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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can you go to socials in your area? I had a partner that was strongly bi and she met all her meets over a coffee or a wine at a social or a club.
She'd go to clubs mainly to socialise and meet new people. It seemed to work for her.
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"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
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All cross dressers are ugly? Really? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't live that close to any clubs and I'm not driving so that doesn't help. The town house is probably closest but still a couple of trains away.
I find cross dressers look male to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I too find this a difficult task.
Mr is happy with photos so not even like he wants to join in all the time.sometimes its purley for me to have some girl on girl fun.  |
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"I don't live that close to any clubs and I'm not driving so that doesn't help. The town house is probably closest but still a couple of trains away.
I find cross dressers look male to me. "
That’s completely different to calling all of them ugly. |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
All cross dressers are ugly? Really?"
Where does she actually say all ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't live that close to any clubs and I'm not driving so that doesn't help. The town house is probably closest but still a couple of trains away.
I find cross dressers look male to me.
That’s completely different to calling all of them ugly. "
She didn't call them all ugly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
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If they start wanting sex chat it's 99% likely to be a man on a fake profile. Trust your gut. 
Maybe have a look in the Meets forum section for socials nearer where you live. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really don't trust any single women the amount of fakes I've had. Sometimes it might go against me asking for proof they are female. But I always think of they are real will swap what's app or similar. ?? I get more messages from couples but they always end up asking if the man can do things with me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't trust any single women the amount of fakes I've had. Sometimes it might go against me asking for proof they are female. But I always think of they are real will swap what's app or similar. ?? I get more messages from couples but they always end up asking if the man can do things with me too. "
Exactly this! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
If they start wanting sex chat it's 99% likely to be a man on a fake profile. Trust your gut.
Maybe have a look in the Meets forum section for socials nearer where you live. "
This is so true  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to find another woman just for girl play but it’s like a needle in a haystack "
Really??? Would gave thought you'd have no problem at all....
When you cumming to Scotland? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also find the same most I get is fake profiles guys trying to get pics I'd love a regular girl for shopping trips and one and one fun when I'm the mood , and ur profiles good and very pretty face xx |
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"I would love to find another woman just for girl play but it’s like a needle in a haystack
Really??? Would gave thought you'd have no problem at all....
When you cumming to Scotland? "
Lol trust me it’s just as hard as for guys finding girls
Ladies get swamped with mail or not many send out messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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... but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
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Wow!!! So rude. 
Nobody is ugly, they are just not your taste. Everyone is beautiful to someone. Keep positive people xx |
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There is a social in Liverpool this Saturday which is listed in the forum & anyone can put their name down for it
You also have Townhouse fairly close by & if you don’t drive, there are trains in & the club will book taxis for anyone who needs one at the end of the night.
There is a female only night relaunching in the autumn called Indulgence’ which sounds like it would be perfect for you, but you would be welcome any night - there are plenty of single bi females at the club. In fact I’m one of the few who is straight!! |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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I've said it before...
No gender or demographic has it easy on here...often for vastly different reasons granted,
if you were a single guy there'd be lots of folk saying what makes you stand out etc.... the same advice applies to ladies couples and guys..
Have fun . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to find another woman just for girl play but it’s like a needle in a haystack "
Totally agree. I have no chance if yoy struggle haha
I have perved your profile a few times mind  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here, I'm also just looking for girl on girl fun but have no luck. I have a couples profile but have clearly said I'm mostly looking for girl on girl fun only.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many sexy ladies on here wanting the same thing. But all so far away from each other
Aaww bless ya .. I think I scare most women Haha x "
Mrs G isn’t scared ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It might be helpful to remove the 420 friendly bit as it can put a lot of people off. I joined my local lesbian/bisexual group which have meetings and socials, maybe you could join your local one xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many sexy ladies on here wanting the same thing. But all so far away from each other
Aaww bless ya .. I think I scare most women Haha x "
Hahha!!! I wouldnt be scared. I think you look amazing! |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
Wigan |
"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
All cross dressers are ugly? Really?"
No - the op said the ones that message her she finds ugly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a female only night relaunching in the autumn called Indulgence’ which sounds like it would be perfect for you, but you would be welcome any night - there are plenty of single bi females at the club. In fact I’m one of the few who is straight!!"
Yes, very selfish of you being straight. 
Jem x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re heading to the Townhouse a bet would be to ask if anyone’s going who could offer a lift - and obviously for safety make sure they’re known to regulars / verified etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is blooming hard... especially when you think you’ve found one then they pull out the old ‘I’ve got this boyfriend....’
NOOOOOOO!!!!"
This is one of my pet hates on here!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is blooming hard... especially when you think you’ve found one then they pull out the old ‘I’ve got this boyfriend....’
NOOOOOOO!!!!
This is one of my pet hates on here! "
No boyfriend here doll |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is blooming hard... especially when you think you’ve found one then they pull out the old ‘I’ve got this boyfriend....’
