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Where am i going wrong
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey there ladies would love some advise and pointers to where I'm going wrong to get any meets I get offers of guys just never no reply or interest of the ladies should I just give it up as a bad job on here and stick with other fab site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Takes a,while mate as a single male it took me about 6 months before my first meet . Take in the club scenes to meet people and socialise as well.there is alot of guys who come on here and think they will meet same day same week etc ..enjoy but be patient |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Takes a,while mate as a single male it took me about 6 months before my first meet . Take in the club scenes to meet people and socialise as well.there is alot of guys who come on here and think they will meet same day same week etc ..enjoy but be patient"
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Hmmm
Imagine this
You need to go buy a washing machine
You can choose one based on
- what it looks like
- what it’s features are (what it does)
- it’s size
Now apply those principles to your profile
Very few are interested in a washing machine that has pictures that are dark and grainy and with features that just say I wash your clothes, spin them.
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Hi OP I would agree with comments above. If you are going to show cock pics I prefer them to be active rather than resting if you catch my drift. Also the flash makes it difficult to see. Good luck and hope you get sorted. J x |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I can’t comment on your profile as you haven’t specifically asked for help with it (forum rules!).
So what I would say in the meantime is read the above advice and search the forum archives for the hundreds of threads on this topic. Also, look at the profiles of successful guys on here and compare them to your approach.
Good luck! |
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Can’t accommodate and can’t travel? As Adam Ant said, what do you do?
Pictures uninspiring and all much the same.
Profile text doesn’t tell us much.
No verifications. You’ve got 3 decent clubs on your doorstep, join one, get down there and socialise. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while"
I'll be brutally honest...even if you make the necessary changes to your profile, the fact you can't drive or accomodate will give you literally zero chances of getting a meet here. If that's what you're after, I'm afraid that under your current circumstances, you're just wasting your time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while
I'll be brutally honest...even if you make the necessary changes to your profile, the fact you can't drive or accomodate will give you literally zero chances of getting a meet here. If that's what you're after, I'm afraid that under your current circumstances, you're just wasting your time."
Well thanks mate that gave me huge inspiration to continue but yea I have same feeling. Might try the sex club scene out see if its any good |
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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago
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All the above are valid points.
Can't travel. If you are using taxis or PT thend surely that means you can travel, allbeit not to far.
Can't accommodate surely a simple as line as can't accommodation as I live with my children explains it.
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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago
Failsworth |
"All the above are valid points.
Can't travel. If you are using taxis or PT thend surely that means you can travel, allbeit not to far.
Can't accommodate surely a simple as line as can't accommodation as I live with my children explains it.
Good luck x"
And check your phone doesnt change words randomly as you post like mine does !!!!
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Yes, simply explain in your profile. Sorry I can’t accommodate as I have small children that live with me however although I don’t drive I am willing to travel locally within a 10 mile radius, maybe further for the right people. |
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"Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while
I'll be brutally honest...even if you make the necessary changes to your profile, the fact you can't drive or accomodate will give you literally zero chances of getting a meet here. If that's what you're after, I'm afraid that under your current circumstances, you're just wasting your time.
Well thanks mate that gave me huge inspiration to continue but yea I have same feeling. Might try the sex club scene out see if its any good"
By the way, they aren't sex clubs. They are Swingers clubs and there is a big difference. Good luck. |
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"Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while
I'll be brutally honest...even if you make the necessary changes to your profile, the fact you can't drive or accomodate will give you literally zero chances of getting a meet here. If that's what you're after, I'm afraid that under your current circumstances, you're just wasting your time."
He's not wasting his time. He could meet at a club? As one poster above says, there are three in his local(ish) area. There are many women and couples who would prefer to do so anyway. |
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"Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while
I'll be brutally honest...even if you make the necessary changes to your profile, the fact you can't drive or accomodate will give you literally zero chances of getting a meet here. If that's what you're after, I'm afraid that under your current circumstances, you're just wasting your time.
Well thanks mate that gave me huge inspiration to continue but yea I have same feeling. Might try the sex club scene out see if its any good"
Swingers' club scene, you mean? |
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"Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while
I'll be brutally honest...even if you make the necessary changes to your profile, the fact you can't drive or accomodate will give you literally zero chances of getting a meet here. If that's what you're after, I'm afraid that under your current circumstances, you're just wasting your time.
Well thanks mate that gave me huge inspiration to continue but yea I have same feeling. Might try the sex club scene out see if its any good"
Do NOT go to a club expecting sex. They are Swingers Clubs, not Sex Clubs. Go along and be nice and friendly and chat to people. Have no expectations about getting lucky - that means it's a bonus if you do!  |
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"Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while"
OP you don’t need to explain why you cannot accommodate or travel. You seem a very nice polite chap here on this thread and I really do wish you well and hope you find on here what you are searching for.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks all and think will get rid of all the old pics and try fresh and plus freshen up my profile. Plus can't travel because don't drive and can't accom because have my children stay over and like to keep this side private for while
OP you don’t need to explain why you cannot accommodate or travel. You seem a very nice polite chap here on this thread and I really do wish you well and hope you find on here what you are searching for.
Thank you and likewise I hope you find what you are searching for xx
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