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i often get guys saying cant you just pop out and leave them home alone and this is followed by me pressing the block button! Never mind how horny i am my kids safety and well being will always come first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not exactly rocket science is it. For swinging read the same as a night out. No one except an irresponsible idiot would leave their kids to fend for themselves. If the oldest was fifteen/sixteen and could be trusted to look after the others then maybe, but given your age its obvious yours are only very young so to leave them on their own is out of the question.
I don't have kids, but I do work 70 odd hours a week as the mortgage on a decent sized house won't pay itself, plus I like having dosh to spare and unfortunately my work requires long graft. It seems tricky for some to understand this as well.
At the end of the day, you've told them this much lass, if they persist with wanting an instant meet then the block button works wonders, you're a pretty lady who has her head screwed on so its not like you'll be short of offers from people who have more than half a brain whom you would still like to fuck....  |
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over a year ago
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Im a single mum too and often get, cant i come round when they are in bed - NO YOU BLOODY WELL CANT!!
or Just put them to bed early!!!!!!
Just dont let it get to you hun and inform them if they dont respect your wishes then how the hell will they respect you in the bedroom. |
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"any other single parents out there, Im fed up of people thinking you can drop everything for a meet. Especially now its the holidays, would be nice but kidshave to come first..."
I am not a single mum, but my Master is away a lot with work...
I plan around my kids and tend to just meet late at night.. ( plenty of horny men about after 10pm lol)
But I never feel bad if I have to cancel because of the kids..
My kids havent broken up yet either.
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"not everyone s like it, i might jut be felingfed up today sodding hormones!"
im in same boat hun, my block list is immense. Also get people (randoms) wanting to meet for the first time at my house, when it states that i won't do that. Id rather meet at the pub or something but having kids means need to organise babysitters and its not easy or cheap. Then they get huffy and block me! Sometimes i despair x
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"any other single parents out there, Im fed up of people thinking you can drop everything for a meet. Especially now its the holidays, would be nice but kidshave to come first..."
I'm a divorced dad to two girls, I get as horny as the next, however the most important thing to me is the time with my girls, everything else revolves around them, this is for fun... you've got it right family first everytime..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not single but we have same probs with babysitters and a few times have had to call meets off.
I think people have to understand that there is a small chance it will get called off but on the other hand we WILL turn up as its taken a lot of planning xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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kids COME FIRST ........ always no matter now horny ..... some men are DICK heads here think only with there cocks not about others family and kids . Its not on .  |
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S'not just mums! I'm a single dad, and though my two are now old enough to be left (16 & 18) from time to time - assuming I don't mind coming home to an empty fridge! LOL - it's still not easy arranging playtime for me around their many and constant requirements!
Holiday times are the worst, for sure - when everybody feels like partying, is the time when you least have the freedom to try and sort out some 'me-time'. Never mind, enjoy the mince pies and 'It's a wonderful life' - merry Christmas to all, single parents single blokes, whatever |
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"S'not just mums! I'm a single dad, and though my two are now old enough to be left (16 & 18) from time to time - assuming I don't mind coming home to an empty fridge! LOL - it's still not easy arranging playtime for me around their many and constant requirements!
Holiday times are the worst, for sure - when everybody feels like partying, is the time when you least have the freedom to try and sort out some 'me-time'. Never mind, enjoy the mince pies and 'It's a wonderful life' - merry Christmas to all, single parents single blokes, whatever "
This is true dad's taxi is a constant demand have to plan my meets but thankfully old enough to be left on his own |
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yes some folks expect a meet at the drop of a aht, but if you turn the tables its a different story. I have a 20 year old daughter living with me plus my old Mum over 80, so I am taxi for one and carer for the other. |
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"i often get guys saying cant you just pop out and leave them home alone and this is followed by me pressing the block button! Never mind how horny i am my kids safety and well being will always come first."
or the ones who want you to just hand out your address to a stranger on here to come round at 2am while the kids are in bed 
it seriously just goes to show the opinion some men have of women on here |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"block guys for the holiday period/note your account you are not meeting/hide your profile...
all the above will minimise it."
