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How can I improve/ get meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Been on Fab for a while now and still not met anyone which sucks. I get views on my profile but no one really messages me.

Take a look on my profile and let me know what I could change and improve.

Thanks

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By *WKinkMan over a year ago

Bury

More pics, better profile as it doesn’t really say a lot.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

No pictures and childish avatar instant delete I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to keep it a secret? Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No pictures and childish avatar instant delete I'm afraid."

I do have pictures, discretion is important to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have to keep it a secret? Why? "

Not secret, discretion is important to me I just don't want my face being public

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have to keep it a secret? Why?

Not secret, discretion is important to me I just don't want my face being public "

Well you are already hiding your face in profile pic.. no need to say it on a top as it is pretty obvious....

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think you will be much too young for many on here, and your profile does nothing to make you seem more mature than your years..

Sorry

Nita

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By *WKinkMan over a year ago

Bury

"No pictures and childish avatar instant delete I'm afraid.

I do have pictures, discretion is important to me."

You don’t need your face in the pics and you can blur out tattoos.

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By *mber DextrousWoman over a year ago

Devon

You can have public pics that don't include your face. Without any and with limited info in the text you'd have to send an amazing message to catch my eye.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think you will be much too young for many on here, and your profile does nothing to make you seem more mature than your years..

Sorry

Nita"

I would have to agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" You can have public pics that don't include your face. Without any and with limited info in the text you'd have to send an amazing message to catch my eye. "

What info would you suggest adding to my profile?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What kind of person are you, what are you looking for, what do you have to offer? Sell yourself answering those questions.

There are many ways to take photos without your face being visible (see my pictures, for example), and the emoji is quite off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What kind of person are you, what are you looking for, what do you have to offer? Sell yourself answering those questions.

There are many ways to take photos without your face being visible (see my pictures, for example), and the emoji is quite off-putting. "

Thank you, some good advice instead of just bashing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your on a swinging site looking for single females only? Try tinder or pof, fabswingers, people who swing

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By *aekaeWoman over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"Been on Fab for a while now and still not met anyone which sucks. I get views on my profile but no one really messages me.

Take a look on my profile and let me know what I could change and improve.

Thanks "

If we offer you some advice will you think about what's suggested and take it if appropriate?

Because all I've seen so far is people offering advice and you telling us why you can't take it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Been on Fab for a while now and still not met anyone which sucks. I get views on my profile but no one really messages me.

Take a look on my profile and let me know what I could change and improve.

Thanks

If we offer you some advice will you think about what's suggested and take it if appropriate?

Because all I've seen so far is people offering advice and you telling us why you can't take it.

Yes go ahead, public pictures is the main thing everyone is suggesting I know. But you have to understand not everyone wants to be public. And don't worry I'm working on my info

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By *mber DextrousWoman over a year ago

Devon

If you don't want to have pics public then you're going to struggle like it or not. There are plenty of pics most people can take that won't give away their identity.

In terms of what to add to text, I want to know what you're interested in, what you offer and anything that will make me want to meet you rather than the next guy. I don't want to have to spend ages messaging trying to find out what you want from Fab when I can find other profiles that are a clear match for what I want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

‘Public’ does not mean ‘face picture’. Some shots that give women an idea of your body, your style and your personality.

Fewer cheesy jokes and a bit more info about what type of woman you are looking for, what type of meet you like and try not to use the words ‘fun’, ‘naughty’ or ‘guy’.

And consider that meeting single women on fab is about the hardest way to meet women that you can choose. Tinder, POF, Bumble or bars will all be much more fruitful.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"What kind of person are you, what are you looking for, what do you have to offer? Sell yourself answering those questions.

There are many ways to take photos without your face being visible (see my pictures, for example), and the emoji is quite off-putting.

Thank you, some good advice instead of just bashing. "

Bashing? Where?

You be asked for advice and been given plenty, that's not bashing.

Many of the ladies here will have tights older than you, let alone children of your age.

Nothing you can do about that other than acting with a maturity behind your years.

For example, not getting pissy and accusing people of bashing you when they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on Fab for a while now and still not met anyone which sucks. I get views on my profile but no one really messages me.

Take a look on my profile and let me know what I could change and improve.

Thanks "

Is that "and still not met anyone, which sucks" or "still not met anyone who sucks"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Been on Fab for a while now and still not met anyone which sucks. I get views on my profile but no one really messages me.

Take a look on my profile and let me know what I could change and improve.

Thanks

If we offer you some advice will you think about what's suggested and take it if appropriate?

Because all I've seen so far is people offering advice and you telling us why you can't take it.

Yes go ahead, public pictures is the main thing everyone is suggesting I know. But you have to understand not everyone wants to be public. And don't worry I'm working on my info"

OP, I agree with all the other posters. And I provided a solution to the public thing. Just don't include photos with your head, like I do (and not applicable in my case, but blur out tattoos or scars).

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