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"Hey all,
Can anyone tell me if when you block someone can a verification you’ve left still show on their profile?? XNope . All gone  "
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Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x |
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"Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x"
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"Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x
You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying. "
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X |
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"Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x
You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying.
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X"
Oooooo and here we have the crux of another thread do people look at verifications........ Yes they do ha |
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"Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x
You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying.
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X"
I get you. I am the same with a certain female. Not only is she less careful than I would like but she gets attached to men very easily and has been know to cause trouble for any women the man might go on to meet. I'd rather stay out of all that malarkey so steer clear of her and her play pals. |
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You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying.
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X"
I totaly get this.
I have several people on my 'not list' due to knowing certain things about them & they manner in which they conduct themselves , I'll be dammed if I ever go anywhere near anyone they've ever met.
I follow their veris very closely.
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"You can see how woman ended up at the stake in the old days..."
Not trying to out anyone or cause them issues!!! I just personally don’t agree with the amount of men she meets and in turn I remove myself from her very full circle..... |
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Why would this matter about a verification that has been given.
The verification is an account of meeting someone and verifying that they are who they say they are.
It is not a compulsary invitation to fuck everyone they have fucked.
I'm not sure we have ever met someone just because we had verified a mutual acquaintance. |
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"Why would this matter about a verification that has been given.
The verification is an account of meeting someone and verifying that they are who they say they are.
It is not a compulsary invitation to fuck everyone they have fucked.
No - I’m aware of that!!! I just don’t want to fuck someone who has/is going to fuck a woman who has met hundreds of guys!!! And if others are happy to do it - great, let them fill their boots!! It’s iust not for me......
I'm not sure we have ever met someone just because we had verified a mutual acquaintance. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x
You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying.
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X
I get you. I am the same with a certain female. Not only is she less careful than I would like but she gets attached to men very easily and has been know to cause trouble for any women the man might go on to meet. I'd rather stay out of all that malarkey so steer clear of her and her play pals."
I feel the same. I was meeting a guy regularly who I knew had another fb but he made out she was like me, just fucking him. When I accidentally found out who it was and that she’d fuck a minimum of 4 guys a day and do bj marathons, I had to stop seeing him. The risk was just too high. Obviously others might be doing the same and there’s no way of me knowing, but with the knowledge I had, I had to remove myself from the risk! |
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"You can see how woman ended up at the stake in the old days...
Not trying to out anyone or cause them issues!!! I just personally don’t agree with the amount of men she meets and in turn I remove myself from her very full circle....."
Have any of your other meets met the woman in question? |
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"Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x
You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying.
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X
I get you. I am the same with a certain female. Not only is she less careful than I would like but she gets attached to men very easily and has been know to cause trouble for any women the man might go on to meet. I'd rather stay out of all that malarkey so steer clear of her and her play pals."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x
You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying.
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X
I get you. I am the same with a certain female. Not only is she less careful than I would like but she gets attached to men very easily and has been know to cause trouble for any women the man might go on to meet. I'd rather stay out of all that malarkey so steer clear of her and her play pals."
my wife and i have a certain lady on here that anyone she has played with is a no no too. Wonder if its the same lady??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all,
Can anyone tell me if when you block someone can a verification you’ve left still show on their profile?? X"
No it goes but they will still have the number of verifications as the same. The actual verification does not show. |
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"Why would this matter about a verification that has been given.
The verification is an account of meeting someone and verifying that they are who they say they are.
It is not a compulsary invitation to fuck everyone they have fucked.
I'm not sure we have ever met someone just because we had verified a mutual acquaintance. "
Seriously?
It's certainly far more than just an account of meeting someone and verifying they are who they are. It's also association by default...its a reflection of the 'type' of person you're interested in, so very important when looking at meeting someone to see who they meet. I will always look at whom they they have met and if veris are hidden, request to view. If they won't then I don't. No exceptions. As has already stated it's a health issue that can't be taken lightly. IMO. |
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"Have you heard about 7 degrees of separation OP, the chances are everyone you meet will have met someone who has met her etc, kind of puts blocking one guy into perspective. "
I haven’t blocked the bloke for meeting anyone.....I’ve merely said I don’t want to meet them again if they are fucking her!!!! If he wants to then I have no issue with that, I wouldn’t dream of dictating to someone. But surely it MY choice of not meeting again because of who they decide to meet further down the line......????
More to the point, don’t tell me they blocked her when his verification is proudly showing on her profile still?? Be honest, that’s all we ask....... |
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"Thought as much!!! Not so much someone Needing to lose a verification, opposed to being bullshitted about having blocked someone they’ve met.
I won’t share a FB with the other third party they’ve just met as we’re not into meeting people who have met others who have fucked the whole site......nothing wrong with that in their world and Im not being judgemental, it’s just how we feel!!!
Thanks for confirming guys and girls...x
You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying.
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X
I get you. I am the same with a certain female. Not only is she less careful than I would like but she gets attached to men very easily and has been know to cause trouble for any women the man might go on to meet. I'd rather stay out of all that malarkey so steer clear of her and her play pals. my wife and i have a certain lady on here that anyone she has played with is a no no too. Wonder if its the same lady???"
