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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always come last
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Nice guys always comes last = I am not getting any meets and I am looking for any excuse as to why I don't get meets.
It's a load of horseshit that all women want a bad boy who treats them badly. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Always come last
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Nice guys always comes last = I am not getting any meets and I am looking for any excuse as to why I don't get meets.
It's a load of horseshit that all women want a bad boy who treats them badly. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have also been told that Im “too nice” to be on fab.I need to be a bit more nasty with people or I won’t get meets. The problem is I can’t and won’t alter and why should I?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have also been told that Im “too nice” to be on fab.I need to be a bit more nasty with people or I won’t get meets. The problem is I can’t and won’t alter and why should I??"
Whoever gave you that advice is not your friend..... |
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"I have also been told that Im “too nice” to be on fab.I need to be a bit more nasty with people or I won’t get meets. The problem is I can’t and won’t alter and why should I??"
Define nasty. What exactly do you think you should be doing that comes under this definition of 'nasty'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Desperate and not very confident guys come last. Women can smell desperation like bad aftershave and if you're not very confident then you're less likely to go for what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have also been told that Im “too nice” to be on fab.I need to be a bit more nasty with people or I won’t get meets. The problem is I can’t and won’t alter and why should I??"
That is bullshit. If you are nasty you will never get a meet. |
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Disagree. Find that nice guys always get what they want and keep it. As long as got the confidence to go with it.
Bad guys may get a bit of admiration but it short lived.
Consider myself a nice guy and got all i want in life including my wife of 13 years, and still going as strong as when first met (she will read this so looking for brownie points lol)
If someone is nasty in a message instant delete.
She prefers confidence and humor in guys.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Desperate and not very confident guys come last. Women can smell desperation like bad aftershave and if you're not very confident then you're less likely to go for what you want."
Well said!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always come last
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Nice guys always comes last = I am not getting any meets and I am looking for any excuse as to why I don't get meets.
It's a load of horseshit that all women want a bad boy who treats them badly. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Desperate and not very confident guys come last. Women can smell desperation like bad aftershave and if you're not very confident then you're less likely to go for what you want."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Desperate and not very confident guys come last. Women can smell desperation like bad aftershave and if you're not very confident then you're less likely to go for what you want."
Absolutely - and better to realise that there ARE ladies to match you, if they dont appreciate your qualities then you just arent compatible. There is also no avoiding the laws of human sexual activity... |
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I'm a nice guy but doesn't always mean I wait to cum, if the mood takes me I shoot my nut doesn't mean I carnt finish her off while I'm getting ready for round 2 ,but on the flip side I sometimes like to be a c**t and bust a nut and roll over and fall asleep haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every guy would say there a nice guy . Your hardly gonna say " meet me im a right bastud " "
Exactly - my daughters boyfriend threw her and my grandson out of her car in the middle of nowhere, kicked several panels in and drove off with her car and house keys. He told me he was ‘a nice guy really’ when I caught up with him! Unbelievable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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“Nice guys come last”
Is a line used by guys who can’t get any meets or have been rejected and think they are something special so automatically assume the probably lies with the people rejecting them.
If several people are rejecting or choosing not to meet you, maybe it’s time to look at yourself rather than blame others for “not choosing nice guys”.
Being nice is subjective, I also find those who call themselves nice/genuine/gentleman are usually the complete opposite.  |
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Men that complain that nice guys finish last aren't nice guys. If you have to tell someone you're a nice guy then you're probably not. They also don't seem to know the difference between being nice and being soft. Bending over backwards and doing everything you can for a woman isn't being a nice guy, it's being a doormat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im.a fairly nice bloke , I just get on with being myself, met some lovely people on here but you can never appeal to everyone we are all different flavours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Desperate and not very confident guys come last. Women can smell desperation like bad aftershave and if you're not very confident then you're less likely to go for what you want."
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People just moan about the nice guy thing but really it's totally irrelivant.
Girls like body/pretty face...then money
^^^in a nightclub atleast
"Nice guy" is just some nob head who claims he himself is nice But probably is an awkward person to be arround.
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To be honest I'm a pretty average bloke, but I'm also a fairly successful one - not particularly because I'm a 'nice' guy, but I suspect because I'm a genuine one. I set myself standards in my behaviour and just be myself, both online and in person. Genuine and decent gets noticed (sometimes - the numbers discrepancy is very real) and those who take time to give you an opportunity after that can see you to be a likeable, trustworthy (and hopefully worthy) person. They can decide for themselves if you're nice.  |
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Nice guys think by being nice that they’re entitled....they’re lizards"
I wouldn't have worded it that strongly but yes, many self proclaimed nice guys do come with a sense of entitlement. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"“Nice guys come last”
Is a line used by guys who can’t get any meets or have been rejected and think they are something special so automatically assume the probably lies with the people rejecting them.