NOOOOOOO!!!!
This is one of my pet hates on here!
No boyfriend here doll "
We need to get back in touch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is blooming hard... especially when you think you’ve found one then they pull out the old ‘I’ve got this boyfriend....’
NOOOOOOO!!!!
This is one of my pet hates on here!
No boyfriend here doll
We need to get back in touch "
Expect an inbox tomorrow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always wanted to find a genuine lady so that we can enjoy I do have a guy but he is happy for me to play solo with an another female but again it is hard to achieve that desire Lily |
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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago
LONDON |
"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
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I agree with you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't live that close to any clubs and I'm not driving so that doesn't help. The town house is probably closest but still a couple of trains away.
I find cross dressers look male to me.
That’s completely different to calling all of them ugly.
She didn't call them all ugly. "
Er, she did ! |
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Found this really hard as well. I had another profile, purely for meeting girls, showing my face, profile about my interests... much more vanilla. Didn’t work.
Kinda given up for now. Think socials is the only way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are hard to find but they are out there. That's what I'm predominantly here for and I may have a guy in my life but he has no involvement with me playing with girls. I find socials and clubs one of the easiest options and some of the girls I've met have come from chatting in the forums too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about a London social for us bi and lesbian ladies?
I also find it difficult to meet ladies for 1:1 fun (or just an all-lady party...) "
Noooo do somewhere middle of the country
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"How about a London social for us bi and lesbian ladies?
I also find it difficult to meet ladies for 1:1 fun (or just an all-lady party...)
Noooo do somewhere middle of the country
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Where would you suggest?
And do you fancy a snog? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find ladies assume I'm fab bi rather than genuinely bi x
Is this like being fab straingt lol...I'm regular straight btw
... Mr"
Exactly this! I love ladies just as much as men but being on here as a single female people always assume theres a guy lurking in the background x |
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"How about a London social for us bi and lesbian ladies?
I also find it difficult to meet ladies for 1:1 fun (or just an all-lady party...)
Noooo do somewhere middle of the country
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We should do one x |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"How about a London social for us bi and lesbian ladies?
I also find it difficult to meet ladies for 1:1 fun (or just an all-lady party...)
Noooo do somewhere middle of the country
We should do one x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would like to explore with a woman a little more but I wouldn't want to arrange a meet with the pressure of playing. I kind of want to find a woman to hang out with and then if anything naturally develops then great. Tricky to find when understandably those women who can accommodate want to spend their time with someone who is either very bi or lesbian rather than just curious. |
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"How about a London social for us bi and lesbian ladies?
I also find it difficult to meet ladies for 1:1 fun (or just an all-lady party...) "
I did a London ladies only social a couple of years ago...happy to arrange another one if the interest was there
Rabbit x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I really don't trust any single women the amount of fakes I've had. Sometimes it might go against me asking for proof they are female. But I always think of they are real will swap what's app or similar. ?? I get more messages from couples but they always end up asking if the man can do things with me too. "
Most that want to go off site are probably just wanting pics swaps. |
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"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
I agree with you xx"
both you and the OP are full on typical lesbians .... which is fine but bad taste to pull a section of Fab down because of it ..... and to be fair ...... I’ve looked at both your profiles and think I look more like a woman than both of you .... So put that in pipe in your fanny licking lips and smoke it ..... |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
I agree with you xx both you and the OP are full on typical lesbians .... which is fine but bad taste to pull a section of Fab down because of it ..... and to be fair ...... I’ve looked at both your profiles and think I look more like a woman than both of you .... So put that in pipe in your fanny licking lips and smoke it ..... "
Can't message you as you've blocked females lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to find, of those that approach me, thete often have poor profiles and badly written messaged. I'm interested in all kinds of meets if the person/people messaging are engaging.
I have a thorough profile. Pics, descriptive, verified. When i send a new message it'll be personal, usually about something that caught my eye (and not just "lovely tits hun" ) |
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"It seems really hard to find other women. I'm not the most attractive and am overweight but still thought I'd get a few. Also I seem to attract lots of fake profiles and it's hard to tell a genuine one.
I like transgender women but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
I agree with you xx both you and the OP are full on typical lesbians .... which is fine but bad taste to pull a section of Fab down because of it ..... and to be fair ...... I’ve looked at both your profiles and think I look more like a woman than both of you .... So put that in pipe in your fanny licking lips and smoke it .....
Can't message you as you've blocked females lol x"
sorry undone now lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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... but only get messages from crossdressers who are ugly.
Wow!!! So rude.
Nobody is ugly, they are just not your taste. Everyone is beautiful to someone. Keep positive people
xx"
Not if you're ugly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also struggle to find a woman to play with. They all seem to be so many miles away, think I need to move further South where the number of swingers seems a lot higher. |
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