LOL, good one. I hid my profile while I was on holiday and it didn't stopp guys messaging me!
To the OP, I am a single mother and will no longer meet at home because people seem to think I am there just for their enjoyment. I have had to block several guys for constantly messaging me, expecting me to get my daughter to leave her own house just so they can get a shag. It's a shame but I suppose that sort of person doesn't deserve a meet anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't have kids, but know how u mean am so crazy with uni an work I have little time an get ppl demanding u meet on there time even though say limited time an need time arrange stuff
Good luck though ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"block guys for the holiday period/note your account you are not meeting/hide your profile...
all the above will minimise it."
minimise it or in most cases act like some sort of signal for guys to persist in asking as though you've made the whole thing up or typed it by accident... 'waaa? waddya mean you can't meet me? I need a fuck! grunt grunt!!' |
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"any other single parents out there, Im fed up of people thinking you can drop everything for a meet. Especially now its the holidays, would be nice but kidshave to come first..."
my best girl friend had to get quite strident on her profile cos of the number of men who seemed to think she would leave the kids to go fuck them. 
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"any other single parents out there, Im fed up of people thinking you can drop everything for a meet. Especially now its the holidays, would be nice but kidshave to come first...
my best girl friend had to get quite strident on her profile cos of the number of men who seemed to think she would leave the kids to go fuck them.
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I wouldn't mind if that was the case with me. It's the ones who expect me to be able to accommodate and get stroppy when I say no. One or two suggested she could join in.  Insta-block.  |
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"any other single parents out there, Im fed up of people thinking you can drop everything for a meet. Especially now its the holidays, would be nice but kidshave to come first...
my best girl friend had to get quite strident on her profile cos of the number of men who seemed to think she would leave the kids to go fuck them.
I wouldn't mind if that was the case with me. It's the ones who expect me to be able to accommodate and get stroppy when I say no. One or two suggested she could join in. Insta-block. "
Careful or someone will have a go for u being judgmental of families who swing together |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Careful or someone will have a go for u being judgmental of families who swing together "
Never said I didn't have double standards. Don't care what others get up to, but suggesting my daughter can join us is a bit skeevy. I mean, should we feel honoured? |
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"Careful or someone will have a go for u being judgmental of families who swing together
Never said I didn't have double standards. Don't care what others get up to, but suggesting my daughter can join us is a bit skeevy. I mean, should we feel honoured? "
Only if it's tory minister |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Careful or someone will have a go for u being judgmental of families who swing together
Never said I didn't have double standards. Don't care what others get up to, but suggesting my daughter can join us is a bit skeevy. I mean, should we feel honoured?
Only if it's tory minister "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"any other single parents out there, Im fed up of people thinking you can drop everything for a meet. Especially now its the holidays, would be nice but kidshave to come first...
my best girl friend had to get quite strident on her profile cos of the number of men who seemed to think she would leave the kids to go fuck them.
I wouldn't mind if that was the case with me. It's the ones who expect me to be able to accommodate and get stroppy when I say no. One or two suggested she could join in. Insta-block. "
ive had that too, when i say i cant accommodate cause of kids they will say what about when they are school? soon as i say they are 18 and 19 i get no end saying well dont they swing with you
i mean honest to god as if any mother would come on here to find men to fuck their kids
as i said just goes to show the low opinion they have of us on here  |
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My profile is hidden for the holiday period.
I never meet at home and regular meets know that. I did have one ask me to come to his hotel to meet with him and his friend, when I refused saying I had my son and his friend for a sleep-over he asked me to meet them in his car for some naughty fun for ten minutes.
I thought oh yes, leave two kids alone, drive out to meet them .... two bj's in a car then thanks bye-bye? Do be serious!
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I thought oh yes, leave two kids alone, drive out to meet them .... two bj's in a car then thanks bye-bye? Do be serious!
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look your just being to damn picky now, two bjs in a car on a cold winter evening......what more could you want lol |
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By *icboyMan
over a year ago
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Do you think that the people sending messages and not thinking about your kids have any...or do they care...
I have kids...they come first in all things...and if thats not acceptable then too bad...
