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By *oyo58 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Bleurgh where they ram their tongue down your throat wuth no control. So unsexy! Reminds me of my first ever kiss. Nearly put me off for life. Good kissing is an art."
Very true slow and sensual xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, OP. Could end up with a thousand tick boxes for every preference.
Which avoids talking to people and understanding their wishes, wants and needs.
And that's what messaging, phone calls and socials are all about, and the ongoing bedroom talk of what's ok, and where and when.
I would assume a person needing lots more tick boxes to be either highly judgemental or too lazy to have a conversation.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, maybe expecting responsive, considerate conversation and foreplay is so last century. I'm ok with that.
Mrs |
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By *oyo58 OP Man
over a year ago
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"No, OP. Could end up with a thousand tick boxes for every preference.
Which avoids talking to people and understanding their wishes, wants and needs.
And that's what messaging, phone calls and socials are all about, and the ongoing bedroom talk of what's ok, and where and when.
I would assume a person needing lots more tick boxes to be either highly judgemental or too lazy to have a conversation.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, maybe expecting responsive, considerate conversation and foreplay is so last century. I'm ok with that.
Mrs"
Very true thanks for your input but wouldn't it be easier just to tick a box then at least you know.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I believe that people (myself included) find that kissing can be a lot more sensual and intimate than having sex. So they tend to avoid it as it may take away from the rawness of "fucking".
Me, personally. I like to involve both but hey.
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"DFK? What’s wrong with a old fashioned snog "
Was thinking the same thing lol!!
OP, I think if people want to avoid certain things, they’ll state it on their profile - so I’d assume kissing is ok unless they say it’s not  |
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"Bleurgh where they ram their tongue down your throat wuth no control. So unsexy! Reminds me of my first ever kiss. Nearly put me off for life. Good kissing is an art."
Haha, yes indeed, my first kiss was like that too - luckily my first boyfriend a year later was an epic snogger and we snogged for hours without any need for ramming of tongue down the throat lol!
Yes, a little tongue fencing at the right moment like the odd nibble are delicious, but you can keep you dfk, I would love to have an anti tick box to let people know!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a shame really that most people don't like it or don't allow it I should say"
No it's great - but I don't allow it unless in a relationship - it's easy for things to get too complicated otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, OP. Could end up with a thousand tick boxes for every preference.
Which avoids talking to people and understanding their wishes, wants and needs.
And that's what messaging, phone calls and socials are all about, and the ongoing bedroom talk of what's ok, and where and when.
I would assume a person needing lots more tick boxes to be either highly judgemental or too lazy to have a conversation.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, maybe expecting responsive, considerate conversation and foreplay is so last century. I'm ok with that.
Mrs
Very true thanks for your input but wouldn't it be easier just to tick a box then at least you know.
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too many see expressing an interest as some kind of shopping list of requirements and expect all of them to happen all the time... |
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