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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet...." We men are always the villains. Maybe this site is a kinky alter ego of mumsnet  | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet...." Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! " Point missed. | |||
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"Contentious topic perhaps. Quite a few female profiles I’ve seen are along the lines of “hubby doesn’t know I play, meet daytime only” with 50+ male verifications of meets... Call me old fashioned but it isn’ cool to be doing that (just end you unhappy marriage and be single if you want to play around?) + from, the bloke’s perspective, what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Is this kind of thing generally seen as acceptable on a swinging forum as opposed to Ashley Maddison etc.? " Unfortunately nobody gives a damn about women cheating over men cheating. Or if they did, they give a damn less. Simple reason really. Men are expected to be chivalrous. Loyal. Reliable. When was the last time you heard such attributes described about women? | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! Point missed. " Wanna enlighten me on how I missed the point? I was batting for your corner. | |||
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"Contentious topic perhaps. Quite a few female profiles I’ve seen are along the lines of “hubby doesn’t know I play, meet daytime only” with 50+ male verifications of meets... Call me old fashioned but it isn’ cool to be doing that (just end you unhappy marriage and be single if you want to play around?) + from, the bloke’s perspective, what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Is this kind of thing generally seen as acceptable on a swinging forum as opposed to Ashley Maddison etc.? Unfortunately nobody gives a damn about women cheating over men cheating. Or if they did, they give a damn less. Simple reason really. Men are expected to be chivalrous. Loyal. Reliable. When was the last time you heard such attributes described about women? " Perhaps you’re right - but let’s not go down a (potentially misogynistic) rabbit hole of men v women. I’d like to hear balanced contributions from both sexes about how cheating is viewed on the swinging scene. | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! Point missed. Wanna enlighten me on how I missed the point? I was batting for your corner. " He was being ironic mate. | |||
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"Contentious topic perhaps. Quite a few female profiles I’ve seen are along the lines of “hubby doesn’t know I play, meet daytime only” with 50+ male verifications of meets... Call me old fashioned but it isn’ cool to be doing that (just end you unhappy marriage and be single if you want to play around?) + from, the bloke’s perspective, what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Is this kind of thing generally seen as acceptable on a swinging forum as opposed to Ashley Maddison etc.? Unfortunately nobody gives a damn about women cheating over men cheating. Or if they did, they give a damn less. Simple reason really. Men are expected to be chivalrous. Loyal. Reliable. When was the last time you heard such attributes described about women? Perhaps you’re right - but let’s not go down a (potentially misogynistic) rabbit hole of men v women. I’d like to hear balanced contributions from both sexes about how cheating is viewed on the swinging scene. " It's not being misogynistic to call out such gender imbalances in expectations. It's just realism, and I'm as far as possibly can be from being a misogynist by expressing such opinions and wishing to hold women to the same standards as men are! And good luck with getting any women to try justifying their cheating on here. I doubt they'd be eager to comment here anytime soon. But generally speaking one would expect that in the swinging community cheating should be even more frowned upon than in vanilla society, because of the fact that there isn't exactly forbidden fruit of sex with someone outside of a relationship without permission; in swinging everyone should be open minded and accepting enough of such a thing in order to even swing at all. So in swinging, if you cheat, it's even more deplorable because it was a conscious decision made that could and would hurt someone innocent despite the fact that you could very well have asked your partner permission or introduced them to the lifestyle as well. | |||
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"Contentious topic perhaps. Quite a few female profiles I’ve seen are along the lines of “hubby doesn’t know I play, meet daytime only” with 50+ male verifications of meets... Call me old fashioned but it isn’ cool to be doing that (just end you unhappy marriage and be single if you want to play around?) + from, the bloke’s perspective, what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Is this kind of thing generally seen as acceptable on a swinging forum as opposed to Ashley Maddison etc.? Unfortunately nobody gives a damn about women cheating over men cheating. Or if they did, they give a damn less. Simple reason really. Men are expected to be chivalrous. Loyal. Reliable. When was the last time you heard such attributes described about women? Perhaps you’re right - but let’s not go down a (potentially misogynistic) rabbit hole of men v women. I’d like to hear balanced contributions from both sexes about how cheating is viewed on the swinging scene. It's not being misogynistic to call out such gender imbalances in expectations. It's just realism, and I'm as far as possibly can be from being a misogynist by expressing such opinions and wishing to hold women to the same standards as men are! And good luck with getting any women to try justifying their cheating on here. I doubt they'd be eager to comment here anytime soon. But generally speaking one would expect that in the swinging community cheating should be even more frowned upon than in vanilla society, because of the fact that there isn't exactly forbidden fruit of sex with someone outside of a relationship without permission; in swinging everyone should be open minded and accepting enough of such a thing in order to even swing at all. So in swinging, if you cheat, it's even more deplorable because it was a conscious decision made that could and would hurt someone innocent despite the fact that you could very well have asked your partner permission or introduced them to the lifestyle as well. " Fair comment - I don’t disagree with you. I’d just love to hear some comments from females on this topic for balance. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly...." "Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly...." I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... " Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... " You really can’t judge all swingers by the people in the forums.... Most of the people on this site don’t use the forums.... They are actually meeting people and having great sex | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. " Oh I forgot.... don’t call anyone ugly or fat on the forums... | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. Oh I forgot.... don’t call anyone ugly or fat on the forums..." Or just try being a decent human being. Would you call these people fat and ugly to their face? I doubt it. Why stay with that attitude? Must he desparete fir a fuck....even with a fat ugly bird. Shame they have standards too. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. " And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? " That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... You really can’t judge all swingers by the people in the forums.... Most of the people on this site don’t use the forums.... They are actually meeting people and having great sex" Yep. Events for me from now on to meet in the flesh and go from there. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves." Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? | |||
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"No, it isn't generally seen as acceptable. Some people find it so, some don't. " Back on topic finally - thanks - glad to hear that. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... " There are people of all shapes and sizes. If that’s your viewpoint, you’re clearly not looking at a range of profiles. It’s not a great way to get meets from the forum sharing opinions of that type. | |||
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I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums  and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something?" "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet...." No women get the pussy pass | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
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"No, it isn't generally seen as acceptable. Some people find it so, some don't. Back on topic finally - thanks - glad to hear that. " The attitude towards women on here is much the same as in the outside world. very few people view sexually confident positively whatever their dress size and whatever they say publicly. Women cheating on their husbands are viewed by many as harmless and a bit exciting. It's a bit like chat show hosts behaviour towards their guests, sychophancy and smoke blowing. | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
Sits back and waits ...
If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?"Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman ) | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
Sits back and waits ...
If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?
Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman ) "But chose a site you thought was for couples not a site for singles to meet for same sex relationships? You see fab for me is great I get to meet people ( all sorts) for sex and argue with people to, quite like when I was married but with more diversity. | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
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If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?
Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman )
But chose a site you thought was for couples not a site for singles to meet for same sex relationships?
You see fab for me is great I get to meet people ( all sorts) for sex and argue with people to, quite like when I was married but with more diversity."Oh I meet people and my friend was already on here! I said I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples and technically that is the definition but I joined here because I would like to meet a lady to swing with not a same sex relationship! The forums are great for not reading posts but commenting anyway | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
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If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?
Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman )
But chose a site you thought was for couples not a site for singles to meet for same sex relationships?
You see fab for me is great I get to meet people ( all sorts) for sex and argue with people to, quite like when I was married but with more diversity.
Oh I meet people and my friend was already on here! I said I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples and technically that is the definition but I joined here because I would like to meet a lady to swing with not a same sex relationship! The forums are great for not reading posts but commenting anyway "Ooh I think I read your post properly, couples are two people, singles are only one, pscitsoprhenics I geus being an exception to that rule of course. ( sorry about the spelling, so far off auto correct couldn’t help) x | |||
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"The way it looks to me is this: Women generally dislike people who cheat. Men will generally do & accept anything to get a shag. Cal "Exactly, to alot of men on here any hole is a goal , whether the hole is married or not. | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
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If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?
Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman )
But chose a site you thought was for couples not a site for singles to meet for same sex relationships?
You see fab for me is great I get to meet people ( all sorts) for sex and argue with people to, quite like when I was married but with more diversity.
Oh I meet people and my friend was already on here! I said I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples and technically that is the definition but I joined here because I would like to meet a lady to swing with not a same sex relationship! The forums are great for not reading posts but commenting anyway
Ooh I think I read your post properly, couples are two people, singles are only one, pscitsoprhenics I geus being an exception to that rule of course. ( sorry about the spelling, so far off auto correct couldn’t help) x"I have no idea what you just wrote, sorry unless you meant schizophrenics? But it is useless replying backwards and forwards with contrary people as I said both what I thought and why I joined and neither of those are likely to change ... enjoy fabbing x | |||
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"And that the opinion that women with a higher dress size should some how have less expections and self worth is a load of tripe. If I was a size 6 and only attracted guys with that opinion I'd swap men for a year supply of doughnuts." The OP has had loads of size 6s so he wouldn’t want that either! | |||
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"The way it looks to me is this: Women generally dislike people who cheat. Men will generally do & accept anything to get a shag. Cal
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"Contentious topic perhaps. Quite a few female profiles I’ve seen are along the lines of “hubby doesn’t know I play, meet daytime only” with 50+ male verifications of meets... Call me old fashioned but it isn’ cool to be doing that (just end you unhappy marriage and be single if you want to play around?) + from, the bloke’s perspective, what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Is this kind of thing generally seen as acceptable on a swinging forum as opposed to Ashley Maddison etc.? Unfortunately nobody gives a damn about women cheating over men cheating. Or if they did, they give a damn less. Simple reason really. Men are expected to be chivalrous. Loyal. Reliable. When was the last time you heard such attributes described about women? " Its not that no one gives a damn about women cheating. Speaking in general terms if a man is cheating couples and single female have plenty more fish in the sea so have no worries about knocking men having affairs off their potential meets list. Men on the other hand have far less choice and so knocking women who cheat off their list is a more expensive price to pay. Its a supply and demand issue. I'd also suggest men are more genetical prone to be accepting of cheating. If you watch animal behaviour when the long term partner is distracted gathering or fighting a rival that will be when other single males see opportunity to get in and out quickly. | |||
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"I dislike cheating, male or female. Many others do too from reading other threads. Perhaps a way to look at it is, women are more likely to verbalise their dislike because they have more choice on here and men are more prepared to overlook - whether because there are less options of maybe sex takes over? Just a theory to discuss. Perhaps for some men there is also an element of taking another man's partner too? I’ve seen a lot of male profiles saying they like cheating wives but never the equivalent on a woman’s. " Oh there are loads of those by women actually. Lots of women who say they want to have sex with married men, presumably because they like the idea of ‘winning’ in some sense of competition. | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
Sits back and waits ...
If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?
Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman )
But chose a site you thought was for couples not a site for singles to meet for same sex relationships?
You see fab for me is great I get to meet people ( all sorts) for sex and argue with people to, quite like when I was married but with more diversity.
Oh I meet people and my friend was already on here! I said I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples and technically that is the definition but I joined here because I would like to meet a lady to swing with not a same sex relationship! The forums are great for not reading posts but commenting anyway
Ooh I think I read your post properly, couples are two people, singles are only one, pscitsoprhenics I geus being an exception to that rule of course. ( sorry about the spelling, so far off auto correct couldn’t help) x"I think you missed her point. She came on here to meet a woman so that they could swing together, as a couple. This is clearly a good place for that as she will know that the women who she chats with are already comfortable with the concept of swinging, whereas this wouldn’t be the case on a conventional dating site. | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
Sits back and waits ...
If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?
Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman )
But chose a site you thought was for couples not a site for singles to meet for same sex relationships?
You see fab for me is great I get to meet people ( all sorts) for sex and argue with people to, quite like when I was married but with more diversity.
Oh I meet people and my friend was already on here! I said I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples and technically that is the definition but I joined here because I would like to meet a lady to swing with not a same sex relationship! The forums are great for not reading posts but commenting anyway
Ooh I think I read your post properly, couples are two people, singles are only one, pscitsoprhenics I geus being an exception to that rule of course. ( sorry about the spelling, so far off auto correct couldn’t help) x
I think you missed her point. She came on here to meet a woman so that they could swing together, as a couple. This is clearly a good place for that as she will know that the women who she chats with are already comfortable with the concept of swinging, whereas this wouldn’t be the case on a conventional dating site. " just this! | |||
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" But generally speaking one would expect that in the swinging community cheating should be even more frowned upon than in vanilla society, because of the fact that there isn't exactly forbidden fruit of sex with someone outside of a relationship without permission; in swinging everyone should be open minded and accepting enough of such a thing in order to even swing at all. So in swinging, if you cheat, it's even more deplorable because it was a conscious decision made that could and would hurt someone innocent despite the fact that you could very well have asked your partner permission or introduced them to the lifestyle as well. " I also don't think being rude about people based on size, or suggesting they shouldn't be allowed self confidence is widely accepted either. | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! " A rare voice of sanity! Couldn't agree more with you. | |||
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"To the OP There are two areas that I would like to comment on First cheating. As humans we were never a monogamous species. That was enforced on us as Christianity took over the world. If you look at the history of humankind you will see most of the civalisations before then where non monogamous. With that in mind it's a more natural state for us to have more than one partner and this means that you can fullfil this need either by being openly non monogamous or by cheating. The sad case is that all genders can cheat. It's not exclusive to cis male and cis female. It's up to the individuals themselves if they wish to do that who are we to judge. If you feel it goes against your morals then don't meet them. This being said how are you going to be certain that anyone your meet is not cheating on their partner. Be it at a club or out of a club as alot of individuals are very good at hiding it. Second point. Does size really matter when highlighting you had a lady ask to piss over your cock. Or would you have been happy for a size 6 to do it ? Your comments come across as bigger people should not be swinging. Yes O agree have your preferences as not everyone is going to be your cup of tea on here but don't single out a whole group of people just because they don't match your wants. No doubt you have messaged people who have not been interested in you for some reason. Just remember everyone on here has the right to be on here even if you feel it's wrong" | |||