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By (user no longer on site)
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my profile clearly says i dont accommodate because i have kids so either they dont read profiles or they just dont care and think they can talk you into inviting them round
i have never invited any guy to my house in the 11 years i have been doing this, and i never will untill all my children have left home, and at this rate thats never going to happen lol theres enough guys who are willing to meet at a club or hotel to not have to piss about with the ones who cant read and have no respect for your wishes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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m a single mum too and often get, cant i come round when they are in bed - NO YOU BLOODY WELL CANT!!
or Just put them to bed early!!!!!!
Same for me, and yes there are single dads out there too.......
And as for going to a house with kids upstairs no fucking way, my little girl can get up when she pleases and find me, so you are not coming round when she is here......
and yes a night out is just that a night out, with potential,just like a normal night out.....
Sheeesh......
I think the idiots on this site are the same idiots that are idiots in your local pub, and come on here with no clue, because guess what...they are idiots...
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By (user no longer on site)
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I thought oh yes, leave two kids alone, drive out to meet them .... two bj's in a car then thanks bye-bye? Do be serious!
look your just being to damn picky now, two bjs in a car on a cold winter evening......what more could you want lol "
I'd want to swallow their cum, say thank you very much and then drive my unsatisfied body back home again. |
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I once had a guy who suggested we could meet at his to play as he had the wee one!(two year old daughter) I don't have children but i was disgusted by the suggestion! I would never go to somebodys house for sex if they had children there sleeping or not and age irrelevant! I find it creepy myself but it must be hard for single parents to get away to play but i guess if your prioroties are as they should be you grin and bare it till they are old enough to stay home alone for a few hours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sods law rules here. Usually my son springs sleep-overs at his friends on me last minute, which means I end up staying home alone with no meets arranged! |
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"I once had a guy who suggested we could meet at his to play as he had the wee one!(two year old daughter) I don't have children but i was disgusted by the suggestion! I would never go to somebodys house for sex if they had children there sleeping or not and age irrelevant! I find it creepy myself but it must be hard for single parents to get away to play but i guess if your prioroties are as they should be you grin and bare it till they are old enough to stay home alone for a few hours! "
ive been to houses before thats had kids there, went to one house and their kids was still up, sat in the living room watching cartoons while they told us about the meet they had had the night before, i didnt stay long, what they do is upto them and im sure there are loads of people that will fuck in houses with kids in...but not me im afraid |
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I was exchanging texts with a guy who then asked if I was free to meet on Sunday, I said no that I was spending the day with my kids, the then called me a timewaster so I let rip on my status  |
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I thought oh yes, leave two kids alone, drive out to meet them .... two bj's in a car then thanks bye-bye? Do be serious!
look your just being to damn picky now, two bjs in a car on a cold winter evening......what more could you want lol
I'd want to swallow their cum, say thank you very much and then drive my unsatisfied body back home again. "
see now your getting the idea |
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"I once had a guy who suggested we could meet at his to play as he had the wee one!(two year old daughter) I don't have children but i was disgusted by the suggestion! I would never go to somebodys house for sex if they had children there sleeping or not and age irrelevant! I find it creepy myself but it must be hard for single parents to get away to play but i guess if your prioroties are as they should be you grin and bare it till they are old enough to stay home alone for a few hours!
ive been to houses before thats had kids there, went to one house and their kids was still up, sat in the living room watching cartoons while they told us about the meet they had had the night before, i didnt stay long, what they do is upto them and im sure there are loads of people that will fuck in houses with kids in...but not me im afraid "
My meet on Saturday said he'd met someone off here, when he knocked on her door it was opened by her 17 year old daughter, holding her baby. He said he was shocked, but nearly fainted when the girl asked him if he was x from Fab!
He said yes and she said "mum's just getting tarted up for you". This child then went on to tell him that she helped her mum pick her meets and did most of the messages.
If his story is true this woman is something else.
I play at home when my 20 and 24 year old daughters are not there. The 24 year old has a boyfriend that works shifts so my playtime is limited. Playmates are in the same position, living with parents/adult kids at home.
