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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "
You could see if a threesome is appealing to all.
But there are other nights, why restrict yourself to one person?
Just arrange a second meet. |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
Arrange a social with both. This isn't a dating site so you don't have to stick with one person. The pint is kind of the opposite
Have some fun.with both if you like both, either individually orntest the waters for a threesome. |
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "
Why can't you meet both? if they really want to meet I'm sure they'll be patient if time is a factor. A couple of socials and choose the best connection if you really don't want 2 playmates. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "
Wow. Why is this difficult. You have already decided you like this person enough to arrange a meet, simple meet said person. Other who has come along who is nicer, although you have not met yet so how do you know, should be arranged for another time. To many on fab just go with the best choice and f##k the person with whom a meet is already arranged. Why do you think there are so many threads on time wasters  |
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"Arrange a social with both. This isn't a dating site so you don't have to stick with one person. The pint is kind of the opposite
Have some fun.with both if you like both, either individually orntest the waters for a threesome."
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
Bristol East |
"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "
I think so long as your honest with both, it's fine. We can change or minds or postpone or cancel. Decide who you want most and crack on!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along
Wow. Why is this difficult. You have already decided you like this person enough to arrange a meet, simple meet said person. Other who has come along who is nicer, although you have not met yet so how do you know, should be arranged for another time. To many on fab just go with the best choice and f##k the person with whom a meet is already arranged. Why do you think there are so many threads on time wasters "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "
ask yourself how you'd feel if someone cancelled you because they had a "better" option... |
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Meet the one you first said yes to first. Tell the other you have already made arrangements but would like to meet another time.
If he wants to meet he'll wait. If not and gets the hump then he's probably not a nice guy so you had a lucky escape anyway x |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I'd have the obligatory social with both of them separately. Then sex with them, again separately, but with a view to all getting together at some point to, if that appealed to them both! |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "
We have a hard rule for this and have used it a few times. For us once a meet is arranged we won't cancel it, illness preventing. We'd had a meet arranged then an offer we would have jumped at came along a few days later, we explained to the second offer that we had a meet arranged and although they were our preferred meet we wouldn't be cancelling, a lot of respect was gained that day. The subsequent meet was, well, let's say, well worth it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???"
I see you are looking for a meet today? Did they both read this thread and fuck you off?
karma is a bitch in heels. |
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "
Even though it's your right to cancel. Just think how you would feel if someone did it to you. If the other one is nicer and is really interested then he'll still be there. Have a social with the one who've you've said yes to and then go meet the nicer one at a later date. Pretty simple really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I should just give the first lot a polite sorry email.
The trouble is if you tell a porkie and you want to post that veri then you'll be busted LOL. So best to come clean and say, really sorry but I've decided not to take things further after all, and leave it at that.
If they ask why, ignore and probably block to avoid any unpleasantness. Go back some other time if you change your mind. Hey this is supposed to be fun |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"Oh I should just give the first lot a polite sorry email.
The trouble is if you tell a porkie and you want to post that veri then you'll be busted LOL. So best to come clean and say, really sorry but I've decided not to take things further after all, and leave it at that.
If they ask why, ignore and probably block to avoid any unpleasantness. Go back some other time if you change your mind. Hey this is supposed to be fun "
WOW........Your profile should come with a disclaimer 'WARNING TIME WASTER' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "
Keep my agreed meet that's what, as it's courtesy and respectful.to do that.
Never make anyone feel like your 2nd best. That's just low and shallow.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along
Keep my agreed meet that's what, as it's courtesy and respectful.to do that.
Never make anyone feel like your 2nd best. That's just low and shallow.
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yes I agree but all to often it's the one who has the most appeal that gets the meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes I agree but all to often it's the one who has the most appeal that gets the meet "
Exactly, and although nothing can be done except to conduct our own affairs accordingly.
I can only imagine how different this thread would be had it been a man post.
And the replies if a woman started a thread about being cancelled on for a better offer.
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By (user no longer on site)
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yes I agree but all to often it's the one who has the most appeal that gets the meet
Exactly, and although nothing can be done except to conduct our own affairs accordingly.
I can only imagine how different this thread would be had it been a man post.
And the replies if a woman started a thread about being cancelled on for a better offer.
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You know full well that a man would be hounded off the sit ans added to more block lists than you can shake a cock at... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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yes I agree but all to often it's the one who has the most appeal that gets the meet
Exactly, and although nothing can be done except to conduct our own affairs accordingly.
I can only imagine how different this thread would be had it been a man post.
And the replies if a woman started a thread about being cancelled on for a better offer.
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yes agreed but it just highlights all things happen all ways....... Man or woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along
Wow. Why is this difficult. You have already decided you like this person enough to arrange a meet, simple meet said person. Other who has come along who is nicer, although you have not met yet so how do you know, should be arranged for another time. To many on fab just go with the best choice and f##k the person with whom a meet is already arranged. Why do you think there are so many threads on time wasters "
Good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along
We have a hard rule for this and have used it a few times. For us once a meet is arranged we won't cancel it, illness preventing. We'd had a meet arranged then an offer we would have jumped at came along a few days later, we explained to the second offer that we had a meet arranged and although they were our preferred meet we wouldn't be cancelling, a lot of respect was gained that day. The subsequent meet was, well, let's say, well worth it "
This!!!!! Exactly what they have said! Winning!
What has happened to people just being direct and honest! This couple above do exactly what I do! It pays off big time.
I’ve had some awesome meets and follow ups are even better. This isn’t a dating site it’s a swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along
You could see if a threesome is appealing to all.
But there are other nights, why restrict yourself to one person?
Just arrange a second meet. "
Agreed |
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