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over a year ago
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Lost confidence or in fact, just does not want to do it anymore (swing)..talk to her, and ask her why she has lost confidence and work from there..it just may be the fact that she has lost interest in the swimging lifestyle and it's you that now keeps pushing it along and not her.. |
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Agreed. We've recently started to come back into scene after a nearly 5yr break. This was due to little one coming along.
As the male half of the couple, it's definitely a lot easier for me to "get back into it" whereas for Clare think she's still deciding whether we should go back or not.
We've done a couple of socials, got a club night planned and in touch with some of our old play mates to arrange possible meet.
Priorities change though so I'm very conscious that we may have had our day as a swinging couple if she decides not for her anymore.
Confidence for both of us has definitely been an issue. Both put on weight and a lot less stamina than 5yrs ago so working on that too. |
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"Lost confidence or in fact, just does not want to do it anymore (swing)..talk to her, and ask her why she has lost confidence and work from there..it just may be the fact that she has lost interest in the swinging lifestyle and it's you that now keeps pushing it along and not her.."
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Lost confidence can be regained overtime,
The Desire to swing however,
if that's gone be hard to rekindle that.
Obviously as a couple that would be near impossible to continue if one decided to call things a day.
So the million dollar question
Which is lost,
Confidence or desire ?
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"Hi help needed a get missy back into swing things she lost confidence "
awwww hey she just needs someone nice to boost her confidence, maybe me wink wink
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