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"Just to add: me saying I think it is males fault is supposed to be tongue in cheek before I get ran out of here with torches and pitch forks lol xxx " *puts down torch and pitchfork* | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! " Your last sentence is correct,however your second paragraph is sh*te. | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! Your last sentence is correct,however your second paragraph is sh*te." Ooh why so touchy? Hit a nerve there? | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! Your last sentence is correct,however your second paragraph is sh*te. Ooh why so touchy? Hit a nerve there? " Yes darling as I'm such a Princess and demand I'm wined and dined before anyone fucks me,it's the very least I expect. Then I demand you get on your knees and propose and keep me in the life I'm accustomed to. It was a stupid remark. | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! Your last sentence is correct,however your second paragraph is sh*te. Ooh why so touchy? Hit a nerve there? Yes darling as I'm such a Princess and demand I'm wined and dined before anyone fucks me,it's the very least I expect. Then I demand you get on your knees and propose and keep me in the life I'm accustomed to. It was a stupid remark." But well done you for pissing up her lamppost. | |||
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""Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! " As a couple that have a number of single female friends in the lifestyle this is a very general sweeping statement. Our single female friends are confident in who they are and what they want. That's the same as us saying "All single men on here are manipulative pushy and abuser" simply because we have had one example of that event from a single man Sweeping statements and trying to attribute one type of behaviour to any one group of people is damaging and causes rifts within the local community. Also it gives a very dim view to new people that come into the scene and look. At the forums for guidance etc" I agree. | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! " So it's the woman's fault? Perhaps if the three married men in question hadn't cheated on their wives they wouldn't now be ex-husband's. | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! " Single women provide that too and we don't all wanted to be treated like princess and get clingy; I don't even want a social before the sex. It's more a case of the the men who meet married women either don't care, because they're getting sex, or the fact the woman is married turns them on. Married men tend to come onto the forums and ask why women and couples won't meet them; which means they are putting themselves in the spotlight. Married women tend to keep it on the down low, but I do know that they are hounded off the site the same as married men are. | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! So it's the woman's fault? Perhaps if the three married men in question hadn't cheated on their wives they wouldn't now be ex-husband's." What makes you think it was the men cheating? Because in all three cases it wasn't. Way to miss the point. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. Oh I forgot.... don’t call anyone ugly or fat on the forums..." Fat, yes. Ugly, well, how much can a person change about that?  | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! So it's the woman's fault? Perhaps if the three married men in question hadn't cheated on their wives they wouldn't now be ex-husband's. What makes you think it was the men cheating? Because in all three cases it wasn't. Way to miss the point. " Statistically 45% of men have said they have cheated on their partner where as 22% of women. So you can understand why people would assume rightly or wrongly that it was the men that cheated | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... " This just got interesting | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! So it's the woman's fault? Perhaps if the three married men in question hadn't cheated on their wives they wouldn't now be ex-husband's. What makes you think it was the men cheating? Because in all three cases it wasn't. Way to miss the point. Statistically 45% of men have said they have cheated on their partner where as 22% of women. So you can understand why people would assume rightly or wrongly that it was the men that cheated " That was one study. The results vary depending on the phrasing of the question and the collection method. The better studies put both at over half. | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! So it's the woman's fault? Perhaps if the three married men in question hadn't cheated on their wives they wouldn't now be ex-husband's. What makes you think it was the men cheating? Because in all three cases it wasn't. Way to miss the point. Statistically 45% of men have said they have cheated on their partner where as 22% of women. So you can understand why people would assume rightly or wrongly that it was the men that cheated That was one study. The results vary depending on the phrasing of the question and the collection method. The better studies put both at over half. " Interesting choice of words better study's. You don't even know own the study I was quoting from ? | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
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If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?
Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman )
But chose a site you thought was for couples not a site for singles to meet for same sex relationships?
You see fab for me is great I get to meet people ( all sorts) for sex and argue with people to, quite like when I was married but with more diversity.
Oh I meet people and my friend was already on here! I said I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples and technically that is the definition but I joined here because I would like to meet a lady to swing with not a same sex relationship! The forums are great for not reading posts but commenting anyway
Ooh I think I read your post properly, couples are two people, singles are only one, pscitsoprhenics I geus being an exception to that rule of course. ( sorry about the spelling, so far off auto correct couldn’t help) x
I have no idea what you just wrote, sorry unless you meant schizophrenics? But it is useless replying backwards and forwards with contrary people as I said both what I thought and why I joined and neither of those are likely to change ... enjoy fabbing x"Babe I’m sorry I was just enjoying playing. I really wouldn’t want to upset you I just like a little row in the mornings. Again sorry if I went to far. X | |||
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"I know exactly what the op means! When I joined I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples! Naive... lol whereas here really seems to be a site for anyone to have sex with anyone (the rougher the better) and cheating is perfectly normal and acceptable!!
I have never felt so bashed in my life for not being a BBW as in the forums and to make it worse they have better personalities, more fun and are nicer whilst I sit back and actually enjoy feeling their drama in the chatrooms!
Sorry and as usual you can all bash my opinions as that what seems to have, mainly if you're not in with the 'in crowd'
And yes cheating is and always will be wrong ... let's face it whatever a person says on their profile they do not love or respect their partners!!
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If you thought swinging was for couples why did you join, you prof says women?
Actually I joined hoping to find a lady to swing with (hopefully it says woman )
But chose a site you thought was for couples not a site for singles to meet for same sex relationships?
You see fab for me is great I get to meet people ( all sorts) for sex and argue with people to, quite like when I was married but with more diversity.
Oh I meet people and my friend was already on here! I said I believed swinging meant couples sharing sex with other couples and technically that is the definition but I joined here because I would like to meet a lady to swing with not a same sex relationship! The forums are great for not reading posts but commenting anyway
Ooh I think I read your post properly, couples are two people, singles are only one, pscitsoprhenics I geus being an exception to that rule of course. ( sorry about the spelling, so far off auto correct couldn’t help) x
I have no idea what you just wrote, sorry unless you meant schizophrenics? But it is useless replying backwards and forwards with contrary people as I said both what I thought and why I joined and neither of those are likely to change ... enjoy fabbing x
Babe I’m sorry I was just enjoying playing. I really wouldn’t want to upset you I just like a little row in the mornings. Again sorry if I went to far. X"Being contrary isn't playing... playing is fun for all parties! And I don't enjoy a row at anytime of the day and especially would never pick one with a stranger for my own enjoyment... you haven't gone too far or upset me, just look a bit of an eejit to be honest | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! So it's the woman's fault? Perhaps if the three married men in question hadn't cheated on their wives they wouldn't now be ex-husband's. What makes you think it was the men cheating? Because in all three cases it wasn't. Way to miss the point. Statistically 45% of men have said they have cheated on their partner where as 22% of women. So you can understand why people would assume rightly or wrongly that it was the men that cheated That was one study. The results vary depending on the phrasing of the question and the collection method. The better studies put both at over half. Interesting choice of words better study's. You don't even know own the study I was quoting from ?" Of course i do! There aren't many studies on the subject and the one you quoted is very famous.
