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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do couples meet others ? For us it’s every few months.
One of us would like to meet more regularly the other not so much . Lol"
We are hoping every few months or so, last one was March and next one tomorrow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arranged meets are extremely rare for us, we goto clubs about once every 6 weeks however.
Meeting off here is extremely difficult, especially when it comes to meeting a couple because you need that 4 way dynamic.
We occasionally (once,twice a year) meet a single guy but we tend to stick now to ones we’ve met previously. We don’t meet single females so we dont have to even think about that 
We are both constantly horny so would probably meet more if we had both the time and opportunity |
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Not very often, meets through here need planning as everybody has a different social calendar and other commitments plus of course it’s arranging things and chatting etc.
We go to a club every few weeks and play when we are there, occasionally pre arranged but often spur of the moment.
It depends what you want, we would like to have a circle of friends we can have a laugh with, socials and of course play with. That’s not so easy with club meets as often it’s very spur of the moment and takes many trips to get to know somebody who nine times out of 10 lives miles away lol
In time we will probably get a good mix and hopefully can go to the club with a few friends, that would be our perfect scenario
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of things affect how often we meet...real life is busy, we like it to be an occasional addition to life and there has been a severe lack of people who appeal to us... |
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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago
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We make sure we get a once a month kid free"date night".
Sometimes we go to a club or a meet with those we have met before.
However those date nights are also about us so often it's just time together.
I would say we probably alternative so we get to play maybe every two months.
As it's been said already real life usually gets in the way! |
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Other than our two weeks of total debauchery, and almost non stop fucking, in Cap d'Agde we go to a club on average 2 or 3 times a month.
Just got back from Cap so having a little break for a couple of weeks now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as others have said, we are finding it really hard...hard to make initial contact and then I guess hard to find a 4 way attraction. not sure if we will keep trying tbh ...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do couples meet others ? For us it’s every few months.
One of us would like to meet more regularly the other not so much . Lol"
Just whenever the fancy takes us. Probably the same as yourselves. I like that we never plan meets either...It's always spontaneous. I will admit also that I'm always more up for a meet than Mr x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have another couple we try and meet around once a month.
My solo meets revolve around when my husband has plans already, so not as often as I'd like.
He solo meets as and when the opportunity allows, as he doesn't actively seek them it's not very often. |
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We try meeting twice a week but it’s never that easy.
Too many let downs in the past so won’t do the arranged meets thing any more
Go to clubs or dogging but don’t often get lucky.
We still try though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of our meets are prearranged, as we know the few dates we're free well in advance.
This also gives us time to find and chat with singles and couples we like to see if there's mutual attraction.
We like to have at least one a month, but it can be more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do couples meet others ? For us it’s every few months.
One of us would like to meet more regularly the other not so much . Lol"
We usually meet weekly but it happens when 2-3 week gap occurs.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Quite interesting how some couples are saying 4 way attraction is difficult so they meet solo. Given the site dynamics I’d imagine the female can meet every night of the week and the guy struggles.
At our end L could meet solo anytime but I’d struggle alongside all the other single men! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not having enough free time is swinging's nemesis. We would probably meet someone every week if we had time. We're making a renewed effort now since we have a fair amount of time off coming up. Life does get in the way sometimes, but you have to find the time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try once or twice a week but recently it's become impossible to find once a week.
Not through lack of trying but all no shows and a waste of time..
Fingers crossed now the footy is over things will pick up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Club is the best place in our opinion.
Like other said, people are busy and it is hard to match the time.
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Whats the one club you would recommend guys for a couple traveling over to England from Ireland possibly as a once off ( young kids make it to hard to be anything more then a visit once every couple of months ) |
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