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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I recently came out as panaexual (yay!) And now have gotten confident enough to want to try things with people of other genders apart from female but as always, I'm totally bloody clueless! I'm naturally an anxious and nervous person so going out and just meeting people in a normal setting wouldn't work for me. I really want to explore and discover myself and what I enjoy but at this point I don't know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I recently came out as panaexual (yay!) And now have gotten confident enough to want to try things with people of other genders apart from female but as always, I'm totally bloody clueless! I'm naturally an anxious and nervous person so going out and just meeting people in a normal setting wouldn't work for me. I really want to explore and discover myself and what I enjoy but at this point I don't know! "
At 25 you have social anxiety (25% of the populations does) and you want meets?
Most of the guys on here cannot get meets, many women do not like bi-guys and most trans people are pretty shy. I have met a few.
Given your friends and verifications I suggest you are just looking to fuck anything and you have no idea what pansexual actually means based on your experience. Bear with me though...
I would sort that anxiety out, you can get books on it from the library it a famous 1 Trillion dollar bookshop.
I did this 4 years ago and now I am known for my confidence, which women love. Then worry about who you want to fuck.
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I'm wanting to experience things that I haven't already. That's what I want to do. In terms of my actual experience, you're right. In reality I'm not here to fuck everything and anything I can, that's not what I'm about, even if it appears so. I do want to meet, but want to be comfy enough to do so. I find that talking first eases the anxiety a lot. I'm seeking therapy currently which is helping but I am quite shy. |
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"I'm wanting to experience things that I haven't already. That's what I want to do. In terms of my actual experience, you're right. In reality I'm not here to fuck everything and anything I can, that's not what I'm about, even if it appears so. I do want to meet, but want to be comfy enough to do so. I find that talking first eases the anxiety a lot. I'm seeking therapy currently which is helping but I am quite shy. "
Try visiting your local LGBT group and gay bar, you will meet lovely sociable people who will help you like they did me. |
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