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I’d second Pandora’s comment. I feel less negatively judged on my body sat semi naked in a club than I do out in public. Club goers are definitely NOT all buff, permatanned nymphs. Try a club where you don’t have to dress down immediately. I’m pretty sure you will have a good time! |
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Op know how you feel, I'm a man with body issues through scars. Would love to go to a club but feel I would be judged, or feel inadequate around the other men. |
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Stop worrying and get yourself there. People are just very normal and I've never heard anyone bad mouthing anyone else. No one is perfect and many of us have insecurities about some parts of our bodies, I know I do. Find some confidence, hope you head high, walk tall and enjoy. |
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Every club I've ever been to has been a great mix of people of all ages, ethnicity, body shape etc. You have no need to worry that you won't fit in.
Have a look on the club reviews, links to club websites are on there too. Do some research when choosing a club and pick the one that appeals most. Most clubs are happy to answer any questions you may have before you go. When you arrive ask for a tour of the club and they will show you around, explain rules and etiquette, tell you what to do if anyone makes you feel uncomfortable and hopefully introduce you to a few people.
All you need to do is pluck up the courage to do it  |
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"Stop worrying and get yourself there. People are just very normal and I've never heard anyone bad mouthing anyone else. No one is perfect and many of us have insecurities about some parts of our bodies, I know I do. Find some confidence, hope you head high, walk tall and enjoy."
This.
People who go there are like everywhere, you'll not be everyone's cup of tea.
Most in our limited experience are respectful and usually keep judgements of others to themselves. |
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