I don't meet in clubs or hotels, and only meet those who accommodate at home. 99.9% of meets are in my home, but I _iew it if I'm inviting you into my home you should reciprocate. If your home is sacrosant not a problem just don't except an invite to mine.
My playmates know I'd never turn up uninvited, likewise I know they won't and in five years it's never happened. The only man that has turned up at my home uninvited was my ex-husband! |
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i get asked do you have a partner really and just say im a single mum erm no. i always get meet me now regardless of time and when i say no kids at home get why not as has been mentioned leave her alone or put her to bed. i only meet daytime when she is at school.
im lucky holidays as she spends most at her dads so have lots of playtime. not all single parents have that luxury. |
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I once had a guy say "can't you just put them in another room and close the door?"when I said my kids were home so was not meeting...like they were a bunch of yappy dogs or something...lol. was one of the first guys to grace my block list |
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I really don't know what all the fuss is about, I'm a single dad with a not quite a teenager yet daughter, so I know full well the problem of getting 'me time' but I don't get any other of the problems,.........
But then again I'm a single male and don't get any meets....lmao. |
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"I once had a guy who suggested we could meet at his to play as he had the wee one!(two year old daughter) I don't have children but i was disgusted by the suggestion! I would never go to somebodys house for sex if they had children there sleeping or not and age irrelevant! I find it creepy myself but it must be hard for single parents to get away to play but i guess if your prioroties are as they should be you grin and bare it till they are old enough to stay home alone for a few hours!
ive been to houses before thats had kids there, went to one house and their kids was still up, sat in the living room watching cartoons while they told us about the meet they had had the night before, i didnt stay long, what they do is upto them and im sure there are loads of people that will fuck in houses with kids in...but not me im afraid
My meet on Saturday said he'd met someone off here, when he knocked on her door it was opened by her 17 year old daughter, holding her baby. He said he was shocked, but nearly fainted when the girl asked him if he was x from Fab!
He said yes and she said "mum's just getting tarted up for you". This child then went on to tell him that she helped her mum pick her meets and did most of the messages.
If his story is true this woman is something else.
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i wonder what the woman would have done if she had come dowstairs and found this guys touching her 17 year old daughter up after shes telling him she goes on fab and helps pick out the men! |
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the ones that make me laugh the most are the guys playing away, you cant go to their house cause they have a wife, so them accommodating is out the question, but because you only have kids who dont really matter because who you fuck has nothing to do with them its ok for you to invite them round to yours |
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i am a full time single dad juggling family life and a busy military job and i too have people who struggle to understand my situation. I try hard to find play time so when people let me down or i lose a sitter it would be nice if they understood |
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"i am a full time single dad juggling family life and a busy military job and i too have people who struggle to understand my situation. I try hard to find play time so when people let me down or i lose a sitter it would be nice if they understood"
Just read your status sorry your having a bad time hope it gets better for you , the same goes for anyone having fallen foul of the meet me right now brigade, they will learn soon enough that family always comes first. xx |
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"i am a full time single dad juggling family life and a busy military job and i too have people who struggle to understand my situation. I try hard to find play time so when people let me down or i lose a sitter it would be nice if they understood
Just read your status sorry your having a bad time hope it gets better for you , the same goes for anyone having fallen foul of the meet me right now brigade, they will learn soon enough that family always comes first. xx "
thanks very much for that! I hope the sitegets better for me too soon |
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simple rule is kids first everything else second.
Sad thing is though that part of the reason these guys say the 'get kids out' or 'close the door' is because some women will otherwise they wouldnt ask.
I know in the past someone said to pop round when kids in bed - er no way! What happens if they wake up??
Does worry me when folks play and kids in the house as well. Kids need to be kids - they dont need to be put at risk. |
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I was a single mum for 12 years. I would only play when my son was at his dads. Noway on gods earth would i play with a child in the house it is just so wrong. Ive never needed sex enough to put it above my son |
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"i often get guys saying cant you just pop out and leave them home alone and this is followed by me pressing the block button! Never mind how horny i am my kids safety and well being will always come first."
You'd think they'd suggest chaining them to a radiator for their safety.
Some people! |
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"simple rule is kids first everything else second.
