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23 single male first time at club
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"never been to a club before but gagging to get stuck into all the hot action, could i go by myself? what can i expect?"
Don't expect hot action... It doesn't always happen  |
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Go expecting to socialise and make contacts, if anything else happens it's a bonus.
Contact the club and find out about single male membership - some will need you to sign up in advance. Some clubs are couples only on Saturday night so pick your evening. Others, such as Liberty Elite, run party nights where you can get onto the guest list and go without having to pay to join up. |
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"....gagging to get stuck into all the hot action...."
If this is your sole expectation, you're going to be sorely disappointed.
Just be yourself. Smile, chat to people, be friendly, and take whatever comes your way - but don't be pushy! |
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"never been to a club before but gagging to get stuck into all the hot action, could i go by myself? what can i expect?"
Seriously wrong Outlook. Those who go just searching for action normally don't get any, cis they come across as creepy and desperate |
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"never been to a club before but gagging to get stuck into all the hot action, could i go by myself? what can i expect?
Seriously wrong Outlook. Those who go just searching for action normally don't get any, cis they come across as creepy and desperate "
Agree last weekend party plenty of newbies wrong approach. |
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"never been to a club before but gagging to get stuck into all the hot action, could i go by myself? what can i expect?"
Expect not to get ‘into all the hot action’ |
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May I suggest the Attic at Derby (Not a million miles from your location). Mainly because if your trying it out first time so there you dont need to pay a membership, just a fairly reasonable entry fee. The you can explore risk free without locking into an expensive single male club membership. |
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"Unless you're exceptionally attractive, expect to be in a group of a dozen other single guys following a couple of attractive women round and around the club... good luck!  "
Highly accurate description of most clubs with singles allowed nights |
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"Unless you're exceptionally attractive, expect to be in a group of a dozen other single guys following a couple of attractive women round and around the club... good luck!
Highly accurate description of most clubs with singles allowed nights"
Not my experience - if only the guys who make no effort anyway. The social, respectful men I’ve seen who make time to chat don’t need to wander around like shadows all night! |
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"Unless you're exceptionally attractive, expect to be in a group of a dozen other single guys following a couple of attractive women round and around the club... good luck!
Highly accurate description of most clubs with singles allowed nights
Not my experience - if only the guys who make no effort anyway. The social, respectful men I’ve seen who make time to chat don’t need to wander around like shadows all night! "
It is not like this at all , first of all you have to make a decision on your standards before you go to the club as a guy, then you have to decide on a strategy or how you want to play your game and have a game plan, then you have to stick to your game plan and you will be successful in any club that provides a party whose theme is in your favour.
Personally I don't talk for long when I am in the club because I believe if I have done my homework well I should not need to try to oversell myself, I feel people grab a good product off the shelf, if the product is bad or not branded well then it stays on the shelf.
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"May I suggest the Attic at Derby (Not a million miles from your location). Mainly because if your trying it out first time so there you dont need to pay a membership, just a fairly reasonable entry fee. The you can explore risk free without locking into an expensive single male club membership. "
AtlantisEVOLUTION in Stoke-on-Trent is only £10 lifetime membership fee, hardly expensive. |
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"never been to a club before but gagging to get stuck into all the hot action, could i go by myself? what can i expect?"
First time at a club last Saturday didn’t expect much as I’d been advised. Had great sex with a beautiful girl for hours, saw her yesterday and we’re going back as a couple Friday.
Me Smug from verysmugsvile. |
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