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! So it's the woman's fault? Perhaps if the three married men in question hadn't cheated on their wives they wouldn't now be ex-husband's. What makes you think it was the men cheating? Because in all three cases it wasn't. Way to miss the point. Statistically 45% of men have said they have cheated on their partner where as 22% of women. So you can understand why people would assume rightly or wrongly that it was the men that cheated That was one study. The results vary depending on the phrasing of the question and the collection method. The better studies put both at over half. Interesting choice of words better study's. You don't even know own the study I was quoting from ? Of course i do! There aren't many studies on the subject and the one you quoted is very famous.
Yes, "better studies", refer to my logic if that confuses you. "It's a matter of a difference of opinion not confusion on my behalf. I have ready many different studies on the subject of relationships, cheating and ethical and non ethical monogamy. In my opinion I found the one I quoted from very interesting as it broke down in different areas of what indivduals deem as the definition of cheating and then aimed questions at this areas. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. " But I didn’t say everyone on here was like that, as you implied. And I was responding to a post referencing “my world”. My world hasn’t consisted of having sex with obese people. | |||
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"To the OP There are two areas that I would like to comment on First cheating. As humans we were never a monogamous species. That was enforced on us as Christianity took over the world. If you look at the history of humankind you will see most of the civalisations before then where non monogamous. With that in mind it's a more natural state for us to have more than one partner and this means that you can fullfil this need either by being openly non monogamous or by cheating. The sad case is that all genders can cheat. It's not exclusive to cis male and cis female. It's up to the individuals themselves if they wish to do that who are we to judge. If you feel it goes against your morals then don't meet them. This being said how are you going to be certain that anyone your meet is not cheating on their partner. Be it at a club or out of a club as alot of individuals are very good at hiding it. Second point. Does size really matter when highlighting you had a lady ask to piss over your cock. Or would you have been happy for a size 6 to do it ? Your comments come across as bigger people should not be swinging. Yes O agree have your preferences as not everyone is going to be your cup of tea on here but don't single out a whole group of people just because they don't match your wants. No doubt you have messaged people who have not been interested in you for some reason. Just remember everyone on here has the right to be on here even if you feel it's wrong" "To the OP There are two areas that I would like to comment on First cheating. As humans we were never a monogamous species. That was enforced on us as Christianity took over the world. If you look at the history of humankind you will see most of the civalisations before then where non monogamous. With that in mind it's a more natural state for us to have more than one partner and this means that you can fullfil this need either by being openly non monogamous or by cheating. The sad case is that all genders can cheat. It's not exclusive to cis male and cis female. It's up to the individuals themselves if they wish to do that who are we to judge. If you feel it goes against your morals then don't meet them. This being said how are you going to be certain that anyone your meet is not cheating on their partner. Be it at a club or out of a club as alot of individuals are very good at hiding it. Second point. Does size really matter when highlighting you had a lady ask to piss over your cock. Or would you have been happy for a size 6 to do it ? Your comments come across as bigger people should not be swinging. Yes O agree have your preferences as not everyone is going to be your cup of tea on here but don't single out a whole group of people just because they don't match your wants. No doubt you have messaged people who have not been interested in you for some reason. Just remember everyone on here has the right to be on here even if you feel it's wrong" "To the OP There are two areas that I would like to comment on First cheating. As humans we were never a monogamous species. That was enforced on us as Christianity took over the world. If you look at the history of humankind you will see most of the civalisations before then where non monogamous. With that in mind it's a more natural state for us to have more than one partner and this means that you can fullfil this need either by being openly non monogamous or by cheating. The sad case is that all genders can cheat. It's not exclusive to cis male and cis female. It's up to the individuals themselves if they wish to do that who are we to judge. If you feel it goes against your morals then don't meet them. This being said how are you going to be certain that anyone your meet is not cheating on their partner. Be it at a club or out of a club as alot of individuals are very good at hiding it. Second point. Does size really matter when highlighting you had a lady ask to piss over your cock. Or would you have been happy for a size 6 to do it ? Your comments come across as bigger people should not be swinging. Yes O agree have your preferences as not everyone is going to be your cup of tea on here but don't single out a whole group of people just because they don't match your wants. No doubt you have messaged people who have not been interested in you for some reason. Just remember everyone on here has the right to be on here even if you feel it's wrong" 1. Very true that both genders can cheat, but should those people be openly advertising themselves as doing so on here? Some are. My view is that if you’re in a monogomous relationship you don’t want to be in you should be honest enough to end it before going online and finding other sexual partners... I find that extraordinary for two reasons: A. Surely cheating is a distinct concept from swinging... B. The risk factor for the guy concerned.... If I was hubby in that situation, came home and found my other half shagging someone off the Internet that person would have a very, very big problem on their hands !!! 2. Ok fair point. No, I wouldn’t have been happy for a size 6 to do it either. I was previously referencing a post talking about “my world” - I didn’t mean to come across as a body fascist there and I have no issue with size [whatever] swinging. | |||
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"what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? " Most married women playing away don't accommodate so this is unlikely to happen if its at yours. In the big picture though most guys don't discount married women playing away its what 20 men to one women its only going to get harder if you reduce the women available. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. But I didn’t say everyone on here was like that, as you implied. And I was responding to a post referencing “my world”. My world hasn’t consisted of having sex with obese people. " Gosh I like this thread. | |||
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"And that the opinion that women with a higher dress size should some how have less expections and self worth is a load of tripe. If I was a size 6 and only attracted guys with that opinion I'd swap men for a year supply of doughnuts."
Being fat must mean we should have low self esteem and no confidence to some.
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. But I didn’t say everyone on here was like that, as you implied. And I was responding to a post referencing “my world”. My world hasn’t consisted of having sex with obese people. Gosh I like this thread. " Oh for god’s sake. Why are we all so PC these days. What the hell is wrong with expressing a preference?! I prefer red to white wine. I wear a Swiss watch and drive a German car. I don’t sleep with the morbidly obese. Does any of that make me a wanker? Probably. But at least I’m honest about it. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. But I didn’t say everyone on here was like that, as you implied. And I was responding to a post referencing “my world”. My world hasn’t consisted of having sex with obese people. Gosh I like this thread. Oh for god’s sake. Why are we all so PC these days. What the hell is wrong with expressing a preference?! I prefer red to white wine. I wear a Swiss watch and drive a German car. I don’t sleep with the morbidly obese. Does any of that make me a wanker? Probably. But at least I’m honest about it. "You are entitled to a preference, no one has said you aren’t. It’s the fact you said “I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves...” Put any size in that sentence and it just sounds twatish. Are fatties not allowed to have standard and have a high opinion of themselves or are we all supposed to have low self esteem and be grateful for any attention we get? | |||
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"what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Most married women playing away don't accommodate so this is unlikely to happen if its at yours. In the big picture though most guys don't discount married women playing away its what 20 men to one women its only going to get harder if you reduce the women available. " I agree. It’s pretty obvious women are more picky and there are many who won’t meet with married men including myself, but there are plenty who don’t care. But I feel with men they are less likely to care about a woman’s marital status. Probably because of the ratio of women to men on here, or most likely because they actually don’t care! Each to their own and all. | |||
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"Also, you may want to tweak your profile to address that you’re looking for women under a certain size or a certain dress size if that is the case, as right now it says you’re open to all body shapes. This isn’t profile advice BTW, it simply saves people who you aren’t interested wasting their time messaging you after seeing that part of your profile, it also saves you time reading messages from the morbidly obese! " | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! Your last sentence is correct,however your second paragraph is sh*te." It's not though, I hear it all the time and witness all the lamp post pissing in veri's. What is shite are all the single women saying that guys only have sex with married women because basically they can't get it elsewhere! | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. But I didn’t say everyone on here was like that, as you implied. And I was responding to a post referencing “my world”. My world hasn’t consisted of having sex with obese people. Gosh I like this thread. Oh for god’s sake. Why are we all so PC these days. What the hell is wrong with expressing a preference?! I prefer red to white wine. I wear a Swiss watch and drive a German car. I don’t sleep with the morbidly obese. Does any of that make me a wanker? Probably. But at least I’m honest about it.
