FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > falling in love thru here ..advice
falling in love thru here ..advice
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I've meet someone on here we both single - but seems like we are getting to like eachother more then being swinging partners !I am getting strong feelings for him .. im confused becus i dont want it to go tits up ha - but then i keep having to remind myself where we did meet . . any advice comments or experience people may have had i'd appreciate reading them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Go fa it i did and look where it got me lol xx "
She doesn't want scaring off man! 
To the OP - make very, very sure the man feels the same. Lots of emotions slosh around with sex and one of you might well be saying stuff in a post-coital haze that you regret later. If he does, go for it! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
We both havent talked about how we feel - but we both have come off here for a while - we've seen eachother for other things then sex - like hanging out doing couple things - its just im so so scared as I always find idoits losers and he seems geniune and nice. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago
belfast |
"I've meet someone on here we both single - but seems like we are getting to like eachother more then being swinging partners !I am getting strong feelings for him .. im confused becus i dont want it to go tits up ha - but then i keep having to remind myself where we did meet . . any advice comments or experience people may have had i'd appreciate reading them "
if he wasnt single could it have been a diffrent story then op?well i will say dont even think abt doing it.But then its only my opinion.Follow ure heart
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
He is single - well he tells me he is ha - and he doesnt hid his phone and has let me go his home etc.. so looks like he has nothing to hid
I am a very loving person but have m naughty dirty side ha - just never thought this site could bring me a relationship - even tho I dont want to call it that so early on - been seeing for a month now |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Just relax into it, don't over think it, keep enjoying it. Already sounds like you will be upset if it ends for any reason so don't let thinking about that spoil what you have. Good luck  "
Thanks nice advice
XXX |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
more north lincs than mids! |
We met thru a different site, first got together at a Notts social we are now married (3 years +) and have a son together.
As long as you keep the lines of communication open then you can discuss what the future holds for both of you
Good luck xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"We met thru a different site, first got together at a Notts social we are now married (3 years +) and have a son together.
As long as you keep the lines of communication open then you can discuss what the future holds for both of you
Good luck xx"
Lovely xx  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Hey honey, you can fall in love anywhere.
Just spend more time getting to know him, have long conversations that don't involve sex and make sure thats not the only connection you have.
Wish the very best babe xxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I met my oh via a similar site. We've been together four years now. We don't live together, see other people, and it works for us.
Just make sure you're both after the same thing.
Good luck. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Just be happy and see where it goes. We met here and have been together well over a year now. never been happier."
Thanks thing is - he has spoken to me and said he doesnt understand how people swing and can still be in love - he said if you are seeing someone you should be with just that one person - but i can see what he means. I used to think that when I was younger (im 26 he 21)
I can now see you can be madly in love with one another but swing - it makes a relationship stronger i blv becus you both trust eachother and r sharing and enjoying eachothers fantasies together!
But it doesnt put me off him saying this if we both want to be faithful to eachother and not swing i will becus i like him that much and i have been in one relationship like this before - but in future id swing with him too as cpl if he changed his mind
xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"Just be happy and see where it goes. We met here and have been together well over a year now. never been happier.
Thanks thing is - he has spoken to me and said he doesnt understand how people swing and can still be in love - he said if you are seeing someone you should be with just that one person - but i can see what he means. I used to think that when I was younger (im 26 he 21)
I can now see you can be madly in love with one another but swing - it makes a relationship stronger i blv becus you both trust eachother and r sharing and enjoying eachothers fantasies together!
But it doesnt put me off him saying this if we both want to be faithful to eachother and not swing i will becus i like him that much and i have been in one relationship like this before - but in future id swing with him too as cpl if he changed his mind
xx"
sorry but I think you should do what you both want to do, not do what he wants to do.
wish you both the very best |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've meet someone on here we both single - but seems like we are getting to like eachother more then being swinging partners !I am getting strong feelings for him .. im confused becus i dont want it to go tits up ha - but then i keep having to remind myself where we did meet . . any advice comments or experience people may have had i'd appreciate reading them "
my advise is dont do it, cut the middle man out and stay single  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
