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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What’s the story with TV and TS describing themselves as women or couples? We have our settings so that we can’t be contacted by, or see, single men’s profiles. Yet when a TV or TS has a woman’s, or a couples profile, they show up on our account? Can we filter them out if the describe themselves as something they’re not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First off OP, why do you assume it’s not possible for a TV to be part of a couple?
Secondly, I don’t think many TV’s/TS’s on the site would consider themselves to be single males.
A little knowledge and understanding goes a long way.
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"First off OP, why do you assume it’s not possible for a TV to be part of a couple?
Secondly, I don’t think many TV’s/TS’s on the site would consider themselves to be single males.
A little knowledge and understanding goes a long way.
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Well said, just plain ignorance...fool  |
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Hi I’m a tv and whilst you have every right to complain, we are in the same situation.
We get comments in firums and you want to respond privately yet we’re blocked because we’re TV/TS
Trust me I’m certainly not interested in approaching anyone, I’m here to meet genuine people who want to meet me!!
However I can’t meet or dress at present due to my temporary condition ( hopes)
So whilst your point is well made, you are not the only one this affects!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Each to their own, but I don’t find it very useful when we get notifications that a couple has viewed our profile, or we get a message from a couple or woman, only to find the ‘couple’ is one person who chops and changes gender??? WTF is that all about?
Or a woman who, when you check their profile, is clearly a man??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own, but I don’t find it very useful when we get notifications that a couple has viewed our profile, or we get a message from a couple or woman, only to find the ‘couple’ is one person who chops and changes gender??? WTF is that all about?
Or a woman who, when you check their profile, is clearly a man?? "
For many of us it’s not that clear what our original bodily format was.
Don’t worry though. We’re not looking for people like you  |
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I'm sure you don't get so many messages from TVs in couples that it inconveniences you and ruins your life. You're slightly over reacting tbh.
I get messages from people I'm not interested,you have to accept that and do some manual filtering , and don't rely on fab to do it for you. |
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I don't I have seen any profiles where the couple is a tv who is both parts of the couple. If there are profiles like that then they should be reported as fake profile. As far single women are concerned they have to photo verified I assume. If you are so sure they are a man, report them too. But again I rarely come across any profiles like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Use your message filters properly OP. Block TV/CD’s and non photo verified people from messaging you. Simple.
I fail to understand how a TV can be both halves of a couples profile. New one on me but again by blocking non photo verified people you won’t have this problem.
Any gender can look at your profile or fab your pics but it’s hardly the end of the world.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ??
Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list
That works both ways, of course.  "
Yes, of course....and so it should ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list
That works both ways, of course.
Yes, of course....and so it should ????"
Threads like these often expand my block list.  |
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"Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ??
Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list "
sounds to me like your crying in your pea soup op , why bother about little things in life when there's people starving in the streets and others who have no homes people who have cancer for gds sake get a grip op |
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"Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ??
Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list "
People often look at profiles just to be nosey. Why do you care so much about who views your profile, just use the filters that are put in place for that exact reason. I'm sure you will receive less interest by any TV, ts, man, woman or couple that comes across this thread now anyway. It doesn't matter that you have no visible photos, you've just shown us all that no matter what you look like externally, you seem pretty ugly on the inside |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op why not just state thank you for looking at our profile but we are not seeking meets with TVs or Ts/the only what we have specified in our interests ,will drop those who read your profile fully from messaging simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you know some have transitioned and are now a woman, they can be part of a couple as well but dont seem to lack empathy or be as ignorant and judgemental as others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you know some have transitioned and are now a woman, they can be part of a couple as well but dont seem to lack empathy or be as ignorant and judgemental as others."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op I often get winks and pics fabbed by straight and gay men and TS /TG but I take it at face value for what it is and that's a compliment that they find me worth a wink or fab or even a view I even get the off nice cock message but I don't Go ape shit I just say Ty I appreciate that ,only when they start asking what I'm after do I say please read my profile and u will find out |
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So you've gone down every TV who's posted on this thread and blocked them?
