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It looks like Goodbye
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye |
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"Why have you got to leave op just hide your profile and take a break for a while  "
He isnt really leaving. If he was he wouldnt have made a post on the forums saying he was leaving. He just wouldnt log on anymore or delete account. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye"
If you feel your mental health is at risk, you really should take time out and seek help.
That is the key thing to remember OP Good luck |
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye"
Sorry to hear you feel this way. I'm sure you didn't mean to include the two people who have verified you in this.
The most important thing is your wellbeing and if its affected by fab you really are better off taking a break. You don't need to leave, just hide your profile until you feel better able to cope with the cut and thrust of internet interaction.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if you decide to stay or leave OP, best of luck.
Just remember nobody is in a position to judge anyone on here. Don't take things to heart, these folks are key-board warriors. Plenty of nice people on here. X |
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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye"
Ignore some of the axxxx posting on here if it's affecting your mental health being on fab take a rain check for a couple of weeks...dip in dip out take it or leave it. Most people on here have their own insecurities some just don't show it. Most are not true swingers hence the lack of meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sorry th8ngs are getting to you op. As a few have suggested, it might be better to hide your profile and take a break from the site rather than throw away your verifications.
Good luck whatever you decide x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye"
They're the ONLY types of people you've come across???
Well, from my own personal experience I've yet to meet with any of those kinds of people, and that's from hundreds, as I've been on here a few years.
Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they're out there, but I wouldn't want to meet with any of them anyway? So don't, simple.
If by contrast ALL the people you meet are in these brackets, then that says to me that you are either narrowing down your search using completely the wrong parameters or are more naive than a pig wandering into a synagogue or a man so unlucky that he would fall into a barrel full of tits and come out sucking his thumb.
As nowhere on your profile does it say "I'm looking for dickheads, if you're a complete and utter cockwomble then hit me up!  " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another attention seeking post.
I'm going to leave, please beg me to stay.
Leave, don't leave. Post like this generally make you less desirable to folk and backfire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye"
arrogant people suck but don't lick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye"
You can’t be what everyone wants and everyone can’t be what you want that’s the same in the real world not just on here
You just have to find someone you click and get on with and it will happen just takes time I have been on here 5 years on and off and had my fair share of rejections no shows and all sorts that’s just life I’m sorry to say
But also Over the years I have met some absolutly beautiful fantastic people each in there own ways and wouldn’t change that for the world
Yes people can be up themselves arrogant and rude but that also happens everywhere in life and on here people especially women are like that because they get bombarded with hundreds of rude crude and degrading messages on a daily basis so you can’t blame them for replying in a way they get treated
Just do what everyone else dose on here take no for an answer don’t haste people be polite and respectful and you’ll get the same in return
Good luck in whatever you decide |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye
You can’t be what everyone wants and everyone can’t be what you want that’s the same in the real world not just on here
You just have to find someone you click and get on with and it will happen just takes time I have been on here 5 years on and off and had my fair share of rejections no shows and all sorts that’s just life I’m sorry to say
But also Over the years I have met some absolutly beautiful fantastic people each in there own ways and wouldn’t change that for the world
Yes people can be up themselves arrogant and rude but that also happens everywhere in life and on here people especially women are like that because they get bombarded with hundreds of rude crude and degrading messages on a daily basis so you can’t blame them for replying in a way they get treated
Just do what everyone else dose on here take no for an answer don’t haste people be polite and respectful and you’ll get the same in return
Good luck in whatever you decide "
This is the real world, real people, real chats, real meets unless you're on pluto |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye
You can’t be what everyone wants and everyone can’t be what you want that’s the same in the real world not just on here
You just have to find someone you click and get on with and it will happen just takes time I have been on here 5 years on and off and had my fair share of rejections no shows and all sorts that’s just life I’m sorry to say
But also Over the years I have met some absolutly beautiful fantastic people each in there own ways and wouldn’t change that for the world
Yes people can be up themselves arrogant and rude but that also happens everywhere in life and on here people especially women are like that because they get bombarded with hundreds of rude crude and degrading messages on a daily basis so you can’t blame them for replying in a way they get treated
Just do what everyone else dose on here take no for an answer don’t haste people be polite and respectful and you’ll get the same in return
Good luck in whatever you decide This is the real world, real people, real chats, real meets unless you're on pluto"
For some it’s a getaway from the reality of every day, and something they do that is private and not part of there every day life and there life dosent revolve around swinging so for that I class as not real life that’s all I’m sure you could have worked that one out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on here since May and I thought being on here would mean I would get to meet some good people but all I have come across is arrogant people, couples who think they are better than everyone else because they are in relationships and people who judge others on their race and size of their ..... instead of the most important thing which is personality.
This place is really not good for the mental health of some people. It has really got me down at times. Maybe it's best that I say goodbye
You can’t be what everyone wants and everyone can’t be what you want that’s the same in the real world not just on here
You just have to find someone you click and get on with and it will happen just takes time I have been on here 5 years on and off and had my fair share of rejections no shows and all sorts that’s just life I’m sorry to say
But also Over the years I have met some absolutly beautiful fantastic people each in there own ways and wouldn’t change that for the world
Yes people can be up themselves arrogant and rude but that also happens everywhere in life and on here people especially women are like that because they get bombarded with hundreds of rude crude and degrading messages on a daily basis so you can’t blame them for replying in a way they get treated
Just do what everyone else dose on here take no for an answer don’t haste people be polite and respectful and you’ll get the same in return
Good luck in whatever you decide This is the real world, real people, real chats, real meets unless you're on pluto
For some it’s a getaway from the reality of every day, and something they do that is private and not part of there every day life and there life dosent revolve around swinging so for that I class as not real life that’s all I’m sure you could have worked that one out "
Well for me I don't differentiate life is what you do and if doing this, being on this site, is what you do its life it's a place where you contact people, for many a place to find a partner or someone they have something in common with for some couples mostly a place to add something additional to their sex experience and for others a very frustrating place but either way life  |
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