Welcome to Fab Firstly have a think about what you want and what you can offer - sex in the 21st Century is a two way street and isn’t all about you. Secondly, try to encapsulate those thoughts in a written profile. It’s your shop window so you want folk to stop and look in Thirdly, evaluate your expectations- it’s unlikely you’ll be knee deep in offers and so you’ll have to go looking for yourself. Top tip: read profiles before sending messages (see first point). Good luck. |
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"I’m totally new to this......could do with some pointers....much appreciated "
Have a well written, interesting and informative profile. Dont make it all about what you want, write about what you can offer a potential meet.
Your "interests" dont give much away, safe sex is a good start, but usually a given.
Make sure you fully read profiles and only message if you match what they are looking for, but bare in mind, just because you think you match their likes, doesnt mean they will agree and reply. Talking of replies to messages, dont get angry or annoyed if people dont reply, no reply means not interested.
Take some time to look around the site and see which bits work best for you, forums, chatrooms, clubs, etc.
And remember....its meant to be fun.
Good luck
Poppy.
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I'd start with working on your photos. Whilst they show your face, which is a positive, they aren't too exciting. I'm sure you've probably got better photos of yourself somewhere. Holiday snaps or similar. If not, spend some time looking at other profiles for inspiration and get snapping.
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