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No success on the site

By *iveithard84 OP Man over a year ago

Kettering

I like to think of myself as a nice guy who definety knows how to please a woman in and out of the bedroom but I don't seem to be able to get any ladies to chat on here. What am I doing wrong??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’ve only been here four months - not a long time at all. You have no photos for people who aren’t your friends to view, and you don’t have much of a profile write up at all. Take a look at it from a women’s point of view; would your profile appeal to you? Would you want to meet you?

Most women view profiles before they read the message.

Are you ensuring that when messaging women, you are reading their profile thoroughly beforehand and ensuring you fit what they are looking for?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As above, plus the cock avatar is really off putting. (not your cock, just in general)

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By *ll 4 herCouple over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

As said above, you are effectively saying hello with your cock hanging out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

also your username may put some people off

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By *j48Man over a year ago

Wigan

Jeez OP

It's crap to be honest..

Says absolutely nothing about you, what you can offer, what you're looking for.

Two lines and a cock pic avatar on your profile will get you exactly where you are after 4 months

A veri off someone you already know and sod all else

Tons of info in the forums

Good luck

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Have a look at the profiles of guys who verify the women near you (or me if you like) and see what they're doing differently. Apply it to your profile if you can.

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

Username, profile pic and looking for fun.

You may be a great lover, fun to be around and smell lovely, but..

You have written more in this original post than in your profile description.

You have to sell your self.

Be clear about what you want, what you can offer.

Currently it seems a bit bland, we're all looking for fun.

Give some lady a reason why she should reply to your email out of the hundreds she gets.

Some may say no based on what you will write, but some may say yes.

At the moment, they are probably saying meh, next.

Good luck

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By *orticiaWoman over a year ago

Wirral

All of the above!!

Dick pic avatars are an instant delete for me, I do t read the message & I don’t look at the profile. But even with a different avatar, your profile is instantly forgettable

Do a forum search - there is tonnes of good advice out there!!