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MMF...best way to organise one?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs Badcherry has had a few! Best way we found is to find two guys who know each other already. If you search for MM couples you will find some straight guys who meet just for this. Two randoms who dont know each other can cause problems..  |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..
Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.
Good luck.  |
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Dunno if this is something that you’d enjoy but it was a fantasy of mines to have an MFM during which I would be blindfolded for the whole thing and unaware of who was joining us.
Mr Sofa made arrangements with a male friend of ours (whom we’d met previously as part of an mfmf) and orchestrated the whole thing so we could safely carry out the fantasy.
I was blindfolded on the bed, Mr Sofa began playing with me and teasing me, and then all of a sudden there’s another person on the bed touching me! Then it escalated from there 
Mr Sofa had planned every detail to perfection so our friend could seamlessly join us adding to the excitement for me.
I kept the blindfold on right until after our friend left, it was by far one of the hottest nights we’ve ever had.
Hope you find what you’re lookinh for OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!
Advice please?"
I would recommend a club. You'll have the social aspect covered and can choose who you want to play with, you're not going to get no-shows and you will have a dedicated play area where you won't be disturbed.
I would suggest Townhouse; they have parties posted on here with guest lists so you can chat to people going. It's also a well managed club and spotless too. |
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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago
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"Dunno if this is something that you’d enjoy but it was a fantasy of mines to have an MFM during which I would be blindfolded for the whole thing and unaware of who was joining us.
Mr Sofa made arrangements with a male friend of ours (whom we’d met previously as part of an mfmf) and orchestrated the whole thing so we could safely carry out the fantasy.
I was blindfolded on the bed, Mr Sofa began playing with me and teasing me, and then all of a sudden there’s another person on the bed touching me! Then it escalated from there
Mr Sofa had planned every detail to perfection so our friend could seamlessly join us adding to the excitement for me.
I kept the blindfold on right until after our friend left, it was by far one of the hottest nights we’ve ever had.
Hope you find what you’re lookinh for OP "
So sexy looking to organise this for the wife |
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"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!
Advice please?"
Spend your time getting to know guys. Take your time in getting to know them. Tell them you are looking for a MMF. See which ones are ok with that and doing it with another guy they don't know.
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Look for MM profiles.
Spend a lot of time getting to know somebody online before you meet them. By a lot of time I mean weeks or even months. That way you can out the weirdoes, axe murderers, guys looking for a one-off fuck, married guys pretending to be single, guys looking for another notch on the bedpost, idiots, guys who don't respect you, guys who think fabswingers is called I shag anybody who asks me, etc.
After getting to know them for a long time always have the first meet as a social meet. Have the meet in a very public place like a coffee shop, a pub, a cafe, etc. Whenever you meet somebody make sure a good friend knows where you are going and when you should be back. Maybe also when you first meet someobdy in real life for a social meet ask if you can take a photo of the person you are meeting to send to your friend. When you get home text your friend to say you are safe.
Never invite somebody to your home until your are 100% sure you are safe with them. Same for going to somebody elses home. Only go when you feel 100% safe. Always let a friend know what you are doing and where you are going. Take a photo of the outside of the house or flat and send it to your friend.
Probably best to stick to hotel meets but again only when you feel 100% safe. Get the guy/couple to book the hotel even if you are going halves on the cost of the room. That way hopefully proves he is not a timewaster. Also, the hotel will have his name and address.
Never takes risks with your safety. Always think about your safety. |
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Definately down a club. If there's someone local on here a range to meet them there, then if you aren't keen in person you have plenty of other choices.
Also you can just meet singles guys there, become friends and if you trust them invite them over, but saves you risking it with someone you have never met before x |
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"It may be worth getting together with a Male you trust and have messages being directed to him to sift through.
Be aware of approx a 50% no show from people you haven’t met. Want 2? Invite 4!"
Totally agree with this
I invited 5 for a GGGB and ended up as a MMF
Hot though it was it wasn’t what I had been looking for
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..
Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.
Good luck. "
a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife picked two guy's on here,she would fuck with them once
A week after about a month she arranged for one to fuck while the other watched and after a while it just happened |
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Post a meet and event for two guys who know each other.