Who knows......PM us if you want?? I have no desire to name names on here.....x |
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"You can see how woman ended up at the stake in the old days...
Not trying to out anyone or cause them issues!!! I just personally don’t agree with the amount of men she meets and in turn I remove myself from her very full circle.....
Have any of your other meets met the woman in question?"
No....we’ve met 2 people in total. 1 being the guy, who actually wasn’t aware of my opinion of this woman/couple....so it’s not his fault!!! However, when we spoke I explained the reasons behind me not waning to meet anyone who has been with her ( was only a social this time with her) and that if he’s planning on playing which they put on their veri’s they were going to be soon, that I’m sorry I wouldn’t be meeting with him again!!!
He responded saying he didn’t realise her reputation and that he had deleted her veri and blocked her....I said he didn’t need to do that but it would be a deal breaker for us if we were to play again - However, despite her veri being hidden from his profile it was still on hers so clearly he hadn’t blocked her like he said!!
Again, it’s down to him who he plays with!! We, however don’t like being lied too nor do I want to go near a guy who has been near them!! Which sadly in our area is becoming a challenge lol....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can see how woman ended up at the stake in the old days...
Not trying to out anyone or cause them issues!!! I just personally don’t agree with the amount of men she meets and in turn I remove myself from her very full circle.....
Have any of your other meets met the woman in question?
No....we’ve met 2 people in total. 1 being the guy, who actually wasn’t aware of my opinion of this woman/couple....so it’s not his fault!!! However, when we spoke I explained the reasons behind me not waning to meet anyone who has been with her ( was only a social this time with her) and that if he’s planning on playing which they put on their veri’s they were going to be soon, that I’m sorry I wouldn’t be meeting with him again!!!
He responded saying he didn’t realise her reputation and that he had deleted her veri and blocked her....I said he didn’t need to do that but it would be a deal breaker for us if we were to play again - However, despite her veri being hidden from his profile it was still on hers so clearly he hadn’t blocked her like he said!!
Again, it’s down to him who he plays with!! We, however don’t like being lied too nor do I want to go near a guy who has been near them!! Which sadly in our area is becoming a challenge lol....
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How did you establish the other guy you met hasn't laid down with your bete noir?
And if guy in doghouse hadn't had a verification from her/them would you have fucked him by now? |
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"Have you heard about 7 degrees of separation OP, the chances are everyone you meet will have met someone who has met her etc, kind of puts blocking one guy into perspective.
I haven’t blocked the bloke for meeting anyone.....I’ve merely said I don’t want to meet them again if they are fucking her!!!! If he wants to then I have no issue with that, I wouldn’t dream of dictating to someone. But surely it MY choice of not meeting again because of who they decide to meet further down the line......????
More to the point, don’t tell me they blocked her when his verification is proudly showing on her profile still?? Be honest, that’s all we ask......."
If he can lie to you about blocking he can lie about anything.  |
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"You can see how woman ended up at the stake in the old days...
Not trying to out anyone or cause them issues!!! I just personally don’t agree with the amount of men she meets and in turn I remove myself from her very full circle.....
Have any of your other meets met the woman in question?
No....we’ve met 2 people in total. 1 being the guy, who actually wasn’t aware of my opinion of this woman/couple....so it’s not his fault!!! However, when we spoke I explained the reasons behind me not waning to meet anyone who has been with her ( was only a social this time with her) and that if he’s planning on playing which they put on their veri’s they were going to be soon, that I’m sorry I wouldn’t be meeting with him again!!!
He responded saying he didn’t realise her reputation and that he had deleted her veri and blocked her....I said he didn’t need to do that but it would be a deal breaker for us if we were to play again - However, despite her veri being hidden from his profile it was still on hers so clearly he hadn’t blocked her like he said!!
Again, it’s down to him who he plays with!! We, however don’t like being lied too nor do I want to go near a guy who has been near them!! Which sadly in our area is becoming a challenge lol....
How did you establish the other guy you met hasn't laid down with your bete noir?
And if guy in doghouse hadn't had a verification from her/them would you have fucked him by now?"
We met and played last Friday.....he had never met her before. Then, on Tuesday he met for a social as both their profiles verified...both stating they couldn’t wait to meet up again soon!!!
Hence my then speaking with him and saying if he is planning on meeting her then I’m really sorry, but I don’t want to be fucking a guy who is planning on fucking her....( we thought we’d hit the jackpot on Friday as they guy was perfect) and therefore I’m sorry but we wouldn’t be meeting again....it was him who said he would prefer to block her and wanted to be our long term guy!!! That’s why We are so disappointed because we finally found someone who we really liked and secondly someone finally in the area who hadn’t been on her hit list lol!!! |
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The content on the veri won't show but if you're the only veri they had they will still keep the green tick and the veri summary ('2 veries, 1 meet veri by female and 1 male cam veri, last verified 2 weeks ago' that bit stays)
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Hi
I am new to this
Someone has blocked and reported me. He had sent messages that I hadn’t opened, then sent a rude one asking why I hadn’t answered. I answered asking him not to be rude. He then proceeded to ask if we could meet, I said no thank you and asked politely for him not to message again. He then blocked me for being a fake and a time waster!!!!
