a year ago
Mansfield |
"You state on your profile your soft swap and whilst that’s perfectly acceptable it does reduce significantly the number of people as potential play partners.
The one strange think about swinging is how incredibly hard it can be to actually arrange a meet.
Good luck "
We are put off by profiles that pretty much say soft swap only, it's not for everyone and browsing generally you don't find many couples that prefer only soft.....it may be putting a lot of people off unfortunately.
And yeah, if it's a couple's profile we would always like to see at least 1 photo of both of you....there are too many fake profiles for a lot of people to take a chance...
If we saw you in a club we would certainly chat and see where the night leads...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.
Any advice please.
I would message you but can't due to filters"
Because they are not looking for single guys..say what you want to say on this thread |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Why not go to club's and then if you don't want to use the private rooms, you can always swap details and go to their house or hotel or a club on another time.
I think it's far easier meeting people face to face, than sending out messages.
You have plenty of club's within an hour from your area.
And as others have said, remove the daft warning . It is nonsense and does put people off. |
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