You are entitled to a preference, no one has said you aren’t.
It’s the fact you said “I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves...”
Put any size in that sentence and it just sounds twatish.
Are fatties not allowed to have standard and have a high opinion of themselves or are we all
supposed to have low self esteem and be grateful for any attention we get? "It was a poor choice of words and I sounded a lot more twattish than I meant to. Come on Chanelle, I’ve already told you I think you’re stunning. | |||
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"Also, you may want to tweak your profile to address that you’re looking for women under a certain size or a certain dress size if that is the case, as right now it says you’re open to all body shapes. This isn’t profile advice BTW, it simply saves people who you aren’t interested wasting their time messaging you after seeing that part of your profile, it also saves you time reading messages from the morbidly obese! "I’m not a body fascist, I don’t impose a certain dress/weight size! In any case I get virtually no messages anyway!  | |||
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" Single women provide that too and we don't all wanted to be treated like princess and get clingy; I don't even want a social before the sex. " Really? That’s quite unusual. How can you have sex with someone you haven’t even got to know? Even as a single guy with a high sex drive, I couldn’t do that. | |||
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" Single women provide that too and we don't all wanted to be treated like princess and get clingy; I don't even want a social before the sex. Really? That’s quite unusual. How can you have sex with someone you haven’t even got to know? Even as a single guy with a high sex drive, I couldn’t do that. " A view a lot of people will find bizarre on a swinging site.... | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. But I didn’t say everyone on here was like that, as you implied. And I was responding to a post referencing “my world”. My world hasn’t consisted of having sex with obese people. Gosh I like this thread. Oh for god’s sake. Why are we all so PC these days. What the hell is wrong with expressing a preference?! I prefer red to white wine. I wear a Swiss watch and drive a German car. I don’t sleep with the morbidly obese. Does any of that make me a wanker? Probably. But at least I’m honest about it.
You are entitled to a preference, no one has said you aren’t.
It’s the fact you said “I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves...”
Put any size in that sentence and it just sounds twatish.
Are fatties not allowed to have standard and have a high opinion of themselves or are we all
supposed to have low self esteem and be grateful for any attention we get?
It was a poor choice of words and I sounded a lot more twattish than I meant to.
Come on Chanelle, I’ve already told you I think you’re stunning. "I did think I recognised your face picture & wondered if we had spoken. Haha! We can agree it was a poor choice of words! No harm done! | |||
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" Single women provide that too and we don't all wanted to be treated like princess and get clingy; I don't even want a social before the sex. Really? That’s quite unusual. How can you have sex with someone you haven’t even got to know? Even as a single guy with a high sex drive, I couldn’t do that. A view a lot of people will find bizarre on a swinging site...." But surely swinging has a social element? Personally I can’t imagine sleeping with someone who I haven’t at least got to know over a few social drinks. If I wanted to do that I may as well go to a prostitute. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. But I didn’t say everyone on here was like that, as you implied. And I was responding to a post referencing “my world”. My world hasn’t consisted of having sex with obese people. Gosh I like this thread. Oh for god’s sake. Why are we all so PC these days. What the hell is wrong with expressing a preference?! I prefer red to white wine. I wear a Swiss watch and drive a German car. I don’t sleep with the morbidly obese. Does any of that make me a wanker? Probably. But at least I’m honest about it.
You are entitled to a preference, no one has said you aren’t.
It’s the fact you said “I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves...”
Put any size in that sentence and it just sounds twatish.
Are fatties not allowed to have standard and have a high opinion of themselves or are we all
supposed to have low self esteem and be grateful for any attention we get?
It was a poor choice of words and I sounded a lot more twattish than I meant to.
Come on Chanelle, I’ve already told you I think you’re stunning.
I did think I recognised your face picture & wondered if we had spoken. Haha!
We can agree it was a poor choice of words! No harm done! "We spoke just over 12 hours ago! This is the problem with this site - people have very short attention spans! | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Oh dear what an attitude to have. Nobody is forcing you to stay. And what attitude would that be, exactly? A highlight of this website so far was an unsolicited message from a size 20 lady offering to piss all over my cock, or piss all over me. Erm, no. Ta muchly. Thoughts? That not all the women on here are fat with a high expectation of themselves. Nobody said they were, unless I’ve missed something? "I'm increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves"... just in case you forgot what you said. But I didn’t say everyone on here was like that, as you implied. And I was responding to a post referencing “my world”. My world hasn’t consisted of having sex with obese people. Gosh I like this thread. Oh for god’s sake. Why are we all so PC these days. What the hell is wrong with expressing a preference?! I prefer red to white wine. I wear a Swiss watch and drive a German car. I don’t sleep with the morbidly obese. Does any of that make me a wanker? Probably. But at least I’m honest about it. "You PC bro? | |||
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"Contentious topic perhaps. Quite a few female profiles I’ve seen are along the lines of “hubby doesn’t know I play, meet daytime only” with 50+ male verifications of meets... Call me old fashioned but it isn’ cool to be doing that (just end you unhappy marriage and be single if you want to play around?) + from, the bloke’s perspective, what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Is this kind of thing generally seen as acceptable on a swinging forum as opposed to Ashley Maddison etc.? " What newspaper do you work for | |||
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"Good grief! It's taken me ages to read through this thread because of people quoting longer and longer previous posts before adding their bit! Anyway I just want to tell you a cautionary tale as to why I don't want to meet 'cheating swingers: I recently had a very lengthy awkward conversation on WhatsApp with a woman who had found my phone number and address written on the back of an opticians appointment card amongst her husband's belongings. She was very persistent and eventually I had to block her number because although I hadn't given her any cause to guess the truth, she was obviously very distraught and suspicious. I felt sorry for her .... and guilty ... I knew I had met the guy in question a year or so ago even though she was calling him by a name I didn't recognise. But I came to realise that as a happily libertine married woman with a long and open relationship with my husband, I couldn't expect others to understand or agree with my lifestyle. It is unfair to inflict it on people who have more conservative beliefs about the sanctity of marriage." Nothing for you to feel guilty about there. Even if you’d told her the truth, you’d have done nothing wrong. Why should you have to lie to cover up the infidelity of a stranger ?! | |||
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"And that the opinion that women with a higher dress size should some how have less expections and self worth is a load of tripe. If I was a size 6 and only attracted guys with that opinion I'd swap men for a year supply of doughnuts." Love this | |||
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" Single women provide that too and we don't all wanted to be treated like princess and get clingy; I don't even want a social before the sex. Really? That’s quite unusual. How can you have sex with someone you haven’t even got to know? Even as a single guy with a high sex drive, I couldn’t do that. " I didn't say I don't get to know them first. I recently met up with a man from here I have been chatting to for a year. He was well worth the wait. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... " Why shouldn't I have a high opinion of myself? Does having more fat on my body than your petite drama queens mean I'm not deserving of the men I'm seeing? | |||
