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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have any ladies gone to a club on there own?
I've only ever been to a club on a handful of occasions.
Each time the same woman was there on her own ...... that was last week and almost three years ago!
The thought of it is good but don't think I'd ever have the balls to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have any ladies gone to a club on there own?
I've only ever been to a club on a handful of occasions.
Each time the same woman was there on her own ...... that was last week and almost three years ago!
The thought of it is good but don't think I'd ever have the BALLS to do it. "
Fake Alert Fake Alert
Thought you said you were a woman  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The club we go to takes really special care of single ladies
The other week 3 came and it was their first time so I showed them round,everyone chatted to them,they had champagne from the owners and each had a great time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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sory to dissapoint you, just because i did not like it - does not mean you wont.
my experience was cupids in manchester and i was made to feel a bit like if i was there, i must be up for anything.
however, different club and different people will give a different experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sory to dissapoint you, just because i did not like it - does not mean you wont.
my experience was cupids in manchester and i was made to feel a bit like if i was there, i must be up for anything.
however, different club and different people will give a different experience.
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Single women will always be seen that, I am not for one minute saying that is right as it's anything but, however if you are in a swing club it's a natural enough assumption for guys to make.
I suspect, I apologise in advance if I am wrong, you had a bad experience with persistent guys who were either impolite or unable to put you at your ease enough for you to relax.
Going with friends is probably the best way to go but even then at some stage you will inevitably end up on your own so whatever happens you will end up relying on the guys present to treat you in a respectable fashion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been quite often to clubs on my own and with friends. If you go somewhere often enough you get to know people there. It makes life easier though if you know what you want and don't want and are very clear about it. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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I go to a couple of clubs on my own and have never had any problems at all....but I think you need to be selective about which ones you go to.
I think the better clubs have a vested interest in doing their best to look after single women and my experience is that they have gone out of their way to make me feel welcome and make sure Im ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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you see Estee, if that is indeed your real name, you should just go with a guy to Cupids. I think if you met someone that would take you a few times you would then get to know people, feel confident enough to ask guys to play etc... Oh, wait... |
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you said that you were getting bothered by guys - so i take it you went on a singles night .
most of the clubs allow females in any night so it would be better to go on a couples night then you wont be bothered with single guys. and when you get chatting with folk im sure the male of a couple would be all to happy to play with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My advice would be to team up with another girl...and go together... xx
Also I would choose your night with care...depending on what you are looking for....singles nights...can be a little overwhelming....
couples nights ...might be a more gentle laid back vibe...xxx Some clubs welcome single girls on couples nights..x
What ever you choose...have a great time sugar...xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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just to add, i do still go to clubs on a regular babsis, i just go with my husband lol.
estee, i am sure you will have a great time as long as you plan where and when you go xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"you see Estee, if that is indeed your real name, you should just go with a guy to Cupids. I think if you met someone that would take you a few times you would then get to know people, feel confident enough to ask guys to play etc... Oh, wait..."
Ritchie.
What a tremendous idea!! You know anyone who would be good enough to do that for me?? |
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