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By *unkymanc OP Man
over a year ago
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I've decided to finally divorce after years of disinterest from the current Mrs Munky.
There's no kids involved, I'll be staying in the house and will be single for the first time in a decade.
To say I'm excited would be an understatement, I've kept fab a secret from her all this time,but have told her I'm poly, have transgressed and need a fresh start, travelling and more clubs are first thing on my agenda!
Any words of encouragement and/or tips would be greatly appreciated.
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Only bit of advice I can offer is keep a good social circle around you and enjoy yourself.
You can now focus on being you and doing what makes you tick without having to consider someone else, it's a wonderful kind of freedom, embrace it  |
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By *unkymanc OP Man
over a year ago
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Cheers, it'll be a long road. I've never broken a heart before, butt it's in both our best interests.
My best mate is back from 10 years in London and I've a fair few ladies I have my eye on.
I fall in love quite quickly. It's the big heart!
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"Cheers, it'll be a long road. I've never broken a heart before, butt it's in both our best interests.
My best mate is back from 10 years in London and I've a fair few ladies I have my eye on.
I fall in love quite quickly. It's the big heart!
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Nooooo! No falling in love, it's too soon!  |
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"Well if they're poly too it'll be a happy family..
That's the dream anyway.."
Of course, and if that works for you then that's awesome.
I just think you need to be a bit careful with your emotions and allow a bit of time to heal and process stuff after such a long relationship |
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By *unkymanc OP Man
over a year ago
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I hope that'll be the case.
We're so different now, still best buds, butt I need a change of pace.
Fab opened my eyes to a world I feel so at place with. My first time in a club I was at total peace.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheers, it'll be a long road. I've never broken a heart before, butt it's in both our best interests.
My best mate is back from 10 years in London and I've a fair few ladies I have my eye on.
I fall in love quite quickly. It's the big heart!
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Do NOT go falling in love again. Enjoy your new found single life and freedom and all the opportunities and fun that can bring.
You don't need do be in love to have a fulfilling life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wonder if your relationship would have lasted if you'd put as much effort into it if you had on here?"
Doubtful as he's already said that they are best friends and not lovers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Main thing is you sound happy, as you were clearly in a situation you didn't want to be in..so congratulations.
Can't say its always easy for the single males though on fab.
I hope you have a great time and good luck along the way with the meets.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take some time for yourself. Keep things simple, stay off fab and complicated fookery. Enjoy rediscovering things you enjoy and whatever they maybe. Laughter, friends and self-interests will give you peace; much more important then happiness.
When you’re ready, give that heart to someone and enjoy loving again x good luck OP X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hope that'll be the case.
We're so different now, still best buds, butt I need a change of pace.
Fab opened my eyes to a world I feel so at place with. My first time in a club I was at total peace. "
I had that...it was almost like coming home to a place where everyone was just like me, instead of feeling like and alien in my own world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only advice I'd give is don't be seen to revel in your new found singleness or worse not be tempted to. She may see your new found 'happiness' and take it personally. That will not end well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a hard thing to go through , as said before keep it amicable and you can both do some leg work on the legals saves giving divorce lawyers huge amounts of money
Good luck to you both |
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Just bear in mind that no matter how amicable it seems initially there will be bumps along the way that can really make it hard. Don't expect it all to be plain sailing and if you are going to immediately fall in love again, even if the split is for the best, be discreet about it. Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've decided to finally divorce after years of disinterest from the current Mrs Munky.
There's no kids involved, I'll be staying in the house and will be single for the first time in a decade.
To say I'm excited would be an understatement, I've kept fab a secret from her all this time,but have told her I'm poly, have transgressed and need a fresh start, travelling and more clubs are first thing on my agenda!
Any words of encouragement and/or tips would be greatly appreciated.
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All the best for the future!
You've certainly done the right thing. Enjoy your life and swinging! It's a fabulous adventure for singletons! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've decided to finally divorce after years of disinterest from the current Mrs Munky.
There's no kids involved, I'll be staying in the house and will be single for the first time in a decade.
To say I'm excited would be an understatement, I've kept fab a secret from her all this time,but have told her I'm poly, have transgressed and need a fresh start, travelling and more clubs are first thing on my agenda!
Any words of encouragement and/or tips would be greatly appreciated.
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As a single male I fail to see why you are excited at the thought of being single. If you have been on here a while you surely realise being a single male on fab means it is very hard to get meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've decided to finally divorce after years of disinterest from the current Mrs Munky.
There's no kids involved, I'll be staying in the house and will be single for the first time in a decade.
To say I'm excited would be an understatement, I've kept fab a secret from her all this time,but have told her I'm poly, have transgressed and need a fresh start, travelling and more clubs are first thing on my agenda!
Any words of encouragement and/or tips would be greatly appreciated.
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Get yourself to north east |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've decided to finally divorce after years of disinterest from the current Mrs Munky.
There's no kids involved, I'll be staying in the house and will be single for the first time in a decade.
To say I'm excited would be an understatement, I've kept fab a secret from her all this time,but have told her I'm poly, have transgressed and need a fresh start, travelling and more clubs are first thing on my agenda!
Any words of encouragement and/or tips would be greatly appreciated.
As a single male I fail to see why you are excited at the thought of being single. If you have been on here a while you surely realise being a single male on fab means it is very hard to get meets. "
I reckon our Munky will have no shortage of offers! He's already established (so to speak) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I where you I'd have a clean break, move out and live your separate lives, it's never 50/50. You have no reason to be each others lives, that's what think anyway, good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've decided to finally divorce after years of disinterest from the current Mrs Munky.
There's no kids involved, I'll be staying in the house and will be single for the first time in a decade.
To say I'm excited would be an understatement, I've kept fab a secret from her all this time,but have told her I'm poly, have transgressed and need a fresh start, travelling and more clubs are first thing on my agenda!
Any words of encouragement and/or tips would be greatly appreciated.
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I was in exactly the same position, well almost, as swinging was open. But stated single for about 2 days. And that was too long, lol.
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