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" Nothing for you to feel guilty about there. Even if you’d told her the truth, you’d have done nothing wrong. Why should you have to lie to cover up the infidelity of a stranger ?! " Maybe therein lies some of the difference between men and women with regards to cheating: I felt sorry for that woman who suspected her husband had been unfaithful. If it had been the other way around and I was a guy and another guy suspected me of fucking his wife, he would have been more likely to seek me out in person and smack me in the chops ... I wouldn't have felt guilty then .. just pissed off lol! | |||
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"Contentious topic perhaps. Quite a few female profiles I’ve seen are along the lines of “hubby doesn’t know I play, meet daytime only” with 50+ male verifications of meets... Call me old fashioned but it isn’ cool to be doing that (just end you unhappy marriage and be single if you want to play around?) + from, the bloke’s perspective, what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Is this kind of thing generally seen as acceptable on a swinging forum as opposed to Ashley Maddison etc.? Unfortunately nobody gives a damn about women cheating over men cheating. Or if they did, they give a damn less. Simple reason really. Men are expected to be chivalrous. Loyal. Reliable. When was the last time you heard such attributes described about women? Perhaps you’re right - but let’s not go down a (potentially misogynistic) rabbit hole of men v women. I’d like to hear balanced contributions from both sexes about how cheating is viewed on the swinging scene. " I sleep with married men who are cheating on their wives! There are many reasons why they do it, but none are my business. I love sex, I don't want a relationship, I'm not looking for love.... Just filthy, kinky sex! | |||
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"If a man is cheating on fab he is the worst human on earth...... If a woman is cheating on fab no one bats a eye.... You know why? Women know how to be discreet.... Horseshit. Bragging isn't restricted only to men. Don't make it sound like only men can't be discreet because I personally know three examples of women who couldn't keep discreet and ruined marriages in the process! So it's the woman's fault? Perhaps if the three married men in question hadn't cheated on their wives they wouldn't now be ex-husband's. What makes you think it was the men cheating? Because in all three cases it wasn't. Way to miss the point. " Ah, so three women cheated on their husband's then shouted it from the rooftops. Got you now. | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... " I'm a size 16/18 and have a reet high opinion of myself cos I AM SOMEBODY!.... Its called confidence lovey and comes in all shapes and sizes!!! Good luck with your closed mind lol | |||
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"I dislike cheating, male or female. Many others do too from reading other threads. Perhaps a way to look at it is, women are more likely to verbalise their dislike because they have more choice on here and men are more prepared to overlook - whether because there are less options of maybe sex takes over? Just a theory to discuss. Perhaps for some men there is also an element of taking another man's partner too? I’ve seen a lot of male profiles saying they like cheating wives but never the equivalent on a woman’s. " This ,seen lots of men start threads on how they love shagging other mens wives secretly. Some will meet cheats,some won't If the married person is open about it and has it on their profile,then people cam make an informed choice..its the cheats that lie (both sexes)that get peoples backs up,as they have tricked someone to get a meet. Miss | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Why shouldn't I have a high opinion of myself? Does having more fat on my body than your petite drama queens mean I'm not deserving of the men I'm seeing? " I never said you shouldn’t have. So long as you’re happy in yourself that’s the main thing. Meanwhile I’ve joined a swingers site and all I seem to be doing is arguing on it. So I’m off speed dating tonight! Wish me luck. | |||
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" Single women provide that too and we don't all wanted to be treated like princess and get clingy; I don't even want a social before the sex. Really? That’s quite unusual. How can you have sex with someone you haven’t even got to know? Even as a single guy with a high sex drive, I couldn’t do that. " That's not unusual at all for this site. Many people have had sex with others without getting to know them, myself included. Try not to be judgemental and try and take more or a 'live and let live' attitude. There are both men and women on here who cheat, they have their reasons. We shouldn't judge others without knowing facts. | |||
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" Single women provide that too and we don't all wanted to be treated like princess and get clingy; I don't even want a social before the sex. Really? That’s quite unusual. How can you have sex with someone you haven’t even got to know? Even as a single guy with a high sex drive, I couldn’t do that. That's not unusual at all for this site. Many people have had sex with others without getting to know them, myself included. Try not to be judgemental and try and take more or a 'live and let live' attitude. There are both men and women on here who cheat, they have their reasons. We shouldn't judge others without knowing facts." | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... I'm a size 16/18 and have a reet high opinion of myself cos I AM SOMEBODY!.... Its called confidence lovey and comes in all shapes and sizes!!! Good luck with your closed mind lol" Good for you - so long as you’re happy with yourself. I AM SOMEBODY too. I’m someone who takes pride in myself, hits the gym a few times a week and watches what I eat. I expect the same from people I shag. What’s closed minded about that, exactly? | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Why shouldn't I have a high opinion of myself? Does having more fat on my body than your petite drama queens mean I'm not deserving of the men I'm seeing? I never said you shouldn’t have. So long as you’re happy in yourself that’s the main thing. Meanwhile I’ve joined a swingers site and all I seem to be doing is arguing on it. So I’m off speed dating tonight! Wish me luck. " 3 mins to decide - 1. Is she married. 2. Is she a size 6-8 non-argumentative. 3. I wonder if she's a swinger on Fab. Good luck | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... " I'm a size 8 with a low opinion of myself
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"I don't like cheating. It hurts and I know from personal experience it brought me to the lowest point in my life and nearly destroyed me. I never want to be in that dark place again. But life is not black and white. I think cheating raises questions not just on the morality of the the cheater but also does the nature of monogomus relationships work for everyone and on how select a partner? Maybe before we take harsh judgment on the cheat we should at least look at the nature of the relationship, the social constraints expected, the quality of the match and also the attitudes and actions of the other person. Seems to me there are different reasons for cheating and different type. Also seems to me the actions of a cheat doesn't automatically exonerate the other partner from their failings towards the realtionships. Sometimes I think cheating is symptom of a failing relationship and blame may not lie predominantly with the cheat. I think we need a more adult approch to infidelity. And of course despite what I just said above some people are just selfish dicks." | |||
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"Pretty sure the point of swinging is that it doesn't involve cheating... L
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"Pretty sure the point of swinging is that it doesn't involve cheating... L
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"I've always wondered what those speed dating events are like. Would you fill us in when you get back please. I've done them in the past. They are good really but fuck me is there a lot that some people neglect to tell you in the first 3 minutes. " Oh you do make me laugh. They sound like a gimmicky must-be-done thing for the middle classes, when they're fed up with Japanese cookery classes. | |||
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"Perhaps many are looking at this from the wrong angle.. Morally is Swinging wrong in any Married relationship? Especially those that got married in Church ? So what do you do...If you decide to step outside of your Wedding Vowels and have consensual Sex with others without being judged by the 'Holier than thou brigade' what difference does it make if the people you are having Sex with are also breaking their wedding vowels..Cheating as some would say or otherwise. just a view, nothing more " We don’t agree with cheating because of the deceit, we are happy to let each other have sex. We didn’t get married in a church, if civil partnership existed when we got married that’s what we would have chose. | |||
