Hi all.
Finding it hard to arrange a meet or even a chat with people on here. Is there anything that i can do to improve my chances.
Im not exactly the greatest looking person around. I know there needs to be a connection between both.
Any suggestions? |
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"Hi all.
Finding it hard to arrange a meet or even a chat with people on here. Is there anything that i can do to improve my chances.
Im not exactly the greatest looking person around. I know there needs to be a connection between both.
Any suggestions?"
That's life fella you can't make people meet you just because you want them to. We all struggle at times you just have to be more inventive with messages and try to get the initial interest then develop it and remember people always have a right to say no or goodbye at any time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all.
Finding it hard to arrange a meet or even a chat with people on here. Is there anything that i can do to improve my chances.
Im not exactly the greatest looking person around. I know there needs to be a connection between both.
Any suggestions?"
Most women don't want a close connection with a swinging partner.
Your wording is OK, but your grammar isn't great (e.g. can't take no more), some find that off putting.
Redo your pictures, whether you feel good looking or not, most are unflattering.
Your profile text is a bit weak and apologetic. and you repeat yourself. |
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Compared to most male profiles on here it’s really not to bad. There’s always room for improvement though. I’d suggest a small number of better quality pictures, face pics are always good though so stick with that.
The only other thing I’d add is slimming down your interests. You mention stuff like cuddling, but then have fisting and gangbangs listed. It looks a bit weird.
Stick at it though, you’ll be fine  |
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"Compared to most male profiles on here it’s really not to bad. There’s always room for improvement though. I’d suggest a small number of better quality pictures, face pics are always good though so stick with that.
The only other thing I’d add is slimming down your interests. You mention stuff like cuddling, but then have fisting and gangbangs listed. It looks a bit weird.
Stick at it though, you’ll be fine "
Thankyou lovely for such great advice. Hopefully somebody out there |
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You can't say don't mention pictures. 99% of women and couples, maybe 100% aren't going to look at your text or anything else without pictures. We delete profile silhouettes without even reading the message. |
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Half of meeting on here is just down to luck and coincidence.
Just luckily being free at a planned/spontanious time that a woman your chatting to is or being in the same area at the same time or even just luckily getting your message read.
Look how many veris start ' just happened both be free/in the area/...... |
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"Half of meeting on here is just down to luck and coincidence.
Just luckily being free at a planned/spontanious time that a woman your chatting to is or being in the same area at the same time or even just luckily getting your message read.
Look how many veris start ' just happened both be free/in the area/......"
Thats a very good point you make. I do look and see who is in the area hardest problem is getting a positive reply |
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"How can I get to socials if single men get blocked just by contacting them?
You know the ones: Single men, we will find you!
Not very social is it? Has any single male been found?"
Probably the tinder kind of one's or the ones that have "hung male" or something similar in bio/status |
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"How can I get to socials if single men get blocked just by contacting them?
You know the ones: Single men, we will find you!
Not very social is it? Has any single male been found?"
We don’t know if they have  |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"How can I get to socials if single men get blocked just by contacting them?
You know the ones: Single men, we will find you!
Not very social is it? Has any single male been found?
We don’t know if they have "
I'll won't hide my profile then  |
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"How can I get to socials if single men get blocked just by contacting them?
You know the ones: Single men, we will find you!
Not very social is it? Has any single male been found?
We don’t know if they have "
The search party is still hovering around lol |
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"How can I get to socials if single men get blocked just by contacting them?
You know the ones: Single men, we will find you!
Not very social is it? Has any single male been found?
We don’t know if they have
The search party is still hovering around lol "
Has a helicopter been sent yet? |
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"How can I get to socials if single men get blocked just by contacting them?
You know the ones: Single men, we will find you!
Not very social is it? Has any single male been found?
We don’t know if they have
The search party is still hovering around lol
Has a helicopter been sent yet? "
Cant see one though peeka boo |
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"How can I get to socials if single men get blocked just by contacting them?
You know the ones: Single men, we will find you!
Not very social is it? Has any single male been found?
We don’t know if they have
The search party is still hovering around lol
Has a helicopter been sent yet?
Cant see one though peeka boo "
I’ll contact mission control and get one launched project ‘we will find you single maaaaan’ |
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"How can I get to socials if single men get blocked just by contacting them?
You know the ones: Single men, we will find you!
Not very social is it? Has any single male been found?
We don’t know if they have
The search party is still hovering around lol
Has a helicopter been sent yet?
Cant see one though peeka boo
I’ll contact mission control and get one launched project ‘we will find you single maaaaan’ "
Hunni im over heeeeeere |
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