Hi all, I would be grateful if someone in the S.W. area of London (or nearby) would give me a guiding hand into the BDSM world. I’ve heard of Munches but a little scared to go on my own. How does it all work? How do I get introduced into this fantastical world. I’ve been working up the courage for over a year now to do thi. Thanks to all who reply - even the funny ones! |
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"Hi all, I would be grateful if someone in the S.W. area of London (or nearby) would give me a guiding hand into the BDSM world. I’ve heard of Munches but a little scared to go on my own. How does it all work? How do I get introduced into this fantastical world. I’ve been working up the courage for over a year now to do thi. Thanks to all who reply - even the funny ones!
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"Munches" are just socials, mostly in pubs. Don't be scared to go - nothing will happen. Just be aware that BDSM world is full of bull******** and wannabes. Unicorns (single females) are just as scarce in that world as on Fab. 
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Go to a munch. There are dozens in London. Or go to LAM. Or one of the london club's even does a munch for newbies looking to go there.
There are so many options in London and pretty much any decent munch organiser will greet nebies and introduce them to people a you aren't left on your own |
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"Hi all, I would be grateful if someone in the S.W. area of London (or nearby) would give me a guiding hand into the BDSM world. I’ve heard of Munches but a little scared to go on my own. How does it all work? How do I get introduced into this fantastical world. I’ve been working up the courage for over a year now to do thi. Thanks to all who reply - even the funny ones!
"Munches" are just socials, mostly in pubs. Don't be scared to go - nothing will happen. Just be aware that BDSM world is full of bull******** and wannabes. Unicorns (single females) are just as scarce in that world as on Fab.
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Unicorns aren’t simply single females - they are single bisexual females who will play with couples. The fetish world isn’t about sex; it’s predominantly about the fetish play, so unicorns don’t really come into it,
OP, you won’t find a massive amount of fet / BSDM on Fab as it’s geared up for swinging & sex - you will find a lot of kinky Swingers who like a bit of spice in their play life 
If you want to get into the fet scene in your area, get on the other site that is for people in the FETish LIFEstyle (you can’t say the name on here, but use the caps letters, rhymes with ‘pet wife’). and sign up to groups in your area. Munches will be advertised on there - and they are just social events where you will meet like minded people who can & will be happy to talk you through what you want to know  .
Newbies into the scene are always welcomed, especially if they are going about it properly, not just watching ‘50 shades’ and assuming they know all about it!
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"Hi all, I would be grateful if someone in the S.W. area of London (or nearby) would give me a guiding hand into the BDSM world. I’ve heard of Munches but a little scared to go on my own. How does it all work? How do I get introduced into this fantastical world. I’ve been working up the courage for over a year now to do thi. Thanks to all who reply - even the funny ones!"
. Go to meets & events section on Fabs 25th August there is a Kink event in Islington maybe of interest to you or google Red Stairs parties in Walthamstow again maybe of interest to you.I appreciate it may be a bit further than you may want to go but worth thinking / considering.
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Thank you everyone for those very informative words. I’ve struggled to get onto the scene for various reasons including personal ones. And it’s not just about the sex for me either. It’s something that has interested me for years. I will take your words of wisdom onboard. Thanks again. |
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