If several people are rejecting or choosing not to meet you, maybe it’s time to look at yourself rather than blame others for “not choosing nice guys”.
Being nice is subjective, I also find those who call themselves nice/genuine/gentleman are usually the complete opposite. "
Agreed |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"“Nice guys come last”
Is a line used by guys who can’t get any meets or have been rejected and think they are something special so automatically assume the probably lies with the people rejecting them.
If several people are rejecting or choosing not to meet you, maybe it’s time to look at yourself rather than blame others for “not choosing nice guys”.
Being nice is subjective, I also find those who call themselves nice/genuine/gentleman are usually the complete opposite.
Agreed "
What happens if others call you a gentleman, well at times.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"“Nice guys come last”
Is a line used by guys who can’t get any meets or have been rejected and think they are something special so automatically assume the probably lies with the people rejecting them.
If several people are rejecting or choosing not to meet you, maybe it’s time to look at yourself rather than blame others for “not choosing nice guys”.
Being nice is subjective, I also find those who call themselves nice/genuine/gentleman are usually the complete opposite.
Agreed
What happens if others call you a gentleman, well at times. "
Then it is probably correct! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting to see that people have taken different opinions on what they perceive the op means by that statement. Good discussion topic.
The term is ambiguous, no finite state to it. So making rules around it's pointless. |
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"Interesting to see that people have taken different opinions on what they perceive the op means by that statement. Good discussion topic.
The term is ambiguous, no finite state to it. So making rules around it's pointless."
Good point! I didn't see that to start with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always come last
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Nice guys always comes last = I am not getting any meets and I am looking for any excuse as to why I don't get meets.
It's a load of horseshit that all women want a bad boy who treats them badly. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares...
Each person either will or won’t get noticed by people who are into whatever type of person they happen to be. The biggest mistake on here is for people to think that ‘women’ want this, ‘men’ behave like that. Just be yourself and hopefully that will attract people with whom you have an affinity.
If you are rejected by people who aren’t into you this is a good thing. Otherwise you might end up meeting those people and have an utterly dreadful time.
Nice/shmice nasty/shmasty
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We never come last we’re a rare breed of guys all Bonny lasses go for bad guys but good will always conquer evil so we do come out on top eventually have a little faith in your selves we never give up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some truth it in.
Because if you take sport for example the very best champions have a nasty streak to bend the rules so they win at all costs.
And they don't care what anyone thinks. |
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By *iggerd69Man
over a year ago
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Treat people (ladies) as you want to be treated.
A very good friend of mine on here has been meeting a "Bad boy" he's been treating her like a c#nt for weeks & it's driving me crazy because I can see his games  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Treat people (ladies) as you want to be treated.
A very good friend of mine on here has been meeting a "Bad boy" he's been treating her like a c#nt for weeks & it's driving me crazy because I can see his games "
but she's still seeing him, case closed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So called ‘nice guys’ dont do well in the swinging world if they don’t also have some confidence too.
Being shy and retiring will easily be overshadowed by the noticeable alpha male who stands out of the crowd.
Sadly these alpha males sometimes use overbearing arrogance as a cover for their lack of conversation skills which in turn can and will be their downfall in the end.
Basically, if you’re genuinely interested in getting to know people rather objectifying women as just another notch on your bedpost then you will have a better chance at getting on in the swinging world..... or so I believe. |
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Actually it’s an air of confidence and self deprecating humour that will attract.
Look at Hugh Grant in Bridget Jones, as much as my Wife loved Mr Darcey his ‘bad boy persona’ was very attractive, even though she preferred the other guy in real life. Hugh was funny, charming, adventurous and a naughty glint in his eyes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pewdiepie has a nice take on nice guys.
Most self proclaimed nice guys on here who can’t understand why people won’t share them have a touch of Incel about them. "
I love this comment, I have been thinking how to word this for a while. You have, sir, nailed it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here is no different to any where else if your some meathead with a six pack ladies will go for you where as you can the nicest lad in the world but if your just a average looking guy may as well go and find some thing else to do,Not saying all ladies are like the but lots are and i am waiting for people to say i am a whinger and totally wrong but hey ho |
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