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I admit it.......!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys, I am really enjoying the forums here. However, for a slightly overconfident chap who is very social and well received in the real world, I am finding this place pretty tough e.g
Very limited convo, lots of interest but no meets lol. Not even a social. I would love to make friends with some of you and experience a little more with certain others
If you manage to have a read of my profile and even fancy just chatting or organising a social/event..Well why not get in touch ay!
Have a great Sunday people.
P.s. friendship is open to every race creed colour etc etc |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"I'm hosting a social on the 1 of august.
Your very welcome to come to it if you like.
Look up...
The 0 meet club big social.   "
In fact hears the link.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/741631#last |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It's difficult to tell as you have the summary and detail hidden but you've got at least one veri in three weeks - which if it's from a meet is pretty good going for guys on here.
Profile reads pretty well - but perhaps add more pics, and as has been suggested consider getting along to group socials and clubs as an alternative way of meeting people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to get yourself to the social events and to club nights. The dickheads have ruined FAB for genuine guys
Socials and club nights
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Looks like socials it is. Seems a bit if a shame to be honest because I was after developing something through a more traditional/one-on-one route. But if social events are the way forward then that is my only choice I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to get yourself to the social events and to club nights. The dickheads have ruined FAB for genuine guys
Socials and club nights
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Looks like socials it is. Seems a bit if a shame to be honest because I was after developing something through a more traditional/one-on-one route. But if social events are the way forward then that is my only choice I guess "
Im sure you can but takes longer, if you have patience you’ll be fine |
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Patience is the key to finding what you want on fab,
Four years chatting to Penny and now we are thesofadestroyer and have had the best 11 months of fun,
Clubs, socials and other meets and they keep getting hotter!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience is the key to finding what you want on fab,
Four years chatting to Penny and now we are thesofadestroyer and have had the best 11 months of fun,
Clubs, socials and other meets and they keep getting hotter! "
It is a patience thing but then everything comes to them that tries. Even as a couple we have to put a lot of effort into connecting with others through socials, clubs and messaging but eventually we have a few good friends and great times. So be patient and if you put the effort in be honest, reliable and respectful it will work.  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"You need to get yourself to the social events and to club nights. The dickheads have ruined FAB for genuine guys
Socials and club nights
C
Looks like socials it is. Seems a bit if a shame to be honest because I was after developing something through a more traditional/one-on-one route. But if social events are the way forward then that is my only choice I guess "
It's not a case of being an "only" choice - more that clubs and socials are an additional way to get to meet people, get yourself known etc.
It can work on here too - just takes time and things like a decent profile and pics and getting involved in the forums etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this why you’ve randomly added me despite never speaking before??????"
Nope, it's because of the thread you have started, in which I also responded to I was curious to see  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to get yourself to the social events and to club nights. The dickheads have ruined FAB for genuine guys
Socials and club nights
C
Looks like socials it is. Seems a bit if a shame to be honest because I was after developing something through a more traditional/one-on-one route. But if social events are the way forward then that is my only choice I guess
It's not a case of being an "only" choice - more that clubs and socials are an additional way to get to meet people, get yourself known etc.
It can work on here too - just takes time and things like a decent profile and pics and getting involved in the forums etc."
I agree, I do think the profile picture(s) thing is where I am struggling. Being a fairly well known person within my area has lead to me removing them.
On my first day of image uploads I had to block two people. One was my old teacher from school and another was an ex work colleague lol. So now I hide all face pictures as I want to keep this side of things separate from my day to day life. But thank you for the advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this why you’ve randomly added me despite never speaking before??????
Nope, it's because of the thread you have started, in which I also responded to I was curious to see "
You’re asking folk to read your profile yet failed to read mine  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"You need to get yourself to the social events and to club nights. The dickheads have ruined FAB for genuine guys
Socials and club nights
C
Looks like socials it is. Seems a bit if a shame to be honest because I was after developing something through a more traditional/one-on-one route. But if social events are the way forward then that is my only choice I guess
It's not a case of being an "only" choice - more that clubs and socials are an additional way to get to meet people, get yourself known etc.
It can work on here too - just takes time and things like a decent profile and pics and getting involved in the forums etc.
I agree, I do think the profile picture(s) thing is where I am struggling. Being a fairly well known person within my area has lead to me removing them.
On my first day of image uploads I had to block two people. One was my old teacher from school and another was an ex work colleague lol. So now I hide all face pictures as I want to keep this side of things separate from my day to day life. But thank you for the advice."
Public pics don't have to be face pics - there's a lot you can do with a timer on a phone camera that doesn't show your face or any recognisable features and still be appealing - you've got a decent body by the looks of it - flaunt it!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this why you’ve randomly added me despite never speaking before??????
Nope, it's because of the thread you have started, in which I also responded to I was curious to see
You’re asking folk to read your profile yet failed to read mine "
Oh most certainly did not fail to read it, I fact I've read it twice since we have posted a couple of times in the same places. However, sometimes I just like to break the rules
Didn't mean to upset/annoy anyone. Have a nice day x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to get yourself to the social events and to club nights. The dickheads have ruined FAB for genuine guys
Socials and club nights
C
Looks like socials it is. Seems a bit if a shame to be honest because I was after developing something through a more traditional/one-on-one route. But if social events are the way forward then that is my only choice I guess
It's not a case of being an "only" choice - more that clubs and socials are an additional way to get to meet people, get yourself known etc.
It can work on here too - just takes time and things like a decent profile and pics and getting involved in the forums etc.
I agree, I do think the profile picture(s) thing is where I am struggling. Being a fairly well known person within my area has lead to me removing them.
On my first day of image uploads I had to block two people. One was my old teacher from school and another was an ex work colleague lol. So now I hide all face pictures as I want to keep this side of things separate from my day to day life. But thank you for the advice.
Public pics don't have to be face pics - there's a lot you can do with a timer on a phone camera that doesn't show your face or any recognisable features and still be appealing - you've got a decent body by the looks of it - flaunt it!! "
Do you know what. That's exact what I am going to do lol.
Thanks |
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"Is this why you’ve randomly added me despite never speaking before??????
Nope, it's because of the thread you have started, in which I also responded to I was curious to see
You’re asking folk to read your profile yet failed to read mine
Oh most certainly did not fail to read it, I fact I've read it twice since we have posted a couple of times in the same places. However, sometimes I just like to break the rules
Didn't mean to upset/annoy anyone. Have a nice day x"
Oh dear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a wider observation, I look at your profile and it feels like someone who is here for sex, not swinging. Your likes are safe sex only. No hint of kink. It’s certainly not a terrible profile, and no red flags, but may not appeal to many here given its flavour.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a wider observation, I look at your profile and it feels like someone who is here for sex, not swinging. Your likes are safe sex only. No hint of kink. It’s certainly not a terrible profile, and no red flags, but may not appeal to many here given its flavour.
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I disagree as mine is the same but I’m extremely kinky with the right people but don’t think I personally need to advertise that to the 20,000 men on here who because of that try their luck. Maybe I’m wrong and naive but we all want different things from it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a wider observation, I look at your profile and it feels like someone who is here for sex, not swinging. Your likes are safe sex only. No hint of kink. It’s certainly not a terrible profile, and no red flags, but may not appeal to many here given its flavour.
I disagree as mine is the same but I’m extremely kinky with the right people but don’t think I personally need to advertise that to the 20,000 men on here who because of that try their luck. Maybe I’m wrong and naive but we all want different things from it"
I’m not saying the OP isn’t kinky. But it’s a way of reading his profile which could result in a lack of success. Especially as single guy with no meets. |
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