Sad thing is though that part of the reason these guys say the 'get kids out' or 'close the door' is because some women will otherwise they wouldnt ask.
I know in the past someone said to pop round when kids in bed - er no way! What happens if they wake up??
Does worry me when folks play and kids in the house as well. Kids need to be kids - they dont need to be put at risk."
Isn't it the same people who think put your morals away because you like sex and swinging, as you say because some do treat it like that.
My mother wasn't a swinger, but i saw her have sex with people over time when i was a child, it had a horrible effect on my sex life for years.
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Single Mum here...dont ever have guys in my home, even when the kids are away...potential peadophiles are hard to spot unless they wear a t-shirt that says it on the front...and from personal experience, they dont! One guy got very interested when i told him i had a 15 year old daughter, asking for her bust size and worse, i didnt just block him, i reported him to the police...take that you barsteward! Thankfully this guy was not from Fab, and I am happy to say the majority of the guys i have contact with respect that I have kids and cant meet spontaneously...those who dont can quite frankly go and fuck themselves |
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I play when my kids are in bed... Door locked... And see as no different to any other part of my sex life...
It's kept behind closed doors but its my choice.... Doing well as been swinging many years... And only had a interruption twice..
However... Guys are normally in and out in 20mins so very little chance of being interpreted... However for a longer meet I wait till I Have the odd night where its only one home...
I've never had a guy have an issue with it.
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"I play when my kids are in bed... Door locked... And see as no different to any other part of my sex life...
It's kept behind closed doors but its my choice.... Doing well as been swinging many years... And only had a interruption twice..
However... Guys are normally in and out in 20mins so very little chance of being interpreted... However for a longer meet I wait till I Have the odd night where its only one home...
I've never had a guy have an issue with it.
Cali x "
You lock your kids doors? What on earth would they do if god forbid a fire started in there. They might be in and out in 20 minutes but it takes about 30 seconds for a child to come down the stairs. |
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"I play when my kids are in bed... Door locked... And see as no different to any other part of my sex life...
It's kept behind closed doors but its my choice.... Doing well as been swinging many years... And only had a interruption twice..
However... Guys are normally in and out in 20mins so very little chance of being interpreted... However for a longer meet I wait till I Have the odd night where its only one home...
I've never had a guy have an issue with it.
Cali x
You lock your kids doors? What on earth would they do if god forbid a fire started in there. They might be in and out in 20 minutes but it takes about 30 seconds for a child to come down the stairs."
No I lock my bedroom door... Been meeting many years had two times a child has woken... As I mostly meet regulars its no different from having a few boyfriends. I go to clubs for group stuff..
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"I play when my kids are in bed... Door locked... And see as no different to any other part of my sex life...
It's kept behind closed doors but its my choice.... Doing well as been swinging many years... And only had a interruption twice..
However... Guys are normally in and out in 20mins so very little chance of being interpreted... However for a longer meet I wait till I Have the odd night where its only one home...
I've never had a guy have an issue with it.
Cali x
You lock your kids doors? What on earth would they do if god forbid a fire started in there. They might be in and out in 20 minutes but it takes about 30 seconds for a child to come down the stairs.
No I lock my bedroom door... Been meeting many years had two times a child has woken... As I mostly meet regulars its no different from having a few boyfriends. I go to clubs for group stuff..
If i had been disturbed once it would of been once to often
Cali x "
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But that's you... Have been disturbed more having fun with my partners through the years... Many a time...
Kids know there parents have sex.... Mine would assume it was my master home... But never actually been caught mid way... Was just getting undressed... I Have a rather unsexy outfit ready to put on...
I would never meet as don't get any child free time except odd day out..... My kids always come first but your life doesn't stop when you become a parent. So I work around it... Same as a do the bdsm side of my relationship....kids haven't a clue about either bit..
I Have happy kids and a happy parent helps... Besides as I said I see it no different to having multiple bfs.. and to be honest I'm even careful with what my kids see even when I Have a 2nd man... They just see it as a friend...
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"But that's you... Have been disturbed more having fun with my partners through the years... Many a time...