Should I have blocked him first??!!!!
Am I being too nice?!! |
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"Hi
I am new to this
Someone has blocked and reported me. He had sent messages that I hadn’t opened, then sent a rude one asking why I hadn’t answered. I answered asking him not to be rude. He then proceeded to ask if we could meet, I said no thank you and asked politely for him not to message again. He then blocked me for being a fake and a time waster!!!!
Should I have blocked him first??!!!!
Am I being too nice?!!"
On hear, you need to get used to the crazies....just make sure you block him, and then forget about it....it probably won't be the last time something like that happens, unfortunately. |
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"Hi
I am new to this
Someone has blocked and reported me. He had sent messages that I hadn’t opened, then sent a rude one asking why I hadn’t answered. I answered asking him not to be rude. He then proceeded to ask if we could meet, I said no thank you and asked politely for him not to message again. He then blocked me for being a fake and a time waster!!!!
Should I have blocked him first??!!!!
Am I being too nice?!!"
Hello
You would be better off starting a new post thread with this question as you'll get more answers. You've posted this in the middle of another thread about a different subject. Up to you if you want to do a new thread.
You can still block him. Otherwise he can unblock you, send abusive messages then block you again so you can't reply.
You can block him from the messages he sent. Or type his profile name into your block list. Or on the mobile site if you go to his profile you can click on the menu and there's an option to block him there. |
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"Hi
I am new to this
Someone has blocked and reported me. He had sent messages that I hadn’t opened, then sent a rude one asking why I hadn’t answered. I answered asking him not to be rude. He then proceeded to ask if we could meet, I said no thank you and asked politely for him not to message again. He then blocked me for being a fake and a time waster!!!!
Should I have blocked him first??!!!!
Am I being too nice?!!"
You can still block him, go into a message he has sent you and click on his profile name ........ it will say blocked etc whilst on that page click in right hand top corner and the drop down will have option to block x |
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"You can see how woman ended up at the stake in the old days...
Not trying to out anyone or cause them issues!!! I just personally don’t agree with the amount of men she meets and in turn I remove myself from her very full circle.....
Have any of your other meets met the woman in question?
No....we’ve met 2 people in total. 1 being the guy, who actually wasn’t aware of my opinion of this woman/couple....so it’s not his fault!!! However, when we spoke I explained the reasons behind me not waning to meet anyone who has been with her ( was only a social this time with her) and that if he’s planning on playing which they put on their veri’s they were going to be soon, that I’m sorry I wouldn’t be meeting with him again!!!
He responded saying he didn’t realise her reputation and that he had deleted her veri and blocked her....I said he didn’t need to do that but it would be a deal breaker for us if we were to play again - However, despite her veri being hidden from his profile it was still on hers so clearly he hadn’t blocked her like he said!!
Again, it’s down to him who he plays with!! We, however don’t like being lied too nor do I want to go near a guy who has been near them!! Which sadly in our area is becoming a challenge lol....
How did you establish the other guy you met hasn't laid down with your bete noir?
And if guy in doghouse hadn't had a verification from her/them would you have fucked him by now?
We met and played last Friday.....he had never met her before. Then, on Tuesday he met for a social as both their profiles verified...both stating they couldn’t wait to meet up again soon!!!
Hence my then speaking with him and saying if he is planning on meeting her then I’m really sorry, but I don’t want to be fucking a guy who is planning on fucking her....( we thought we’d hit the jackpot on Friday as they guy was perfect) and therefore I’m sorry but we wouldn’t be meeting again....it was him who said he would prefer to block her and wanted to be our long term guy!!! That’s why We are so disappointed because we finally found someone who we really liked and secondly someone finally in the area who hadn’t been on her hit list lol!!! "
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You do know this is a swinging site?
Where people meet for consensual no strings sex.just saying.
I do - I also have my own set of rules, which I believe I am allowed!!! And meeting with a guy who has met with a particular female on here is a block for me!!! I have no wish to be sharing any form of bodily fluids with this certain person as value my health and have a some self respect....my world, my choice!!! And people can do as they wish, I have no issue but if people are meeting her, I’m taking myself out of the equation. I also hate being lied too.....X
I totaly get this.
I have several people on my 'not list' due to knowing certain things about them & they manner in which they conduct themselves , I'll be dammed if I ever go anywhere near anyone they've ever met.
I follow their veris very closely.
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I honestly didn’t know swinging was this must drama.....
I really feel bad for the guy in this situation......
All he did was try to meet someone new.... now he has lost a great couple.....
But to be fair...... did you expect this perfect guy to be monogamous with you? |
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I don't think it is fair to Judge guys purely on who they have met, it's not like the guys are in a relationship with these ladies, as long as the guy meets your criteria, that's what counts.
Swinging is a journey and not a destination. Some guys might like you as a lady but at the same time you might not be beautiful enough to get the attention of other guys. So I don't judge people based on their past. |
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