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"Perhaps many are looking at this from the wrong angle.. Morally is Swinging wrong in any Married relationship? Especially those that got married in Church ? So what do you do...If you decide to step outside of your Wedding Vowels and have consensual Sex with others without being judged by the 'Holier than thou brigade' what difference does it make if the people you are having Sex with are also breaking their wedding vowels..Cheating as some would say or otherwise. just a view, nothing more " I'm not Christian so if I were to be married, that argument wouldn't apply to me. Sure I'm not the only person on here who isn't. However, morally, I don't want to make another human being feel like crap because I wanted a bit of fun. Also, selfishly, I don't want to open myself up to drama. Plus, the couple of men I've met who turned out to be married (no experience of married women to compare I'm afraid!) are the ones who were hard to pin down for a date, cancel last minute, get a phone call and have to rush off etc... | |||
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"Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... Imagine a world where you have 500 women to 1 man... In this world a man gets 300 messages daily from women asking to have sex. In this world women don’t care about your relationship status or how you look.. the most important thing to them is the fact you have a penis... Well Fab is the inverse of this world... This place defies logic.... don’t spend to much time trying to figure this out. You have two options.... Hold on to your standards and wait for the right female or couple to approach you on your terms... Or Waste your time meeting people you don’t want to have sex with just to be friendly.... I’m new to swinging. Tbh my world has largely consisted petite size 6-8 dramatic girlfriends. Now that I’m single, I’ve come on here to escape their drama because I want to experience incredible sexual experiences with swingers. I’m increasingly worried that swingers = size 20s with a high opinion of themselves... Why shouldn't I have a high opinion of myself? Does having more fat on my body than your petite drama queens mean I'm not deserving of the men I'm seeing? I never said you shouldn’t have. So long as you’re happy in yourself that’s the main thing. Meanwhile I’ve joined a swingers site and all I seem to be doing is arguing on it. So I’m off speed dating tonight! Wish me luck. 3 mins to decide - 1. Is she married. 2. Is she a size 6-8 non-argumentative. 3. I wonder if she's a swinger on Fab. Good luck
Agreed.
Hence why the wingman and I are off speed dating tonight.
I’m going to go to some swingers events and get verified, I won’t be sending any more pointless messages to people ten years older than me on here, that’s for sure.
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"Be careful oldies go to those, plus fatties.... Mind you I'm only into facially attractive men... You're safe from me! Cheerio sweetcheeks! Being facially attractive has never been an issue for me.... " .... Hahaha and a larger lady has no issue in meeting any 'man' of her choice! You should go to clubs and find out for yourself. Don't take my word for it | |||
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"I do wonder if cheating will edge more towards being a legal offence? My reasoning is that recently there was the case of the lady who had consensual sex with who she thought was a man but later turned out to be female. She then accused said female of sexual assualt as she had mins-represented herself. A similar argument could be made for cheating, you are not misrepresenting your gender, but you would be misrepresenting your sexual health risks. " We're going to need a bigger police force | |||
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"I do wonder if cheating will edge more towards being a legal offence? My reasoning is that recently there was the case of the lady who had consensual sex with who she thought was a man but later turned out to be female. She then accused said female of sexual assualt as she had mins-represented herself. A similar argument could be made for cheating, you are not misrepresenting your gender, but you would be misrepresenting your sexual health risks. We're going to need a bigger police force "Jeeezus!! They write off enough proper crimes as it is | |||
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"Contentious topic perhaps. Quite a few female profiles I’ve seen are along the lines of “hubby doesn’t know I play, meet daytime only” with 50+ male verifications of meets... Call me old fashioned but it isn’ cool to be doing that (just end you unhappy marriage and be single if you want to play around?) + from, the bloke’s perspective, what if hubby comes home unexpectedly and finds you merrily riding his mrs? Is this kind of thing generally seen as acceptable on a swinging forum as opposed to Ashley Maddison etc.? " Your only here a week OP... it's not all sex deprived women. I had a guy message me looking to meet up when I had a single female profile. His sob story was his wife didnt want to have sex with him anymore, so basically he was in a sexless marriage. They hadn't had sex in months. Attached to his message was a photo. Turns out I knew him, well enough for him to be one of the 170 friends I had on a social media site. His wife of 14 months was 8 and a half months pregnant.. point being OP more than likely it would be the wife walking in on the hubby banging away at someone. Most messages females get come from married men who are looking for a quick shag to relieve a horn | |||
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"I do wonder if cheating will edge more towards being a legal offence? My reasoning is that recently there was the case of the lady who had consensual sex with who she thought was a man but later turned out to be female. She then accused said female of sexual assualt as she had mins-represented herself. A similar argument could be made for cheating, you are not misrepresenting your gender, but you would be misrepresenting your sexual health risks. " Well that would see a huge proportion of our population of all genders locked up and on the sex offenders register. It would be such an every day thing. Imagine; Mum: 'little Jonny why did you have no teacher in school today'? Little Jonny:'Oh she was caught cheating behind his back and he only agreed on sex under the understanding she was monogomus to him' Mum: 'That's the fourth member of staff from your school being investigated for sexual offences relating to cheating on their spouse. Plus the one who wore a purple t-shirt during sex although their parter only consented to sex if a dark blue t-shirt was worn'. Little Johnny: 'when will we see daddy again'? Mum: 'oh in about 3 years when he gets out of jail probably. That'll teach him to fuck your aunt'. | |||
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"It's not beyond the realms of possiblity. At the least it could be considered breach of contract. A few decades ago people would have not considered emotional neglect to be a real crime. " Well being cited for adultry doesn’t mean that much these days so I doubt they’d look to bring anything else in legality wise. | |||
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"I do wonder if cheating will edge more towards being a legal offence? My reasoning is that recently there was the case of the lady who had consensual sex with who she thought was a man but later turned out to be female. She then accused said female of sexual assualt as she had mins-represented herself. A similar argument could be made for cheating, you are not misrepresenting your gender, but you would be misrepresenting your sexual health risks. " Surely that will never happen. That would be ridiculous. If people are happy, then they dont cheat. Something has happened to make them cheat. | |||
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"It's not beyond the realms of possiblity. At the least it could be considered breach of contract. A few decades ago people would have not considered emotional neglect to be a real crime. " What if the man or wife refuses to have sex with their spouse. That could also be considered as breach of contract then too. | |||
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"It's not beyond the realms of possiblity. At the least it could be considered breach of contract. A few decades ago people would have not considered emotional neglect to be a real crime. What if the man or wife refuses to have sex with their spouse. That could also be considered as breach of contract then too." That could be considered emotional neglect. | |||