Kids know there parents have sex.... Mine would assume it was my master home... But never actually been caught mid way... Was just getting undressed... I Have a rather unsexy outfit ready to put on...
I would never meet as don't get any child free time except odd day out..... My kids always come first but your life doesn't stop when you become a parent. So I work around it... Same as a do the bdsm side of my relationship....kids haven't a clue about either bit..
I Have happy kids and a happy parent helps... Besides as I said I see it no different to having multiple bfs.. and to be honest I'm even careful with what my kids see even when I Have a 2nd man... They just see it as a friend...
Cali "
i have to agree i cant see any difference to what u do and what a couple do...though we tend to have sex in the daytime when the kids are at school...im just too damn noisy! |
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everyones different, i have to be honest i wouldnt play in a house with kids in bed, simply because i wouldnt have people at my house with my kids in bed and i show other peoples children the same respect i show my own
Saying that i would never say anyone was wrong, because what others do is nothing to do with me, unless it involves me, its just not something i would do
But women and men are different, i get loads of guys asking me if they can come round at night while my kids are in bed and i wonder if they would feel the same if the mother of their kids was fucking guys off sex sites with his kids in the house?! |
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Thanks... I wouldn't have gangbangs or even couples over... Have had the odd 3sum but not often. Lol
If I had guys staying hours I may think differently... But I don't.. joy of being me is that I actually have mostly male friends.... So I'd have perfect excuse... And besides... I never lose control that I'd not hear the door open upstairs... And they all because I don't leave a light on shout me to go see them...
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"I just would'nt be able to relax and enjoy myself knowing my girls were just next door. "
my bedroom is downstairs at the front of the house.. there room is upstairs at the back...
Dont you enjoy yourself with your partner with your kids there??? same difference to me.
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I dont have a partner and they have never known a man in my bed but then I live in a flat. My two rules they will never wake up to strangers in my bed and will not have a load of uncles either and has been that way for 14 years. Is hard and lonely at times especially this time of year when you see all the families together. But I live with it. |
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"I dont have a partner and they have never known a man in my bed but then I live in a flat. My two rules they will never wake up to strangers in my bed and will not have a load of uncles either and has been that way for 14 years. Is hard and lonely at times especially this time of year when you see all the families together. But I live with it."
callum only ever saw two men. both relationships around two years and with both he spent about six months getting to know them before they stayed. no way was he going to see lots of men backwards and forwards and as a single mum if that ment putting sex on hold for 12 years then that would of been the case. i agree with you shaz
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I guess I am lucky that my kids know that most of my friends are male..
So they dont notice..
They never see anyone in my room.. that is why my meets are all between 10pm and midnight.. even had later..
Sorry but I wouldnt put my sex life on hold because I was a parent.
Thing is I am not a single parent.. so I guess it is a little different
But when I was.. I still always had at last 3 men.. kids never saw one of them.
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"My sex life is not on hold I just meet when they are at school feels naughtier in the day time once I have got to meet them or I meet at clubs."
but I work in the day as does my Master.. so we cant really do day time meets..
We do on occassion... but we like our late night fun..
We are actually sorting out some guys that can accomodate for some extra fun... but I like to lounge in bed after and talk on cam to my Master..
My older ones know.. but the my son is a swinger too..
I have also always been how I am... I am very good at hiding it from all..
It isnt everyones idea of okay.. but as long as my kids are happy and fine.. then I am happy and fine..
but mostly its a regular 2nd guy..
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"I guess I am lucky that my kids know that most of my friends are male..
So they dont notice..
They never see anyone in my room.. that is why my meets are all between 10pm and midnight.. even had later..
Sorry but I wouldnt put my sex life on hold because I was a parent.
Thing is I am not a single parent.. so I guess it is a little different
But when I was..g I still always had at last 3 men.. kids never saw one of them.
cali "
i didnt have to put my sex life on hold. but if the only way i could of had sex was with my son in the house then i would have. as i said on this thread before you posted no way would i have a guy who wasnt my partner in to have sex with while he was here. maybe im odd but i just couldnt do it |
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Christ any single or married ladies with kids who want a very understanding, patient laid back guy just message me.I just cant understand these twats lol
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