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Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men. |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?"
Checkout the reviews on here for AtlantisEVOLUTION in Stoke-on-Trent. You get a free tour round and regulars will look out for you.
Think nightclub but with swinging upstairs if you are ready. |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?
Chams in Darlaston, we'd show you around "
Thanks. Can you just go there and socialise initially?? Is it safe there? |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?
Chams in Darlaston, we'd show you around
Thanks. Can you just go there and socialise initially?? Is it safe there?"
I've been going as a single woman for over 12 years now. I'v never had any issues, the staff are great and there's no pressure at all to play. On many occasions I've either got chatting or not seen anyone I liked so not played at all. |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men. "
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??  |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?
Chams in Darlaston, we'd show you around
Thanks. Can you just go there and socialise initially?? Is it safe there?
I've been going as a single woman for over 12 years now. I'v never had any issues, the staff are great and there's no pressure at all to play. On many occasions I've either got chatting or not seen anyone I liked so not played at all. "
I'll look into it. Thankyou so much |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no?? "
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in. |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in. "
ha, this is to go round the high fees charged for single guys... |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in.
ha, this is to go round the high fees charged for single guys... "
Yes, you underline my point. This is what I meant by golden ticket - who wants to go to a club with some stranger who is only interested in getting in at a cheaper price? I'd prefer to go with someone I know, get on with and trust to have my back. |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in.
ha, this is to go round the high fees charged for single guys...
Yes, you underline my point. This is what I meant by golden ticket - who wants to go to a club with some stranger who is only interested in getting in at a cheaper price? I'd prefer to go with someone I know, get on with and trust to have my back. "
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in.
ha, this is to go round the high fees charged for single guys...
Yes, you underline my point. This is what I meant by golden ticket - who wants to go to a club with some stranger who is only interested in getting in at a cheaper price? I'd prefer to go with someone I know, get on with and trust to have my back. With you "
I'm not sure what that means? |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in.
ha, this is to go round the high fees charged for single guys...
Yes, you underline my point. This is what I meant by golden ticket - who wants to go to a club with some stranger who is only interested in getting in at a cheaper price? I'd prefer to go with someone I know, get on with and trust to have my back. With you
I'm not sure what that means?"
it means I get your point... |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in.
ha, this is to go round the high fees charged for single guys...
Yes, you underline my point. This is what I meant by golden ticket - who wants to go to a club with some stranger who is only interested in getting in at a cheaper price? I'd prefer to go with someone I know, get on with and trust to have my back. With you
I'm not sure what that means? it means I get your point... "
Ah - I thought you were paying by the word! |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?
Chams in Darlaston, we'd show you around
Thanks. Can you just go there and socialise initially?? Is it safe there?
I've been going as a single woman for over 12 years now. I'v never had any issues, the staff are great and there's no pressure at all to play. On many occasions I've either got chatting or not seen anyone I liked so not played at all. "
So if I did go would you be happy to meet and welcome me into the club ? |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?
Chams in Darlaston, we'd show you around
Thanks. Can you just go there and socialise initially?? Is it safe there?
I've been going as a single woman for over 12 years now. I'v never had any issues, the staff are great and there's no pressure at all to play. On many occasions I've either got chatting or not seen anyone I liked so not played at all.
So if I did go would you be happy to meet and welcome me into the club ?"
If I'm around!
Alternatively, if you drive and are free on Saturday come to Liberty Elite - it's a party night so you can get in on the host's guest list without having to pay membership. |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?
Chams in Darlaston, we'd show you around
Thanks. Can you just go there and socialise initially?? Is it safe there?
I've been going as a single woman for over 12 years now. I'v never had any issues, the staff are great and there's no pressure at all to play. On many occasions I've either got chatting or not seen anyone I liked so not played at all.
So if I did go would you be happy to meet and welcome me into the club ?
If I'm around!
Alternatively, if you drive and are free on Saturday come to Liberty Elite - it's a party night so you can get in on the host's guest list without having to pay membership. "
I'll check my plans |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in. "
Or just use her to get other women. Totally agree with you.
OP I would be very wary of going with a random single male. They have their own agenda and it's unlikely to be the welfare of a total stranger. Also if they are an idiot people will assume you are a couple so you will be tarnished with the same reputation. |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in.
Or just use her to get other women. Totally agree with you.
OP I would be very wary of going with a random single male. They have their own agenda and it's unlikely to be the welfare of a total stranger. Also if they are an idiot people will assume you are a couple so you will be tarnished with the same reputation."
Ah yes, the old 'would you be interested in a threesome with another woman' casual query within just a few messages. Which always tells me that this particular type of man is looking for a honey pot to put out and attract other women.
