Reading some of the comments on here, many men don't approach an attractive lady, feeling they're out of their league or because the chances of messing up when talking to them are greater.
Ladies, do you talk to average and below average guys and play with them in a club, even though you wouldn't be interested if you were in a dating situation?
Do you find we try and please you more than the Adonis guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only play with guys I am attracted to..what others think of them, I have no idea, to me they are gorgeous so....and as for the last comment, I find that a bit like someone that wants to fuck fat chicks because we are more grateful to get any...but no...the pretty ripped guys I have met have been pretty outstanding, mostly. As have the guys that weren't so.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's about persona. Theres some very physically beautiful ladies who give off bad aura and expect everyone to run to them, many do. For me its not attractive.
I need to feel a genuineness which flows from inner depth to be drawn and then engage. It brings the best out of me too. Hopefully making for very good encounters.
I've yet to be disapointed. Shape and size has no bearing on inner beauty. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"So nobody judges on looks? "
I don’t...it’s voices and charisma for me. I’ve had some troglodytes for boyfriends and partners before now (or so say those closest to me  ) but they had that certain way of carrying themselves, of looking at me and of interacting with me that made my breath come a little bit short.
Looks don’t really mean anything to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the first look at a picture must have some relevance- meeting at a social or in a club lets the personality come out which could be a mind changer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So nobody judges on looks? "
I don't judge, but I do need a physical attraction for sure. I need to like their face before I will even entertain anything else. But if their personality is rubbish then it doesn't matter how gorgeous I think they are, that would kill it for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attractiveness has so many forms. Couldn't possibly put a frame or stereotype on what I find attractive in a man. It's a combination of things. Average, below average - what does it really mean? What is the criteria?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only play with guys I find very attractive and looks within swinging come quite high up on the criteria for me. If I'm looking for a relationship then looks matter less as other things are more important. |
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