At least with the amount of time you're going to be spending blocking every TV on fab,you won't have time to actually meet anyone and subject them to your narrow minded bigotry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you've gone down every TV who's posted on this thread and blocked them?
At least with the amount of time you're going to be spending blocking every TV on fab,you won't have time to actually meet anyone and subject them to your narrow minded bigotry "
I’d guess they would block anyone who doesn’t agree with them as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol
I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. "
lol I get cock pics from straight guys go figure that out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol
I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. "
they're fab straight lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see I'm on the ops blocked list now so guessing he's thinking I might want to meet them just because I had a peek at his profile earlier to see if he was a genuine couple lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll add a message just so you can block me too please
Definitely not my kinda people. "
just take a peek that will get u blocked or voice an opinion as he will disagree with what I say anyway lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol
I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. they're fab straight lol"
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as female it’s arguable that guys actually are straight with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and for the record op my understanding is that TVs and this see themselves as ladies as that is how they identify themselves ,and some will have gender reconsignment or will be waiting to have it so in their opinion their description of themselves is totally accurate ,but if you can't be arsed to read their profiles you wouldn't know ,that it from me bored now I'm going to talk to someone intersting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol
I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. they're fab straight lol
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as female it’s arguable that guys actually are straight with me "
there u go then your in a win win situation lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol
I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight.
I hope you're blocking them all as you go , lol(a) "
Nope. I’m not prejudiced like that
More flattered actually. I do make sure they know I’m trans very early on in the conversation though. |
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"Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ??
Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list
People often look at profiles just to be nosey. Why do you care so much about who views your profile, just use the filters that are put in place for that exact reason. I'm sure you will receive less interest by any TV, ts, man, woman or couple that comes across this thread now anyway. It doesn't matter that you have no visible photos, you've just shown us all that no matter what you look like externally, you seem pretty ugly on the inside"
Yep very ugly  |
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"Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ??
Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list "
add me too .... as honestly I haven’t a clue what your whinging about I wouldn’t even bother looking at your profile regardless .... but desperate folks to wink or message at your profile to be fair! ....
if you read the guidance on Fab regarding preferences you can rectify the “issue” .... right I’m off to plague the life out of couples with no pics |
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"Don't worry OP, after people read your comments I think you're going to have a lot less messages to worry about .... from TS's, TV's, CD's, couples, women and men.
Feel free to block us "
They already have |
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"Don't worry OP, after people read your comments I think you're going to have a lot less messages to worry about .... from TS's, TV's, CD's, couples, women and men.
Feel free to block us
They already have "
Then our work here is done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry OP, after people read your comments I think you're going to have a lot less messages to worry about .... from TS's, TV's, CD's, couples, women and men.
Feel free to block us "
I’ve blocked before they even get a chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What’s the story with narrow minded couples posting threads in the forums, I’ve got my settings so I only see open minded inclusive people in Mine, but you pair managed to slip through the net. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes you wonder why people like the OP with such narrow minded views are on a swingers site. Whatever floats your boat I guess......just didn’t seem to be a lot that floated theirs
SO lovely to read everyone else comments tho, even if it has resulted in us all being blocked!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thought I'd pop back and see how it's going ,but see it's going down hill so fast the op may as well live in Australia lol
We're still gathering our torches and pitchforks in preparation "
better get your hardhat ,hi Vis and JCB lol |
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"So you've gone down every TV who's posted on this thread and blocked them?