Also put the desire in your status .
Add a bucket list to your profile and put the idea there.
As others have said finding two individual guys who will turn up will be the problem... it will be easier to find one guy who has a friend. |
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"Mrs Badcherry has had a few! Best way we found is to find two guys who know each other already. If you search for MM couples you will find some straight guys who meet just for this. Two randoms who dont know each other can cause problems.. "
This
We are two straight experienced guys seeking ladies that want no nonsense fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really difficult OP to find this isn't it. I've only ever done it twice in 5 years!!
I have a regular-ish friend thankfully who I very happy to share me and encourages me to (a lot of men only seem to want 1 on 1 and won't share me).
When I'm meeting him I have recently started looking for another man to join us. I do post a meet and see who replies but I also do my own searching and go from there. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..
Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.
Good luck. a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha "
There are such things as mm couples on here.. 
reason I suggested a couple they know each other have likely played together before so they're comfortable around each other .. get two strange guys it's way more difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve had a few and it’s always been with one friend I know who doesn’t have an issue about ‘sharing’ and either another friend or someone sexy in a club. Talk to those you are meeting 121 and see if they would be up for it later down the line.
I wouldn’t do it with two men I hadn’t met before as I would be concerned about boundaries and wouldn’t be able to relax and enjoy. That said an established and very well verified mm profile might be ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..
Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.
Good luck. a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha
There are such things as mm couples on here..
reason I suggested a couple they know each other have likely played together before so they're comfortable around each other .. get two strange guys it's way more difficult."
yes some guys are strange around here ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..
Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.
Good luck. a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha
There are such things as mm couples on here..
reason I suggested a couple they know each other have likely played together before so they're comfortable around each other .. get two strange guys it's way more difficult.yes some guys are strange around here ha "
You can say that again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..
Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.
Good luck. a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha
There are such things as mm couples on here..
reason I suggested a couple they know each other have likely played together before so they're comfortable around each other .. get two strange guys it's way more difficult.yes some guys are strange around here ha
You can say that again"
that again |
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"Dunno if this is something that you’d enjoy but it was a fantasy of mines to have an MFM during which I would be blindfolded for the whole thing and unaware of who was joining us.
Mr Sofa made arrangements with a male friend of ours (whom we’d met previously as part of an mfmf) and orchestrated the whole thing so we could safely carry out the fantasy.
I was blindfolded on the bed, Mr Sofa began playing with me and teasing me, and then all of a sudden there’s another person on the bed touching me! Then it escalated from there
Mr Sofa had planned every detail to perfection so our friend could seamlessly join us adding to the excitement for me.
I kept the blindfold on right until after our friend left, it was by far one of the hottest nights we’ve ever had.
Hope you find what you’re lookinh for OP "
Big fantasy for me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!
Advice please?"
do you mean a Bi MMF or two straight guys?
Try talking to guys you have met and see if two of them are interested, |
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Look for couples who are not hung up on only playing together, arrange a meet for all 4 and have a play and then arrange various combinations for all of you to have fun, it can be extremely erotic and a massive turn on to see your partner getting ready for a meet with another couple. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!
Advice please?"
Easy to find in clubs.
FFM - a couple.
FMM - two guys. You get to know the single guys and who plays with others. Take each guy for a test drive individually if you want too. Sorted  |
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"Dunno if this is something that you’d enjoy but it was a fantasy of mines to have an MFM during which I would be blindfolded for the whole thing and unaware of who was joining us.
Mr Sofa made arrangements with a male friend of ours (whom we’d met previously as part of an mfmf) and orchestrated the whole thing so we could safely carry out the fantasy.
I was blindfolded on the bed, Mr Sofa began playing with me and teasing me, and then all of a sudden there’s another person on the bed touching me! Then it escalated from there
Mr Sofa had planned every detail to perfection so our friend could seamlessly join us adding to the excitement for me.
I kept the blindfold on right until after our friend left, it was by far one of the hottest nights we’ve ever had.
Hope you find what you’re lookinh for OP
Big fantasy for me too"
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