"Are we unusual, as in, we only accept friend invites from people we’ve actually met?"
Were the same, despite stating on bio, we get random invites daily from couples/singles weve never so much as messaged us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we unusual, as in, we only accept friend invites from people we’ve actually met?"
Thats how we do our face pics, not overly bothered about how other people use it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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We’ve exchanged messages from so called couples who have then asked for photos and sent friend request, in order to see our friends only photos, I assume? When we reply that we only accept invites from people we’ve met, they disappear, never to be heard of again?
It’s easy for someone to post photos that aren’t theirs and pretend to be a couple in messages. The proof of the pudding, for us, is a face to face meet. It’s not that difficult to arrange a drink in a pub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve exchanged messages from so called couples who have then asked for photos and sent friend request, in order to see our friends only photos, I assume? When we reply that we only accept invites from people we’ve met, they disappear, never to be heard of again?
It’s easy for someone to post photos that aren’t theirs and pretend to be a couple in messages. The proof of the pudding, for us, is a face to face meet. It’s not that difficult to arrange a drink in a pub."
Darn site harder than exchanging face pics if your friends pics. Then you know if it's worth arranging a social, normally it isn't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, but we could send photos of anyone and no one would know whether it’s actually us, or not, without meeting face to face?"
That's why the site has photo verification. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We will only accept requests if we have chatted for a while , swapped face pics and established an all round interest to meet . The random requests that we state on our profile we dont accept will get left then when we feel cheeky , wait till they are offline ...add them and fab a few friends only pics and unfriend especially the ones who keep requesting friends with no other communication at all .  |
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"We’ve exchanged messages from so called couples who have then asked for photos and sent friend request, in order to see our friends only photos, I assume? When we reply that we only accept invites from people we’ve met, they disappear, never to be heard of again?
It’s easy for someone to post photos that aren’t theirs and pretend to be a couple in messages. The proof of the pudding, for us, is a face to face meet. It’s not that difficult to arrange a drink in a pub."
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes, but we could send photos of anyone and no one would know whether it’s actually us, or not, without meeting face to face?"
You could always verify each other on cam in the chatrooms. Your face should match your photos on your profile if you're who you say you are.
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