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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was messaged by a guy who was not my type at all, sent him the "no thankyou take care" reply and he messaged me back thanking me for my reply, wished me all the best and a very merry Christmas,
How lovely!!!
It made me change my mind and even tho I doubted we would ever meet he has become a lovely friend and are meeting this week for Xmas lunch.
I wonder what would happen if all men were so polite? 
merry Christmas everyone x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have made good friends with someone who is not my type we don't play but we go for meals and I get spoilt rotten 
But he was very polite and didn't get rude because I said no thanks!
Hope you have fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aye manners cost nowt and sometimes pay off big time xx "
Exactly!!!! Thats why I never understand why guys send abusive messages in response to a polite thanks but no thanks and what they think it's going to achieve. Ms |
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unless i get a totally obscene message i always send a polite thanks but no thanks. if i was stood at a bar the only overtures i'd ignore would be the offensive ones! so i use the same policy online. it does mean that even if its just one message and reply everything is courteous and pleasant. and you never know who you'll meet in a club - and sometimes you can change your mind in person, if you haven't already pissed them off that is! 
manners cost practically nothing, a few seconds typing for a civil and friendly atmosphere? got to be worth it! |
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"when i reply with a 'no thanks but have fun' i always get a reply saying thanks for being polite and replying...."
exactly, if i get a polite rebuttal, i always appreciate it and let them know i value the time they put into reply.
If they reply, i just think, no manners, full of themselves and move on. There are guilty parties on both sides of the gender divide when it comes to manners |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You cant have too many friends, especially someone that you could discuss swinging with, I have a fem friend ive met on this site, she keeps me sane!"
I could use a good fem friend who's on the same wavelength as me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aye manners cost nowt and sometimes pay off big time xx
Exactly!!!! Thats why I never understand why guys send abusive messages in response to a polite thanks but no thanks and what they think it's going to achieve. Ms"
These are the guys who are just out for all they can get.
I can say I have always replied with a thanks when knocked back. It doesn't take long to do, and that's how I was raised.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You cant have too many friends, especially someone that you could discuss swinging with, I have a fem friend ive met on this site, she keeps me sane!"
Similar here, I have 2 ladyfriends on here I can discuss stuff with that I couldn't mention to another soul. They're both very good friends. |
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"I was messaged by a guy who was not my type at all, sent him the "no thankyou take care" reply and he messaged me back thanking me for my reply, wished me all the best and a very merry Christmas,
How lovely!!!
It made me change my mind and even tho I doubted we would ever meet he has become a lovely friend and are meeting this week for Xmas lunch.
I wonder what would happen if all men were so polite?
merry Christmas everyone x x"
we just get ignored and blocked when we email fems, but hey ho, Merry Christmas to all that block us lol |
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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago
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Think its very much a 2 way thing.
I know ladies do get a LOT of messages - the majority being 'hi .. wanna fuck' but there are some nice guys out there who dont copy paste the same message a few times over!
You taking time out to reply nicely, solicited a similar reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree totally. I have some lovely 'friends' on here that I will never probably meet cus not my type or too far away but I have 'met' by saying thanks but no thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always say thanks for the reply if I get a no thanks and wish all the best.
Very few people respond, even in the negative an I feel it's an action that ought be encouraged. I can't see the point in being nasty as I have had a meet or too from a polite reply.... |
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..big cheer.. its Always good to hear of positive behaviour, 
