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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances? |
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?"
Mixed your profile? How can you mix 2 lines?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?"
change your username |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?"
I would not call 2 sentences a profile tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?
I would not call 2 sentences a profile tbh "
I know but that's all you get with many |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Add to your profile txt.
Give an alternative to not being able to accom. Oh and to me...sorry to say your pic looks kinda fake so change it or add other to prove its not.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?
I would not call 2 sentences a profile tbh I know but that's all you get with many "
I suppose it beats 'fill in later...' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a bit more info on a profile personally. (Maybe not an essay like mine lol) but a bit more. Also send messages. I’ve never sent a message to anyone as I (like all the woman on here I imagine) get about 200 a day and don’t have time to read them all so you have to make the first line of your message stand out x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?"
Noted and done... not sure it’s enough yet but thanks for the tip. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Delete and start again. Can't accommodate in Mayfair i think people you wanna match up with would want to know why.  "
Ahh I didn’t notice that. As I said it’s been active for while. Circumstance and location have changed. Thanks for the heads up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?
Mixed your profile? How can you mix 2 lines?
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I’ve had no lines, then and essay, story and then went back to keeping it simple.
I’ve changed it again. Added a little more. Let’s see if it works.
Thanks for having a look. I appreciate it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?change your username "
Done. I didn’t know I could lol... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a member on here for a while but not been too active. I’ve mixed my profile and have changed pictures numerous times but can’t seem to get much success.
Any advice on how to increase my chances?
I would not call 2 sentences a profile tbh "
Good point. I’ve made a little more effort now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Add to your profile txt.
Give an alternative to not being able to accom. Oh and to me...sorry to say your pic looks kinda fake so change it or add other to prove its not.
Good luck."
I am verified. And I’ve changed it a few times. I’ll update again today.
Thanks for the advice. I’ve added to my profile. |
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The profile isn't bad but it doesn't stand out either.
As suggested by another poster, you might be best to delete and start again.
Many would avoid someone who has been on that long and remain unverified.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Add to your profile txt.
Give an alternative to not being able to accom. Oh and to me...sorry to say your pic looks kinda fake so change it or add other to prove its not.
Good luck."
love your pics |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like a bit more info on a profile personally. (Maybe not an essay like mine lol) but a bit more. Also send messages. I’ve never sent a message to anyone as I (like all the woman on here I imagine) get about 200 a day and don’t have time to read them all so you have to make the first line of your message stand out x"
I have inboxed a few but I suppose all of the comments above have been a contributing factor not to receive responses.
Let’s see if all the advice and amendments work.
Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like a bit more info on a profile personally. (Maybe not an essay like mine lol) but a bit more. Also send messages. I’ve never sent a message to anyone as I (like all the woman on here I imagine) get about 200 a day and don’t have time to read them all so you have to make the first line of your message stand out x
I have inboxed a few but I suppose all of the comments above have been a contributing factor not to receive responses.
Let’s see if all the advice and amendments work.
Thank you. "
Good luck. Profiles better now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The profile isn't bad but it doesn't stand out either.
As suggested by another poster, you might be best to delete and start again.
Many would avoid someone who has been on that long and remain unverified.
Nita"
I’ll keep it on for a couple more weeks and if not I’ll start again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Add to your profile txt.
Give an alternative to not being able to accom. Oh and to me...sorry to say your pic looks kinda fake so change it or add other to prove its not.
Good luck.love your pics "
Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like a bit more info on a profile personally. (Maybe not an essay like mine lol) but a bit more. Also send messages. I’ve never sent a message to anyone as I (like all the woman on here I imagine) get about 200 a day and don’t have time to read them all so you have to make the first line of your message stand out x
I have inboxed a few but I suppose all of the comments above have been a contributing factor not to receive responses.
Let’s see if all the advice and amendments work.
Thank you.
Good luck. Profiles better now "
I’ll give it another shot. |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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Your profile comes across very cocksure and controlling. Although you have a good photo that would otherwise pique some interest with most ladies I'm sure, that profile write up puts us off straight away. It may not be the same for everyone so take all feedback here as you wish and make your own decisions on what you are trying to achieve. |
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"My advice, ask Tame Impala or BananaMan. Those guys are the kings of Fab and will advise you wisely and accordingly 
I’ll message them today. "
Please be your own person. Big difference between being known on the forum and actually being successful on the scene.
Stay true to yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile comes across very cocksure and controlling. Although you have a good photo that would otherwise pique some interest with most ladies I'm sure, that profile write up puts us off straight away. It may not be the same for everyone so take all feedback here as you wish and make your own decisions on what you are trying to achieve."
Noted, we all have a difference of opinion. I'll have a think and see if I can improve it more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My advice, ask Tame Impala or BananaMan. Those guys are the kings of Fab and will advise you wisely and accordingly
I’ll message them today.
Please be your own person. Big difference between being known on the forum and actually being successful on the scene.
Stay true to yourself."
I couldn't agree more. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Think it's a good profile, but I didn't see the earlier edition. " noticable" ....thats intriguing.
My only suggestions are to add a couple more photos and maybe try to add a little more about what you can offer. At the moment you say mote about what you are looking for. You need to put in more about what you offer.
It's the ladies reading your profile that you need to interest remember.
Attending a club will get you some verifications, even if it's just chatting at the bar, so give that a whirl. |
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