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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "
omg I looked........ Thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice to you OP, is to take some new pics preferably without your dick on them.
I am a big guy, I have been on the site for 5 weeks and I have a meet on Saturday. There are people out there who prefer our body type, you just need to be patient and friendly  |
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"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "
I love a larger guy. Keep with it and im sure you will have some luck soon. Sometimes it just takes abit of time.
Mrsnawty xx |
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Yes - it's perhaps worth doing a forum search for similar subjects, where people have discussed this before.
It's generally tough for single guys, even those with Adonis looks, due to the level of competition of hordes of single guys here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "
I only go for bigger guys, but prefer to see body pics than dick pics, to actually see if they are big enough |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
I would class myself as slim/athletic. Had zero luck. I might start eating donuts and drinking pints more regularly. I think larger men have their fans. Gym bods obviously do. Think skinny guys are the ones who may struggle the most. In my humble opinion of course. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all.
Wish was some ladies round my area that like bigger guys, like you do.
Updated my profile so hopefully it's better.
What do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all.
Wish was some ladies round my area that like bigger guys, like you do.
Updated my profile so hopefully it's better.
What do you think? "
I'd loose the close up cock pic personally.
But you were successful before so just do what you did previous and sure you'll have as much luck.  |
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"I would class myself as slim/athletic. Had zero luck. I might start eating donuts and drinking pints more regularly. I think larger men have their fans. Gym bods obviously do. Think skinny guys are the ones who may struggle the most. In my humble opinion of course. "
Donuts are for amateurs, I recommend pies. |
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"Thank you all.
Wish was some ladies round my area that like bigger guys, like you do.
Updated my profile so hopefully it's better.
What do you think? "
Lose the close up cock pic.
Try exfoliating.
Are you a Secret Agent lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try expanding your age range, there may be lots of ladies trying to reach you who can't at the moment.
Agree with previous poster, better body shots, not C**K pics, it's assumed you have one of those.
You also live in a city which has a club, try socialising face to face as well as chatting on here.
Mrs |
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" I only go for bigger guys, but prefer to see body pics than dick pics, to actually see if they are big enough"
Well I wasn't expecting that comment! Big enough body being preferential he he
This thread, with the ladies commenting about their liking of the larger gent is really awesome. I see so many 6-packs photos and "I want gym fit/muscly only" that really brings me down. There's nothing wrong with a chunkier man or woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "
You have taken your pics from the worst possible angles! Take them facing you straight on. never from above or below and IN DAYLIGHT or a well lit room!
Also don't mention how big you are, let people decide once they meet you, women love all shapes and sizes, some personality shining through will help too. |
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By *rblue38Man
over a year ago
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I have the dad bod and not met any women since u been here roughly 2 years. I think it's all to do with competition really men get a harder time here. I think it's to do with location too. I wish you all the luck |
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"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "
Like others have said... Don't sweat it... Just be you and enjoy who you are... As you have seen from some of the replies, there are women who are into bigger guys... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big guys i.e. tall, broad shouldered, brawny / beefy guys do OK
Guys with soft hanging wobbly fat tend not to
Guys who are short and large tend not to either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Big guys i.e. tall, broad shouldered, brawny / beefy guys do OK
Guys with soft hanging wobbly fat tend not to
Guys who are short and large tend not to either"
It’s all about height on here I’ve found. Other things like facial looks,body come 2nd.
There are plenty of ladies out there that will meet you op. Read the profiles and filter the ones not for you out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aint got a clue if mine is classed as a dad bod or not i am what i am and i seem to be getting a few meets now
Its all about confidence
The last meet i had i really thought she wouldnt look twice at me..... We are meeting again for round 2 soon
It will happen when the time is right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aint got a clue if mine is classed as a dad bod or not i am what i am and i seem to be getting a few meets now
Its all about confidence
The last meet i had i really thought she wouldnt look twice at me..... We are meeting again for round 2 soon
It will happen when the time is right "
You're not large build tho
well, if you are, you're really good at breathing in |
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Horse for courses. My body tells a tale, mainly the love of ale, pork pies and enjoying myself. But I don't find it to be a barrier, many women are more than happy with a robust gentleman. FAB is hard work for single guys of all shapes and sizes. Best thing you can do is be your self, let your true self shine and avoid being a dick. |
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"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "
Love bigger guys .... but not dick pics .... instant no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hear you. Being a big guy your definitely not everyone’s first choice but there are women out there that like a bigger guy.
