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Devoted husband free to play
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Married to my best friend with whom I share the care of a special person.
Long ago our intimacy ceased and we became carers and friends, but thats ok, we accept our situation.
I have a long term fwb and we sometimes play alone, sometimes together.....it works for us.
I get little or no interest on here.
Am I the sort of guy you ladies avoid?!!!
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Your profile says your wife also has a profile here OP - if she's in agreement it might help to reference it on your profile so people have the ability to run their own checks if they want.
As for the little or no interest thing - regardless of your marital status etc you're in a pool of single men who represent the vast majority of users on the site and so need to make yourself stand out with a well written profile, decent pics and an avatar pic - not saying all of those apply to you but take a look at them and answer honestly if they could be better and are serving you well - for example there are lots of people here who won't even read messages from someone with a silhouette avatar.
You've also only been here two weeks with this profile which is no time at all. |
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So what would help all to show your not just another married guy is . partner profile name . We hope she has a few pictures so the cynical ones won't think it's a guy pretending to be a woman . And also include a line that ladies or couples can chat to your partner via phone to confirm it all |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Simple . If you good lady is ok with it. Then just let those have the reassurance that they can speak to her if they feel they need confirmation. "
This,I wouldnt just take someone's word for it I'm afraid. |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
Filthy Desires Upon Trent |
Trouble is, there are thousands of Single Guys vying for Pole Position.
Most people would choose to play with a less complicated individual.
Married or Married with wife’s permission is just not for us. For some, it’s acceptable.
Fully agree that IF your wife has given permission. Has a profile on here and is willing to confirm all you have said then great.
Alternatively, why not have a Profile together as well as your Single ones, explaining the situation?
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"Trouble is, there are thousands of Single Guys vying for Pole Position.
Most people would choose to play with a less complicated individual.
Married or Married with wife’s permission is just not for us. For some, it’s acceptable.
Fully agree that IF your wife has given permission. Has a profile on here and is willing to confirm all you have said then great.
Alternatively, why not have a Profile together as well as your Single ones, explaining the situation?
Just a thought "
Having looked for advice his profile is the same with no changes . You could see how some would find it all a bit cynical |
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"Married to my best friend with whom I share the care of a special person.
Long ago our intimacy ceased and we became carers and friends, but thats ok, we accept our situation.
I have a long term fwb and we sometimes play alone, sometimes together.....it works for us.
I get little or no interest on here.
Am I the sort of guy you ladies avoid?!!!
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Avoid single women. Go for couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Married to my best friend with whom I share the care of a special person.
Long ago our intimacy ceased and we became carers and friends, but thats ok, we accept our situation.
I have a long term fwb and we sometimes play alone, sometimes together.....it works for us.
I get little or no interest on here.
Am I the sort of guy you ladies avoid?!!!
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If you discuss your meets with your wife then I would avoid you. |
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"Your profile says your wife also has a profile here OP - if she's in agreement it might help to reference it on your profile so people have the ability to run their own checks if they want.
As for the little or no interest thing - regardless of your marital status etc you're in a pool of single men who represent the vast majority of users on the site and so need to make yourself stand out with a well written profile, decent pics and an avatar pic - not saying all of those apply to you but take a look at them and answer honestly if they could be better and are serving you well - for example there are lots of people here who won't even read messages from someone with a silhouette avatar.
You've also only been here two weeks with this profile which is no time at all."
Have took a peek and this part of the profile far now been removed . So was there really another profile . Maybe, maybe not . |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Thank you all, taking a step back.
I feel the need to talk.
x"
That's a wise move. Personally speaking I would only meet genuinely single males not male halves of couples. Less complicated that way and more available for regular meets. |
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