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Wife talks to me about her swinger friends
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Ok. My wife has on random occasions talked about her workmates who are either married and swing or single and have friends with benefits.
These occasions have happened over the last couple of years. She has always taken the view point of surprise.
Swinging, cuckhold has always been a fantasy of mine and I want to explore her thoughts on this more.
But, I’m nervous to do so.
Advice please? |
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"Ok. My wife has on random occasions talked about her workmates who are either married and swing or single and have friends with benefits.
These occasions have happened over the last couple of years. She has always taken the view point of surprise.
Swinging, cuckhold has always been a fantasy of mine and I want to explore her thoughts on this more.
But, I’m nervous to do so.
Advice please? "
It's always more difficult to talk about a fantasy you really want to fulfil than one you don't for some reason.
How's you communication in general? Can you chat about fantasies? |
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Does your wife know you are on here OP? She may have some suspicions that you are doing this without her and is just putting out some feelers to see how you respond.
If you are wanting to swing with her you need honest and open communication together.
Talk to her not us! |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
Just keep posting random questions on the forums mate - she's sure to turn up and answer your questions sooner or later - either that or she'll stumble upon your browsing history one of these days... |
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Ok. So I posted this thread over a year ago. No mention of swinging from my wife since. Then out of the blue, last night she told me she had watched documentary about swingers. This time she told she can see the appeal of it but when I tried to explore further she changed the subject. Confused dot com. |
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"Ok. So I posted this thread over a year ago. No mention of swinging from my wife since. Then out of the blue, last night she told me she had watched documentary about swingers. This time she told she can see the appeal of it but when I tried to explore further she changed the subject. Confused dot com. "
tell her you're confused and ask her outright if she's interested or just talking about it in general. You really won't become any less confused until you ask her  |
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It’s much harder to begin to talk about it if it comes completely out of the blue. So the fact your wife is talking about it gives you the perfect opportunity to discuss the subject further.
Grab the bull by the horns and talk to her about it, you might not get another chance.
Good luck OP xx |
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"Ok. So I posted this thread over a year ago. No mention of swinging from my wife since. Then out of the blue, last night she told me she had watched documentary about swingers. This time she told she can see the appeal of it but when I tried to explore further she changed the subject. Confused dot com.
tell her you're confused and ask her outright if she's interested or just talking about it in general. You really won't become any less confused until you ask her "
Yea, if the answer is no, you’ll lose nothing! |
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Sounds like she wants to, but also doesn't know how to broach the subject. Tell her you got intrigued after she mentioned it, so you googled it and you can see what she means about the appeal. Then don't push too hard, but ask a follow up question, what specifically did she find appealing?
From there at least your talking. |
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Also ask her what specifically interests her?
Exploring bi play? Or other men? Watching other couples? Or just posting pictures?
It’s such a broad thing.
Listen to the bedhoppersuk podcast too they were on that swingers doc as Simon and Carolyn! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok. So I posted this thread over a year ago. No mention of swinging from my wife since. Then out of the blue, last night she told me she had watched documentary about swingers. This time she told she can see the appeal of it but when I tried to explore further she changed the subject. Confused dot com.
tell her you're confused and ask her outright if she's interested or just talking about it in general. You really won't become any less confused until you ask her "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Does your wife know you are on here OP? She may have some suspicions that you are doing this without her and is just putting out some feelers to see how you respond.
If you are wanting to swing with her you need honest and open communication together.
Talk to her not us!"
Good advice |
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