There’s someone for everyone it’s just finding them |
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I'm pretty much in this category, my sport pretty much demands dad bods heh.
Meets aren't as easy as some of my friends on here, but still the competiton is pretty much lottery standards, so crack on |
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It does make you feel a bit inadequate when you see all these six pack guys on here and profiles looking for 'gym fit'.
Being a bit chubby myself it's easy to put lack of 'success' down to that, but think it's hard for all males on here. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.
300 miles away though! 
I know 
Far from Newcastle?"
About 130 miles too far. And you need to work on your beer belly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.
300 miles away though!
I know
Far from Newcastle?
About 130 miles too far. And you need to work on your beer belly "
Haha I’m the best snuggler don't worry!!
Are you near Edinburgh? I’m working up near there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.
Get your arse here then haha"
Since when has showing abs been a beer belly  haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a dad bod more to hold and so yummy to cuddle into oh yes give me a dad bod any day......drools "
Wow ur stunning what an amazing figure would have messaged but im outside ur age range to chat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP i suggest trying some clubs mate it can be baptism of fire u might not get to play the first time but go a couple of times and i bet u will be surprised im alot bigger than u and i get meets |
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"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "
I'm a big guy and I don't agree about the no luck. U have to go to parties and socialise! Talk to women and banter. Feel the vibe!! Then u can tell ur people profile page face to face. By then ur a real person not just a profile! On ur profile too no dick pics for the public. Not all women like that so it's best to leave it off.
Be patient mate. It will come! Good luck |
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I'm a big fella, but you just have to be confident and work with what you have! I'm not actually on here to actively play myself (that's for Mrs A to do), but confidence and a good sense of humour go a long way to sell those curves.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just on the subject of bigger guys, I was part of a Discussion about body shaming and how girls feel pressured into conforming to an image, I feel its like this for guys just as much, especially on sites like this when you read some of the profiles you get the impression that you need to have a chiselled physique to get on with the ladies, this is in no way a self pity comment as I know rome wasn't built in a day but it can dent a guys confidence.
as I said to someone about health and fitness/looking after yourself `my bodys a temple...…...a bloody buddhist temple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not sure, I’m a bigger guy and was formally a lot more fitter and toned, I used to go to gym 6 times a week, then I thought why have a 6 pack when you can have a keg
Anyways from my experience of both sides, it’s a lot harder for the bigger guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't generally go for athletic guys, I have met a few but always felt more comfortable and had better meets with bigger guys. The young athletics that I have met tend to be the fuck boy type, message at 2am asking for nudes. The bigger dudes are the ones I am friends with and talk to through the day, not just at 2am after their other options have dried up lol. Sorry if I am generalizing, it's just my personal experience xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just on the subject of bigger guys, I was part of a Discussion about body shaming and how girls feel pressured into conforming to an image, I feel its like this for guys just as much, especially on sites like this when you read some of the profiles you get the impression that you need to have a chiselled physique to get on with the ladies, this is in no way a self pity comment as I know rome wasn't built in a day but it can dent a guys confidence.
as I said to someone about health and fitness/looking after yourself `my bodys a temple...…...a bloody buddhist temple "
well said ! Can I just say though, when six pack pictures appear in my inbox I generally scroll on by those. We are all attracted to different things. I can admire a good physique but I would rather snuggle a Dad bod after a steamy sesh  |
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"just on the subject of bigger guys, I was part of a Discussion about body shaming and how girls feel pressured into conforming to an image, I feel its like this for guys just as much, especially on sites like this when you read some of the profiles you get the impression that you need to have a chiselled physique to get on with the ladies, this is in no way a self pity comment as I know rome wasn't built in a day but it can dent a guys confidence.
as I said to someone about health and fitness/looking after yourself `my bodys a temple...…...a bloody buddhist temple "
Yeah, as someone whose struggled with weight my whole life, I can certainly confirm that body shaming for overweight men is a thing. Not on the same cultural level that women get it of course, but I spent a lot of my life feeling unattractive and inadequate. As I've gotten older it's meant less to me, and even posting up a naked, body-focused photo on the profile here feels oddly empowering now, when once it would have been unthinkable.
(Probably helps that, big or not, I found the woman of my dreams! ) |
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