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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Kinda thinkin that myself but in person its a whole other story. She texts me out of the blue sometimes asking what im up to..then il reply and she wont text back..its a bit of a mind fuck alright |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When she texts you next time don't reply. She's leading you by the nose...or something else."
Agree, turn the tables and go silent. The best way to see if she’s interested or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She's an attention whore who gets off on prick teasing you.
Block her number. If she wants the attention she'll "pop by" and ask if everything is ok.
I spent 3 wasted years chatting with a woman who never actually arranged a meet. More fool me. |
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"When she texts you next time don't reply. She's leading you by the nose...or something else.
Agree, turn the tables and go silent. The best way to see if she’s interested or not. "
She's not interested beyond getting the attention and keeping it by dangling a carrot now and again. She's married and this is how she gets her fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are married, this might be a close call that never happened, so no harm done to your marriage either."
There’s a few married people on here. I’m sure they have their own reasons  |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
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"Sounds like she’s having a laugh. Doesn’t mean she’s a “cock tease”. Flirting isn’t always that serious "
Especially if keeping punters in her cafe happy, entertained and returning.
Like an overly chatty barmaid. |
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies? "
She's married and rarely at work so she could be with her husband or family. |
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By *ediMan
over a year ago
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Sounds like she does actually fancy when she flirts but then in two minds and not sure, don’t chase her too much because she’s qualifying she.
When she realises your not readily available she’ll be right back, in the mean time keep doing your thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All she ever does is complain about her fella and i really couldnt be arsed listening to it...i never say anything about my marriage as its private. I think i will not reply to her and let sleeping dogs lie. Thanks for advice guys. Who knew this site could be such a handy resource lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies? "
she wants you, don't give up, send her flowers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Terms like cock tease are pretty sexist and sex-expectant. Just because you want more doesn't mean she does or is obliged to."
I agree we all flirt from time to time and if you flirted back, she probably enjoyed the attention, let's face it we all do human nature, unless she actually said she wants to have sex with you its all harmless fun. Why label her a cock tease after all your flirting and married what does that make you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are married, this might be a close call that never happened, so no harm done to your marriage either.
There’s a few married people on here. I’m sure they have their own reasons "
Yes I think you are right.
OP it's possible that the fantasy is a turn on for her but the reality is scaring the crap out of her. Like the nice lady said if she texts don't respond and see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are married, this might be a close call that never happened, so no harm done to your marriage either.
There’s a few married people on here. I’m sure they have their own reasons "
I really wasn't having a go at him being a married man. This woman seems to be messing with him, and she is 'closer to home' than someone on here probably. Possibly a greater risk to his marriage was my thought |
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies? "
OP it’s called ‘banter’.
Stop thinking with your cock for once.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies?
OP it’s called ‘banter’.
Stop thinking with your cock for once.
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she likes him |
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies?
OP it’s called ‘banter’.
Stop thinking with your cock for once.
she likes him "
Yes only to verbally flirt with but once the trouser snake gets woken the men can’t think properly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies?
OP it’s called ‘banter’.
Stop thinking with your cock for once.
she likes him
Yes only to verbally flirt with but once the trouser snake gets woken the men can’t think properly "
omg that's so unfair, they have genuine flirting going on this could be start of a tempestuous affair |
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies?
OP it’s called ‘banter’.
Stop thinking with your cock for once.
she likes him
Yes only to verbally flirt with but once the trouser snake gets woken the men can’t think properly omg that's so unfair, they have genuine flirting going on this could be start of a tempestuous affair"
Aye t’lass in t’cafe wearing t’apron serving up t’butties and t’supplier fetching them theer t’sausages.....all t’steam coming off t’chip pan and they only have eyes for tother (spoken in a gruff Yorkshire accent)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies?
OP it’s called ‘banter’.
Stop thinking with your cock for once.
she likes him
Yes only to verbally flirt with but once the trouser snake gets woken the men can’t think properly omg that's so unfair, they have genuine flirting going on this could be start of a tempestuous affair
Aye t’lass in t’cafe wearing t’apron serving up t’butties and t’supplier fetching them theer t’sausages.....all t’steam coming off t’chip pan and they only have eyes for tother (spoken in a gruff Yorkshire accent) "
I got that accent........ Are they an item yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies? "
you go in her cafe for a coffee or maybe a full Irish, it is the custom of independently run businesses to charm their customer to make sure they come back and she has you hooked my friend, just enjoy the friendly chat it may be all you get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She is a customer of mine so she had it from that basically. A non starter is a good way to put it. She fuckin hot though lol"
Delete her number. And keep things just as a work basis.
Your both married !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a customer who owns a cafe and everytime i call in to see her the flirting is unreal...she is married and she knows im married yet she openly talks about us running away together in a jokey kind of way. She keeps saying that we should go for a coffee sometime away from her work and i agreed but now she is rarely at her work and doesnt reply to the texts. Is this girl just a cock tease or am i missing something here? Any advice ladies?
OP it’s called ‘banter’.
Stop thinking with your cock for once.
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I havnt thought with my brain in years. Whats it like? I Might give it a go lol |
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