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By *lice Again OP TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

I'm getting a little fed up of my life on the site.

90% of the messages I get a from very eager guys who 'love' my photos.

They want to chat, we have a chat, possibly even exchange a few photos and then they disappear.

Occasionally we arrange potential meets, but mostly these come to nothing.

It's almost like I can feel the build up, then they cum and the post orgasmic doubt sets in and then they disappear.

What am I doing wrong?

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

It's a bit like me and the club scene mate; all promise, no delivery. Worse things happen at sea mate, chin up

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By *lice Again OP TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

The meet failures are the worst.

People who say they can accom who'd rather wank over my photos then cancel a meet than actually cum inside me. WTF?

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By *ussetdevilCouple over a year ago

Swindon

Don't send pics for them to wank to, keep your pics private for just friends and only add people you think are genuine..

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

The other thing you can do is use your filters to block everyone from messaging you and then do the searching yourself

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"The meet failures are the worst.

People who say they can accom who'd rather wank over my photos then cancel a meet than actually cum inside me. WTF? "

Lmao! I received a message from the female of a couple (very recently), saying "I'm horny and more so on c*ke, if you have some I'm yours xx". Also, another woman I was getting on very well with, asked to see my private pics, and replied "Are you sure that's your cock? There's no mention of it in your veris?" After which I found myself blocked. Don't overthink people in here

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By *edbath 5Man over a year ago

london

I want to be a wank target

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The other thing you can do is use your filters to block everyone from messaging you and then do the searching yourself"

It's what we do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't overthink people in here

This!

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By *inful xWoman over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Stop the wank chat and don't send pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm getting a little fed up of my life on the site.

90% of the messages I get a from very eager guys who 'love' my photos.

They want to chat, we have a chat, possibly even exchange a few photos and then they disappear.

Occasionally we arrange potential meets, but mostly these come to nothing.

It's almost like I can feel the build up, then they cum and the post orgasmic doubt sets in and then they disappear.

What am I doing wrong?

Only do first meets in a club?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm getting a little fed up of my life on the site.

90% of the messages I get a from very eager guys who 'love' my photos.

They want to chat, we have a chat, possibly even exchange a few photos and then they disappear.

Occasionally we arrange potential meets, but mostly these come to nothing.

It's almost like I can feel the build up, then they cum and the post orgasmic doubt sets in and then they disappear.

What am I doing wrong?

I can't wank over a picture no matter how hot just doesn't do it for me. If guys are doing this why'd you keep sending them

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

Only do first meets in a club?

In my experience; clubs are more hassle than private meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get stood up and ghosted all the time, I find most people on here can talk the talk but not much else

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By *inful xWoman over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"I get stood up and ghosted all the time, I find most people on here can talk the talk but not much else "

I'd agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're giving them what they want. Stop giving them anything to wank over and they will get bored and leave you alone.

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By *imb8486Man over a year ago

Weston super mare

I find if they start with very dirty talk and keep requesting lots of pictures it's not going anywhere, even had some idiot keep telling me he was on his way and suddenly disappeared

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By *offee with MilkCouple over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

How about reducing the amount of public photos?

Anyone interested will still be interested, but it offers the wank brigade less material.

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By *ida8780Couple over a year ago

any town

Control your own profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not you lovely. I too find the majority of men wasters, and fantasists. Most just want wank fodder.