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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not exactly a super stud and not built like a Greek god, not bad though, but just can’t seem to get anywhere on here!
Very few ladies message back, and I do appreciate that they must get hundreds of messages but maybe I’m being too nice?
I do read the profiles and a try to pay my best compliments but at a loss what’s going wrong.
Not winging, but would love some advice from anyone sensible enough to read this ??
Thanks in advance |
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"I’m not exactly a super stud and not built like a Greek god, not bad though, but just can’t seem to get anywhere on here!
Very few ladies message back, and I do appreciate that they must get hundreds of messages but maybe I’m being too nice?
I do read the profiles and a try to pay my best compliments but at a loss what’s going wrong.
Not winging, but would love some advice from anyone sensible enough to read this ??
Thanks in advance "
It can take time as there are more men than women on here. An example, when I joined I received 540 messages in 30 minutes, that was 18 different men per minute messaging me, this was overpowering for me.
What are you paying compliments about? Some women will find that cheesy.
What do you mean by you are being too nice? As opposed to what?
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"I’m not exactly a super stud and not built like a Greek god, not bad though, but just can’t seem to get anywhere on here!
Very few ladies message back, and I do appreciate that they must get hundreds of messages but maybe I’m being too nice?
I do read the profiles and a try to pay my best compliments but at a loss what’s going wrong.
Not winging, but would love some advice from anyone sensible enough to read this ??
Thanks in advance "
I'm at a loss too! People forget how to be decent, the biggest attraction to the scene is the social side, but on here it's less than anything else I've ever experienced! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can take time as there are more men than women on here. An example, when I joined I received 540 messages in 30 minutes, that was 18 different men per minute messaging me, this was overpowering for me."
Extract the digit, stop slacking   |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
Deep in the New Forest |
It's just the way swingers site have evolved over the years. It use to be a lot easier to be take serious and not to be instantly judged that you only want to fuck someone. Sadly the amount of single men on any site weather it's swinging or dating has put women and couples on the back foot to start with. I might be wrong but that's how it comes across to me these days. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Your messages may be nice, but your photos are not those of a "nice man". Some ladies may be wary of the bondage and kink side.
I would suggest you have a few photos of just yourself and save the other action shots to send to people after chatting a while.
Rather than compliments, talk about what it was in someone's profile that interested you. That way it will show you are eager to meet that particular, rather than coming across as a bit cheesy.
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There's no such thing as too nice and contrary to what a lot of men think women do not all want a bad boy. Respectful and characterful is what I'm after. Unfortunately for men the nice, not so nice and the downright nasty they outnumber women many times on here. This means that it's going to be more difficult than most expected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know how it’s possible to know from your profile where you are nice or not. You might be, you might not. Aspects of your profile are a bit of a turn-off for me, but those aspects don’t really reflect whether or not you are nice or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your messages may be nice, but your photos are not those of a "nice man". Some ladies may be wary of the bondage and kink side.
I would suggest you have a few photos of just yourself and save the other action shots to send to people after chatting a while.
Rather than compliments, talk about what it was in someone's profile that interested you. That way it will show you are eager to meet that particular, rather than coming across as a bit cheesy.
Just my thoughts "
True I do not enjoy action shots. Totally off putting |
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