At least with the amount of time you're going to be spending blocking every TV on fab,you won't have time to actually meet anyone and subject them to your narrow minded bigotry "
Oh no, luckily they've blocked both of our forum accounts too, thank God, I would hate to heave got a message from them, we forget to put no bigots on our profile. |
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol
I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. "
While I am not one of those messages you genuinely are a woman now aren't you, not just psychologically. I wouldn't think I was endangering my "straightness" messaging you" lol. And anyway there is a point where a TV passes some threshold where they are predominantly female, then you can still be fab straight after all. |
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Reading the OPs and others transphobic and homophobic bullshit reminds me exactly why I've been terrified about coming out as trans. There's such a lack of respect, education and understanding in this world from so many ppl. Imagine yourself OP living in fear of being who you are at heart. Imagine the fear of stepping out of the door and being instantly judged for just being different to main stream society, could you live with this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you don't get so many messages from TVs in couples that it inconveniences you and ruins your life. You're slightly over reacting tbh.
I get messages from people I'm not interested,you have to accept that and do some manual filtering , and don't rely on fab to do it for you."
Well said just delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading the OPs and others transphobic and homophobic bullshit reminds me exactly why I've been terrified about coming out as trans. There's such a lack of respect, education and understanding in this world from so many ppl. Imagine yourself OP living in fear of being who you are at heart. Imagine the fear of stepping out of the door and being instantly judged for just being different to main stream society, could you live with this?"
Thankfully the idiots are a definite minority, in my experience at least |
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"You must be one of these people who has a tantrum when you get junk mail through your letter box or on TV (not just from a TV).
I get idiot mail from males, I delete and get on with my life. I do not write a fucking thesis on it. People can define their gender as anything they like. We do not need a DNA test to come on FAB, yet. After all I am a guy so I can be male when I am not dressed. I am a TV/TS on this profile but some may be post op or identify purely as women, that is their right in life. I can identify as a horse if I wish, get over it.  "
Gee up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, just taken a look at your profile. I see you describe yourselves as attractive. Unfortunately your attitude seems to be the complete opposite.
This site is big enough for everyone ... If you receive a wink or message from someone you aren't attracted to then delete and move on, it's hardly rocket science! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought it was 2018 and we where on a swingers website, live and let live, be happy about who you are. By the way I'm going to keep viewing your profile till you block me. Ops get with the times as long as people are happy why label. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Goodness me ... they haven't been here long .. be a little more welcoming folks ... they are asking a question. .
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If you had read all of the thread you would understand why people are a little outraged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't say I ever looked at a couples profile and even considered the possibility that both were the same person. I can only imagine how a meet with him/her/them would go.
I can however understand why it might happen if they are suggesting they can meet as either a man or a TV/TS.
I have lost count of the amount of couples that have messaged me and when pushed reveal that the female has no idea her other half is on here, let alone that she's on here too!
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I dont have a problem with any gender ,some tv and ts are stunning and look better in some out fits than some women lol ,i often get messages about going shopping with them or saying they love my photos, im always polite to them after all they are human .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So has everyone in this thread now been blocked by the op"
I dunno. I blocked them as soon as they made their initial post. I’ve no interest in them and I hope they have no interest in me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m guessing that their blocked list is far longer than their friends list......
For what it’s worth I think they’ve blocked a pretty nice bunch of people. Their loss.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the story with TV and TS describing themselves as women or couples? We have our settings so that we can’t be contacted by, or see, single men’s profiles. Yet when a TV or TS has a woman’s, or a couples profile, they show up on our account? Can we filter them out if the describe themselves as something they’re not?"
Well damn. To the first question, you can describe yourself as you wish. (However I think if it’s a single person who is gender fluid I.e sometimes male sometimes female then you shouldn’t have a couple profile if there aren’t two actual people). Settings to block single males... well change them to block tv/ts As well huni bun or you’re gonna have problems... lastly... filtering out people who say they’re something they’re not on fab ... hahahahahahahahaha ace... finally block me! block me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reason thesee people have put in as girls is because they have made a massive decision that that's the life they wanna live and respect everyone for there choices fair play to you and carry on living the life you want to live |
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"Had lots of “straight guys” message me I don’t get Pissy Take it as a compliment lol "
I like getting winks from anyone, shows they like my profile. Not going to get arsy because a straight man liked my profile! I have messaged members just to say I really like their photos! Just being nice.
Happy fabbing  |
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