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Most people don’t read profiles
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Ok I’m just curious is it me or do most people mainly guys that don’t read profiles as I get a lot of messages from single guys all saying the same thing when it states at the bottom of my profile that I don’t meet single guys. Also I have found it sometimes the same with ladies and couples who suggest bareback and complain when I suggest safe sex and lastly how is my profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don’t want single men messaging you use your message filters so they can’t. You’re bisexual so men will either read your profile and chance it anyway, or will see your bisexual and not bother reading your profile and just message you. (Obviously there’s men who read it and respect it).
And yep, some people don’t read profiles. It annoys me too but I don’t bother replying to them, and sometimes I’ll block (depending on the message). |
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over a year ago
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Ha hardly anyone reads ours, it clearly states it’s normally the male replying so putting ‘nice pussy’ or ‘hi gorgeous’ really is stupid!
We were told last week we should put that we can’t always accommodate near the top of our profile instead of it stating we accommodate- guess what it does already say that! And that wasn’t from a single guy - it was a couple!
As for single guys we stop them from messaging, have a select few on our friends list and if we think a guy we come across is alright we can open a link by winking or send them a message- if they turn out to be a complete dick we just block them! |
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Move the bit about not wanting single guys from the bottom to the top of text and put it in caps, a lot only read the first few lines of text. It doesn't always work though coz some will just ignore and chance it. But if you're down as Bi you're going to draw male attention, set your message filters to block men to resolve it. |
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Some people only see what they want to see.
What you want isnt important to them,you are just pictures and a load of words to feed their fantasies and imagination. |
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over a year ago
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I always read them. Often it puts me off contacting someone either because we don’t fit what they want or they have something that doesn’t appeal to us. |
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"I always read them. Often it puts me off contacting someone either because we don’t fit what they want or they have something that doesn’t appeal to us. "
Completely agree I hope to get a taste of someone's personality level of intelligence and mabe there since of humour If and any and see if we could be compatible |
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"Ok I’m just curious is it me or do most people mainly guys that don’t read profiles as I get a lot of messages from single guys all saying the same thing when it states at the bottom of my profile that I don’t meet single guys. Also I have found it sometimes the same with ladies and couples who suggest bareback and complain when I suggest safe sex and lastly how is my profile.
Thanks all"
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Actually, most men do read profiles. This is why I get about 3 messages a day from those who don't (they all get blocked) while ladies with profiles that are more welcoming get hundreds. This proves that the absolute majority of men know what a profile is for and respect ladies' wishes. |
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"Actually, most men do read profiles. This is why I get about 3 messages a day from those who don't (they all get blocked) while ladies with profiles that are more welcoming get hundreds. This proves that the absolute majority of men know what a profile is for and respect ladies' wishes."
You’re lucky! I get maybe, 30 messages a day at most? And only about 5 will have read my profile haha |
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"Actually, most men do read profiles. This is why I get about 3 messages a day from those who don't (they all get blocked) while ladies with profiles that are more welcoming get hundreds. This proves that the absolute majority of men know what a profile is for and respect ladies' wishes."
Mabe the read but a lot don't heed |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Actually, most men do read profiles. This is why I get about 3 messages a day from those who don't (they all get blocked) while ladies with profiles that are more welcoming get hundreds. This proves that the absolute majority of men know what a profile is for and respect ladies' wishes.
Mabe the read but a lot don't heed "
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"Ok I’m just curious is it me or do most people mainly guys that don’t read profiles as I get a lot of messages from single guys all saying the same thing when it states at the bottom of my profile that I don’t meet single guys. Also I have found it sometimes the same with ladies and couples who suggest bareback and complain when I suggest safe sex and lastly how is my profile.
Thanks all"
Maybe put at the front what you're looking for and what you're not then those not fitting ur pole wants can skip on, as most don't read profiles as you suggest it'll help you filtering out unwanted attention too. |
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"Actually, most men do read profiles. This is why I get about 3 messages a day from those who don't (they all get blocked) while ladies with profiles that are more welcoming get hundreds. This proves that the absolute majority of men know what a profile is for and respect ladies' wishes.
Mabe the read but a lot don't heed "
Also true, but again, of a minority. |
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"Ok I’m just curious is it me or do most people mainly guys that don’t read profiles as I get a lot of messages from single guys all saying the same thing when it states at the bottom of my profile that I don’t meet single guys. Also I have found it sometimes the same with ladies and couples who suggest bareback and complain when I suggest safe sex and lastly how is my profile.
Thanks all"
Yeah a lot of guys don't read profiles, they just look at the pretty pictures |
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"Actually, most men do read profiles. This is why I get about 3 messages a day from those who don't (they all get blocked) while ladies with profiles that are more welcoming get hundreds. This proves that the absolute majority of men know what a profile is for and respect ladies' wishes."
you are fortunate ! My messages are from guys , who don't read my profile at all!
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"Most of the profile on here are so long it takes up to 20 mins to read them
Well if you can't be arsed reading them,dont message them.simple really."
i do not because i know i will not get a reply that true in my case so it simple which i do not send out |
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