This same type of man is also usually dubious about a MFM - 'erm, maybe. I guess I could be interested.' But you're expected to be fully into finding another woman to join someone you've not even met yet  |
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"Chams for where you're situated. Friendly and great facilities.
On a separate note I'd be wary of single men offering to take you unless you already know them. One thing to meet people there who will be friendly faces and no offence to the poster above but you're a golden ticket to some men.
Wouldn't the same warning apply to couples as well? Any newbie should be wary of strangers offering to take them, no??
No because couples are unlikely to use her just to get in.
Or just use her to get other women. Totally agree with you.
OP I would be very wary of going with a random single male. They have their own agenda and it's unlikely to be the welfare of a total stranger. Also if they are an idiot people will assume you are a couple so you will be tarnished with the same reputation.
Ah yes, the old 'would you be interested in a threesome with another woman' casual query within just a few messages. Which always tells me that this particular type of man is looking for a honey pot to put out and attract other women.
This same type of man is also usually dubious about a MFM - 'erm, maybe. I guess I could be interested.' But you're expected to be fully into finding another woman to join someone you've not even met yet "
One of my friends went with a random in the early days. He kept the locker key. Buggered off home and left her stranded. Not only that he'd taken her clothes, money, phone home as some sick trophy. Thankfully the club sorted her out. |
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" OP I would be very wary of going with a random single male. They have their own agenda and it's unlikely to be the welfare of a total stranger. Also if they are an idiot people will assume you are a couple so you will be tarnished with the same reputation.
Ah yes, the old 'would you be interested in a threesome with another woman' casual query within just a few messages. Which always tells me that this particular type of man is looking for a honey pot to put out and attract other women.
This same type of man is also usually dubious about a MFM - 'erm, maybe. I guess I could be interested.' But you're expected to be fully into finding another woman to join someone you've not even met yet
One of my friends went with a random in the early days. He kept the locker key. Buggered off home and left her stranded. Not only that he'd taken her clothes, money, phone home as some sick trophy. Thankfully the club sorted her out."
Oh god that's terrible! Did she manage to do anything about it? |
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Been a regular at Chams for years - thoroughly recommend it.
Happy to join you one evening if the posts above haven’t put you off single men lol
Hope you enjoy it - my recommendation for which night, would depend on what exactly you’d like, but the chilled Sundays is a good day for newbies - you get to sample the facilities and walk around and get familiar - the sun terrace is probably something for next summer now lol |
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" OP I would be very wary of going with a random single male. They have their own agenda and it's unlikely to be the welfare of a total stranger. Also if they are an idiot people will assume you are a couple so you will be tarnished with the same reputation.
Ah yes, the old 'would you be interested in a threesome with another woman' casual query within just a few messages. Which always tells me that this particular type of man is looking for a honey pot to put out and attract other women.
This same type of man is also usually dubious about a MFM - 'erm, maybe. I guess I could be interested.' But you're expected to be fully into finding another woman to join someone you've not even met yet
One of my friends went with a random in the early days. He kept the locker key. Buggered off home and left her stranded. Not only that he'd taken her clothes, money, phone home as some sick trophy. Thankfully the club sorted her out.
Oh god that's terrible! Did she manage to do anything about it? "
No he left fab afterwards. She couldnt report to the police cos she was not meant to be there. But it's a lesson to us all. |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?
Chams in Darlaston, we'd show you around
Thanks. Can you just go there and socialise initially?? Is it safe there?
I've been going as a single woman for over 12 years now. I'v never had any issues, the staff are great and there's no pressure at all to play. On many occasions I've either got chatting or not seen anyone I liked so not played at all.
So if I did go would you be happy to meet and welcome me into the club ?"
Just jumping on
I have 8 single ladies currently attending my event in November so you might be Intrested xxx |
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I’m interested in popping my club cherry soon so keeping an eye on this thread!
Think it’s best to go with a male you’ve met a few times though. I’m yet to meet one on here!  |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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A former FWB told me that she was more than happy to travel from her home in Plymouth to attend Chams on her own as it was the only club she felt safe attending as a single lady. |
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"Anyone recommend best clubs round here??
Anyone want to show me round one ?
Chams in Darlaston, we'd show you around
Thanks. Can you just go there and socialise initially?? Is it safe there?
I've been going as a single woman for over 12 years now. I'v never had any issues, the staff are great and there's no pressure at all to play. On many occasions I've either got chatting or not seen anyone I liked so not played at all.
So if I did go would you be happy to meet and welcome me into the club ?
Just jumping on
I have 8 single ladies currently attending my event in November so you might be Intrested xxx "
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I've always been curious to go to a club too but I'm not too keen on rocking up on my own as a guy.
That club 29 in Leicester seems like a good first one to try. More local clubs, seem a bit too big for me to go to as a first timer! |
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