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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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From all of the posts I've read and the discussions I've had with others, it seems very common that both partners get turned on watching their partner with another (in a full swap situation).
Is there anyone who feels a bit ambivalent about it? Watching my husband with someone else doesn't really do anything for me. I don't feel particularly jealous but then I also don't feel remotely turned on by it. He absolutely loves seeing me with others and most couples love seeing each other, so that leaves me in a group situation feeling like I'm the odd one out. Anyone else feel similar? |
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I love the idea and have lived it out with a couple of ex partners . The reality of it for me is that I didn't feel totally into the person I was with . I wasnt in love with them so it was ok and very horny. However . I think if I was in love with the person , I might feel a hole lot differently . I cant say for sure as it hasn't ever happened that way round .x |
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Afternoon Mulder and Scully! I much prefer to see my girlfriend being pleasured and played with by another man, rather than me going with another woman! Two reasons.....she doesn’t want me to, which I’m totally fine with; secondly and more important, I don’t want to! I love either watching or joining in; bearing in mind I’m totally straight. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thanks for the replies. It just seems tricky to make everyone happy because the other couple want to see each other have sex and my husband wants to see me have sex so really we all have to be in the same room! |
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"From all of the posts I've read and the discussions I've had with others, it seems very common that both partners get turned on watching their partner with another (in a full swap situation).
Is there anyone who feels a bit ambivalent about it? Watching my husband with someone else doesn't really do anything for me. I don't feel particularly jealous but then I also don't feel remotely turned on by it. He absolutely loves seeing me with others and most couples love seeing each other, so that leaves me in a group situation feeling like I'm the odd one out. Anyone else feel similar? "
We often swing in seperate rooms as my wife tends to want to do that. I'm not fussed either way really as I'm so attentive and into the person I'm with I tend to not be aware of anyone else. After all are satisfied we often all get back together on one bed.  |
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