Isn't this Financial Domination?
I think that women offer to dominate men in a variety of ways including “financial domination” but it can be exploitative.
Is that what you mean OP?
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over a year ago
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Oh and pick wisely as some will literally just clean you out, do your research and understand in depth what a true findom will do and expect from you, good luck op |
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"Isn't this Financial Domination?
I think that women offer to dominate men in a variety of ways including “financial domination” but it can be exploitative.
Is that what you mean OP?
Proceed carefully. In any power-exchange game, you should be able to say no without consequence. "
He said 'dom'
I assumed he wanted a man to dominate him. Financially or otherwise |
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"Oh and pick wisely as some will literally just clean you out, do your research and understand in depth what a true findom will do and expect from you, good luck op "
means you have more money than sense . a very dodgy type of domination . you pays your money for not much in return .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and pick wisely as some will literally just clean you out, do your research and understand in depth what a true findom will do and expect from you, good luck op means you have more money than sense . a very dodgy type of domination . you pays your money for not much in return ."
Exactly why I won’t do it, i wasn’t really sure what it was when I was first approached but after researching it, it’s not something I could or would want to do |
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over a year ago
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I doubt you will Find many, if any sites about it.
You are better off looking for a Master or Mistress who specialises in that area.
Not many do but there are one or two reputable practitioners around. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I can remember many many years ago when I was still wet behind the ears BDSM wise, chatting to a Domme who essentially expected me to move in with her, sign over my bank accounts, carry on with my normal job, do all the housework etc etc, sell my house and assign any proceeds to her etc etc
Needless to say I made like a News Of The World reporter and made my excuses and left!!
A very dangerous and murky world - tread carefully OP!! |
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It's a bit like gambling, where you only allow yourself to risk losing what you can afford to. If someone was interested I'd suggest that they have a close friend supervise everything financial that they do implementing some checks, so that risk is minimized. Everyone has a right to sexual freedom but also their ongoing personal wellbeing. |
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"Does any one know any good sitesfor the above, is it a swinging thing? It’s up there with what I want  "
With the new regulations on sex work and the internet both in Europe and the states and FinDom sites will be rapidly moving to somewhere obscure! The best known fetish site is slowly removing FinDom groups, references and profiles
It is nothing to do with swinging and arguably nothing to do with fetish either, just the financial exploitation of a vulnerable group of (mainly) men by (mainly) women, If the genders were reversed we would have had specific legislation years ago as has rightly happened in many other areas of exploited groups
Sex workers need rights and protection of their own for many reasons, but the online FinDom is one of the laziest ways of practising coercion on the vulnerable.
OP, feel free to message if you want specific support and advice |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Does any one know any good sitesfor the above, is it a swinging thing? It’s up there with what I want
With the new regulations on sex work and the internet both in Europe and the states and FinDom sites will be rapidly moving to somewhere obscure! The best known fetish site is slowly removing FinDom groups, references and profiles
It is nothing to do with swinging and arguably nothing to do with fetish either, just the financial exploitation of a vulnerable group of (mainly) men by (mainly) women, If the genders were reversed we would have had specific legislation years ago as has rightly happened in many other areas of exploited groups
Sex workers need rights and protection of their own for many reasons, but the online FinDom is one of the laziest ways of practising coercion on the vulnerable.
OP, feel free to message if you want specific support and advice"
I think that's quite a broad sweeping generalisation. Having worked as a pro domme (quite some time ago, not any longer) I did occasionally have some fun with financial domination...
It was with full, negotiated consent and not one of my subs left me in financial ruin, the majority of the play is mental and theatrical and not much different to other types of theatrical play.
Done right it's actually hard work and involves a lot of planning, effort and trust, just like any play and scene.
OP. please be very careful, and be careful in the Twitter world of findom, if it is something you're interested in, spend some time thinking about what it is that actually appeals, there are actual psychological reasons why it appeals to some men, it's often to do with financial control being something that ordinarily they would never relinquish, like most submissives, those that I met were men of not unsubstantial power or wealth. |
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