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Anyone offer any help here.
I've just looked at my verification summary on my profile and it's saying that one of my verifications was from a tv/ts.
This isn't the case at all, as this isn't my kind of thing.
The meeting in question happened a few years back when I attended a gangbang party with a couple at their house. At the time it was via man's profile. Turns out that his profile now reads that he is a tv/ts. Not the case when I met him.
How do I remove this from my summary without losing all other veris????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You must meet the person again,them in male attire you dressed as a woman this time,after re verifying each other it should cancel the other verification out.
Hope that helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To my knowledge admin can rake away a verification but cannot take it off the summary
So it will always stay on that
Just hide you’re summary if it’s a problem for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To my knowledge admin can rake away a verification but cannot take it off the summary
So it will always stay on that
Just hide you’re summary if it’s a problem for you "
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone offer any help here.
I've just looked at my verification summary on my profile and it's saying that one of my verifications was from a tv/ts.
This isn't the case at all, as this isn't my kind of thing.
The meeting in question happened a few years back when I attended a gangbang party with a couple at their house. At the time it was via man's profile. Turns out that his profile now reads that he is a tv/ts. Not the case when I met him.
How do I remove this from my summary without losing all other veris?????"
Is it possible you met someone and received oral unknowingly? |
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Could you not give an explanation to your varification in your profile? Maybe something like although you are streight you have made many freinds in scene (as you do) of differing genders who have left you varifications. These are varifications of charater rather than play. |
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OP why does it bother you? Are you scared people might think you're not straight if a TV has verified you?
Most people on fab haven't fucked everyone who has verified them. Most of us are social people too and a verification to many of us is just an indication that you have met - not that you have played. |
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"OP why does it bother you? Are you scared people might think you're not straight if a TV has verified you?
Most people on fab haven't fucked everyone who has verified them. Most of us are social people too and a verification to many of us is just an indication that you have met - not that you have played. "
I have seen women and couples say they won't meet men who have met TVs. I don't agree with the attitude, but it exists. |
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"OP why does it bother you? Are you scared people might think you're not straight if a TV has verified you?
Most people on fab haven't fucked everyone who has verified them. Most of us are social people too and a verification to many of us is just an indication that you have met - not that you have played. "
This is true. My last verification was from a guy where we met up and went for a motorcycle ride together. The verifications are mainly to show that you are real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As others have said, just hide your summary.
Mine has a TV listed, we didn't play, it says (said, she's left the site now) something like that I met her in a club and that I'm a lovely girl. "
Mine was exactly the same as yours. I'm not too worried as we didn't play and it says that on the vari. I'm very social and will talk to everyone in the club's.. lol x |
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You make it sound like you might catch a disease from having a tv verify you,in a previous life!
Forgive me if I am wrong but your reaction seems almost hysterical, I can't really see what the problem is,but I hope you resolve it and carry on swinging happily! |
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"Could you not give an explanation to your varification in your profile? Maybe something like although you are streight you have made many freinds in scene (as you do) of differing genders who have left you varifications. These are varifications of charater rather than play."
I second this - mature, inclusive and welcoming. |
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OK so you're STRAIGHT ,we get that, but then why are you happy to have a verification from a man showing but not a TV?
I chat to a lot of straight guys , they haven't all yet imploded in a flurry of blusher and Vaseline  |
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"OK so you're STRAIGHT ,we get that, but then why are you happy to have a verification from a man showing but not a TV?
I chat to a lot of straight guys , they haven't all yet imploded in a flurry of blusher and Vaseline "
I completely agree. We all talk to all sorts of people during our vanilla lives so what’s the difference here? |
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"OK so you're STRAIGHT ,we get that, but then why are you happy to have a verification from a man showing but not a TV?
I chat to a lot of straight guys , they haven't all yet imploded in a flurry of blusher and Vaseline "
I would assume the OP's issuse is more to do with the attitudes of some others on FAB with regards to him getting laid in the future. Not to do with a prejudice per se. It's sad that these attitudes and assumptions exist amongst some but they do exist and he is obviously worried this will be a potential cock block. Personally I think that his concerns are unnecessary as I think most on FAB understand that lots of us have freinds of many flavours. I assuming the varification in question gives no indication of sexual activity so OP could just display it and then others would also see it's just a character verification and not contradictory to his sexuality displayed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either hide the summary or display the veri (which presumably makes it clear you didn’t have sex with each other) and address it briefly in your profile.
No drama. |
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"Block the user, that’ll remove it. Might stop you getting some meets!"
Only removes the veri, not the summary.
OP, almost all of my veri’s are social - and there is nothing wrong with having social veri’s. Just put a sentence in your profile that mentions several of your veri’s are social rather than from meets. Problem solved.
And if someone doesn’t want to play with you simply because you had the nerve to socialise with a t-girl once, they’re probably not a very nice person & you’re better off without them anyway!!  |
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"Block the user, that’ll remove it. Might stop you getting some meets!
Only removes the veri, not the summary.
OP, almost all of my veri’s are social - and there is nothing wrong with having social veri’s. Just put a sentence in your profile that mentions several of your veri’s are social rather than from meets. Problem solved.
And if someone doesn’t want to play with you simply because you had the nerve to socialise with a t-girl once, they’re probably not a very nice person & you’re better off without them anyway!! "
Exactly this!!
No harm in getting a socialising veri off someone your not interested in playing with
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I see plenty of male profiles that have this in the summary.
I don't automatically assume it means the person has had a sexual encounter with that person.
Majority of my veris are from social events I've attended, doesn't mean I've shagged those 135 people.
If you're that bothered my numbers or 'labels', what people will think, hide your summary, hide the veri & it's no longer an issue |
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"I see plenty of male profiles that have this in the summary.
I don't automatically assume it means the person has had a sexual encounter with that person.
Majority of my veris are from social events I've attended, doesn't mean I've shagged those 135 people.
If you're that bothered my numbers or 'labels', what people will think, hide your summary, hide the veri & it's no longer an issue "
My thoughts too |
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"From a straight male perspective.....
Is a TV veri going to be viewed any differently to one from a male?
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A lot of veries are from socials so I don’t see why it should be, unless it details sexual encounters on the veri |
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