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"It's not beyond the realms of possiblity. At the least it could be considered breach of contract. A few decades ago people would have not considered emotional neglect to be a real crime. What if the man or wife refuses to have sex with their spouse. That could also be considered as breach of contract then too." It is legal grounds to cite divorce. | |||
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"I do wonder if cheating will edge more towards being a legal offence? My reasoning is that recently there was the case of the lady who had consensual sex with who she thought was a man but later turned out to be female. She then accused said female of sexual assualt as she had mins-represented herself. A similar argument could be made for cheating, you are not misrepresenting your gender, but you would be misrepresenting your sexual health risks. Surely that will never happen. That would be ridiculous. If people are happy, then they dont cheat. Something has happened to make them cheat. " C’mon this is Fabs, nothing ever happens to make the other person cheat... | |||
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"It's not beyond the realms of possiblity. At the least it could be considered breach of contract. A few decades ago people would have not considered emotional neglect to be a real crime. What if the man or wife refuses to have sex with their spouse. That could also be considered as breach of contract then too. It is legal grounds to cite divorce." Is it really. I never knew that. | |||
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"I do wonder if cheating will edge more towards being a legal offence? My reasoning is that recently there was the case of the lady who had consensual sex with who she thought was a man but later turned out to be female. She then accused said female of sexual assualt as she had mins-represented herself. A similar argument could be made for cheating, you are not misrepresenting your gender, but you would be misrepresenting your sexual health risks. Surely that will never happen. That would be ridiculous. If people are happy, then they dont cheat. Something has happened to make them cheat. C’mon this is Fabs, nothing ever happens to make the other person cheat..." | |||
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"It is so funny to see OP being jumped on by every girl of a bigger size. They get triggered so easily just seeing someone mention body size. To OP: remember fabs is different world, here every girl gets so much attention that often do not get outisde of fabs ( ok girls, now you can start bashing me ) "I don’t think you can call it jumping on him or “triggered”. I expressed my opinion, that it was a poor choice of words, he could’ve put a size 8 and I would’ve said the same thing no doubt. Many of us are not afraid to say we are fat, we love sex, and surprisingly to some we get plenty offers. I think some on here have an issue with that & will think any man who likes big women is “desperate”. Some people like different things, I personally think anyone who eats avacado or peanut butter is mad! Each to their own eh! | |||
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"It's not beyond the realms of possiblity. At the least it could be considered breach of contract. A few decades ago people would have not considered emotional neglect to be a real crime. What if the man or wife refuses to have sex with their spouse. That could also be considered as breach of contract then too. It is legal grounds to cite divorce." The lack of sex could be breach of contract - unreasonable behaviour. The ask for sex could be emotional cohesion. Both have 30 days in the nick and then sue the government for beaching there human rights for not being able to stay up to date with the latest strictly come dancing twitter storm. | |||
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"It is so funny to see OP being jumped on by every girl of a bigger size. They get triggered so easily just seeing someone mention body size. To OP: remember fabs is different world, here every girl gets so much attention that often do not get outisde of fabs ( ok girls, now you can start bashing me )
I don’t think you can call it jumping on him or “triggered”.
I expressed my opinion, that it was a poor choice of words, he could’ve put a size 8 and I would’ve said the same thing no doubt.
Many of us are not afraid to say we are fat, we love sex, and surprisingly to some we get plenty offers. I think some on here have an issue with that & will think any man who likes big women is “desperate”.
Some people like different things, I personally think anyone who eats avacado or peanut butter is mad! Each to their own eh! "From a guy's perspective I can probably understand him better and what he meant. You see, being of a bigger size is not a problem. There are plenty of bigger size girls what looks wonderful. However there a some girls that often even insult guys if they are not built like Adonis, even though you could say those girls are average at best. I think OP was talking about these kind of girls | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! " Brilliant answer, exactly what I think and I couldn’t have put it any better. Nice
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"It is so funny to see OP being jumped on by every girl of a bigger size. They get triggered so easily just seeing someone mention body size. To OP: remember fabs is different world, here every girl gets so much attention that often do not get outisde of fabs ( ok girls, now you can start bashing me )
I don’t think you can call it jumping on him or “triggered”.
I expressed my opinion, that it was a poor choice of words, he could’ve put a size 8 and I would’ve said the same thing no doubt.
Many of us are not afraid to say we are fat, we love sex, and surprisingly to some we get plenty offers. I think some on here have an issue with that & will think any man who likes big women is “desperate”.
Some people like different things, I personally think anyone who eats avacado or peanut butter is mad! Each to their own eh!
From a guy's perspective I can probably understand him better and what he meant. You see, being of a bigger size is not a problem. There are plenty of bigger size girls what looks wonderful. However there a some girls that often even insult guys if they are not built like Adonis, even though you could say those girls are average at best. I think OP was talking about these kind of girls "Well those kind of girls should be ignored and not given attention since they can’t be very nice. Nobody should be insulted for their looks, however people have preferences. You can have a preference without being rude or disrespectful of what you don’t find attractive. | |||
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"Im a size 20+ lady and plz dont judge us all with msgs u have gotten from someone else. We are not all into that stuff and if u want to get anywhere on here and last the pace then plz show us some respect. It really doesnt cost much to be civil and respectful of others."
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! Brilliant answer, exactly what I think and I couldn’t have put it any better. Nice
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! Brilliant answer, exactly what I think and I couldn’t have put it any better. Nice
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I'm single - looking to be fucked and punished. Not looking for a relationship or clingy single or married man!
I've not had a relationship for over 18 years and when we parted it wasn't because he cheated!
Lovin your judgemental crap about single fems! It's fked up! But I'm lovin it!
Anymore priceless shite to keep me entertained? "To be fair, not all single women should be tarred with the same brush but you are a rarity. But we have only ever experienced crap from single women who get jealous, possessive and weird. Married women have never behaved like that. | |||
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"Men come on fab looking for NSA sex. Married women provide that. Single women on here are their own worst enemy. They think they are princesses and want to be wined and dined. Demanding this and that! Get all clingy and possessive! A majority of negative comments are from single women who's partners have cheated on them and that's why they're single! Brilliant answer, exactly what I think and I couldn’t have put it any better. Nice
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I'm single - looking to be fucked and punished. Not looking for a relationship or clingy single or married man!
I've not had a relationship for over 18 years and when we parted it wasn't because he cheated!
Lovin your judgemental crap about single fems! It's fked up! But I'm lovin it!
Anymore priceless shite to keep me entertained?
To be fair, not all single women should be tarred with the same brush but you are a rarity.
But we have only ever experienced crap from single women who get jealous, possessive and weird. Married women have never behaved like that." and thus endeth today’s cheating thread | |||
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