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Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's the fact they don't clear their inbox. Tbh a quick not interested would suffice, I also have a lot of read but not deleted mails that I've sent to couples. (Even couples that have winked my profile). I always attach face pics too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alan"
the inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alan"
It means I'm lazy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alanthe inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha "
Not sure where you got this figure from as, on a previous single lady profile I've had over 400 unread.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alanthe inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha
Not sure where you got this figure from as, on a previous single lady profile I've had over 400 unread.
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Oooooo well I was told that by a woman who put a very sexy pic of her breasts up and received 2109 inbox messages also others have said that in forums maybe if you're a gold subscriber you get more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's all good if they don't delete messages I know not to bother with them again so it's a way to keep track of who not to message if you get no reply so win win and of course lazyness too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's all good if they don't delete messages I know not to bother with them again so it's a way to keep track of who not to message if you get no reply so win win and of course lazyness too"
How do you know?
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"You asked this on here before
Perhaps I did - I had forgotten - it's me age luv - cheers. "
Have just returned to original post, where I got many replies and signed it off - it really must be my age and lack of savvy about the site. All responders thanks. Enjoy the Fab life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alanthe inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha
Not sure where you got this figure from as, on a previous single lady profile I've had over 400 unread.
Oooooo well I was told that by a woman who put a very sexy pic of her breasts up and received 2109 inbox messages also others have said that in forums maybe if you're a gold subscriber you get more "
Don’t be fooled into thinking if you subscribe you get more messages or women are more interested in you.
How much you pay the site doesn’t interest us.
Some tick the box that stops you messaging unless you’re a subscriber but that’s purely to limit the messages. If you’re a subscriber you might stay on the site more than an hour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alanthe inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha
Not sure where you got this figure from as, on a previous single lady profile I've had over 400 unread.
Oooooo well I was told that by a woman who put a very sexy pic of her breasts up and received 2109 inbox messages also others have said that in forums maybe if you're a gold subscriber you get more
Don’t be fooled into thinking if you subscribe you get more messages or women are more interested in you.
How much you pay the site doesn’t interest us.
Some tick the box that stops you messaging unless you’re a subscriber but that’s purely to limit the messages. If you’re a subscriber you might stay on the site more than an hour. "
cmon you know and I know it's addictive, paying is about freedom to message and store pics and use more of the sites tools you don't have to pay here to use the site well that's one of the attractions of it but gold subscribers definitely get more pic storage, get to view more cams, so possibly get to see more messages in inbox I don't know whether that's the case yet but will find out shortly I imagine, I don't actually know anyone who's a gold subscriber but would be easy to tell by pic storage |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alanthe inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha
Not sure where you got this figure from as, on a previous single lady profile I've had over 400 unread.
Oooooo well I was told that by a woman who put a very sexy pic of her breasts up and received 2109 inbox messages also others have said that in forums maybe if you're a gold subscriber you get more "
Nope, my messages have hit the thousands as a silver supporter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alanthe inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha
Not sure where you got this figure from as, on a previous single lady profile I've had over 400 unread.
Oooooo well I was told that by a woman who put a very sexy pic of her breasts up and received 2109 inbox messages also others have said that in forums maybe if you're a gold subscriber you get more
Nope, my messages have hit the thousands as a silver supporter. "
and you can see them all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alanthe inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha
Not sure where you got this figure from as, on a previous single lady profile I've had over 400 unread.
Oooooo well I was told that by a woman who put a very sexy pic of her breasts up and received 2109 inbox messages also others have said that in forums maybe if you're a gold subscriber you get more
Nope, my messages have hit the thousands as a silver supporter. and you can see them all?"
After a few hundred you have to delete some to reveal the ones further down the list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alanthe inbox contains maximum 200 messages if they go beyond that they disappear forever, so if you're messaging somebody very popular they disappear very quickly and women on most fabbed pics ha
Not sure where you got this figure from as, on a previous single lady profile I've had over 400 unread.
Oooooo well I was told that by a woman who put a very sexy pic of her breasts up and received 2109 inbox messages also others have said that in forums maybe if you're a gold subscriber you get more
Nope, my messages have hit the thousands as a silver supporter. and you can see them all?
After a few hundred you have to delete some to reveal the ones further down the list."
yes so what's the limit do you know? Are you a gold subscriber? this situation only affects women and maybe some couples |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It means I'm lazy."
Also most times I'm busy. I could take a cheeky look at Fab on the train, my station comes up and I forget to reply or delete... It disappears from my first page of messages ... Lost forever. Sometimes I've looked for messages in vain... Can't word search...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alan"
If I’m interested, I’ll reply to your message as soon as I read it. If I’ve read it and not deleted it, I’m not interested. I’m just lazy and haven’t bothered to delete it.
I don’t see how someone ignoring you could make you think there might be interest on their part  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, delete all your sent mail as soon as its sent, that way you'll not know what the recipient has done with it. No angst then, you'll either get a reply or you won't. Don't stress about stuff that's out of your control. |
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Oooooo stresses me this. I get a wee tingle downstairs when I see it read and not deleted! I think they are planning to get back to me when more comfortable!
The dreaded stroke through delete is always a sad time!..
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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alan"
Wishful thinking at its highest level x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooooo stresses me this. I get a wee tingle downstairs when I see it read and not deleted! I think they are planning to get back to me when more comfortable!
The dreaded stroke through delete is always a sad time!..
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If they opened it and weren’t ready to reply they’d mark it as unread. Simple as that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never delete any (unless they are totally rude or gross me out). I click on all my messages even if I haven’t got time to read them as I hate seeing that yellow box at the top!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't always reply straight away or I've not had chance to read their profile. Its great when you get a follow up message to say, 'i take it your not interested' or having a go at me. Decision made without even having to read their profile lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooooo stresses me this. I get a wee tingle downstairs when I see it read and not deleted! I think they are planning to get back to me when more comfortable!
The dreaded stroke through delete is always a sad time!..
If they opened it and weren’t ready to reply they’d mark it as unread. Simple as that "
No it's not! that's pure speculation on your part.
We never use the 'unread' option and doubt the majority of members do. |
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"Hi Fabbers,
I appreciate that no response to me introducing myself means not interested. No problem there. But some of my messages get read without being deleted, does this indicate there might be interest and possibly contacted at a later date, or is it simply that Fabbers don't clear out their inbox very often?? Cheers Alan"
Maybe very occasionally but I would say for the most part deleting your sent messages will make it easier to deal with.
The vast majority will read and delete, some will just read and a few might actually say no.
Not intending to put you off or sound overly negative but just being truthful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooooo stresses me this. I get a wee tingle downstairs when I see it read and not deleted! I think they are planning to get back to me when more comfortable!
The dreaded stroke through delete is always a sad time!..
If they opened it and weren’t ready to reply they’d mark it as unread. Simple as that
No it's not! that's pure speculation on your part.
We never use the 'unread' option and doubt the majority of members do."
I didnt know there was a 'mark as unread' option! Even now I know, i probably won't use it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooooo stresses me this. I get a wee tingle downstairs when I see it read and not deleted! I think they are planning to get back to me when more comfortable!
The dreaded stroke through delete is always a sad time!..
If they opened it and weren’t ready to reply they’d mark it as unread. Simple as that
No it's not! that's pure speculation on your part.
We never use the 'unread' option and doubt the majority of members do.
I didnt know there was a 'mark as unread' option! Even now I know, i probably won't use it lol"
Think it is probably a too cool for school tool! |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Everybody is different and will have there own reasons.
In our case it means that we have not yet cleared out our inbox as if we were interested we would reply pretty much straight away. |
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