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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been wondering this for a while now, and just wondered what everyone else thinks. BBW ladies are quite popular it seems, and being married to one i agree, however i often feel that i stop people approaching as I'm a fat male which i would guess is a big turn off for women. I've wondered if i should let wifey go on her own so I'm not off putting to people?
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"I have been wondering this for a while now, and just wondered what everyone else thinks. BBW ladies are quite popular it seems, and being married to one i agree, however i often feel that i stop people approaching as I'm a fat male which i would guess is a big turn off for women. I've wondered if i should let wifey go on her own so I'm not off putting to people?
Would be interested in your thoughts"
The harsh truth is that, yes, an overweight woman will get more action than an overweight man, purely because there are far more men than women on here. |
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Only you guys can decide if Mrs should go alone or not
Unfortunately some people just are not interested in us bigger guys just like some are not intrested in skinny but there's plenty of people that are and the fun times do come.
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"Are all large ladies classed as bbw ? "
No, but it’s used loosely as a term to describe bigger girls.
I don’t think there is a cut off size to say they is & that isn’t - it’s just another label really
I don’t consider myself to be a bbw, just plus size or fat!!  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can feel like a bit of a put down at times but it helps out certain types of people, especially those who can't handle rejection and then message you saying "you're fat anyway, lucky to get any interest". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally get you OP. Mrs gets a lot of attention but Find that it’s me being the big guy, the one that lets the side down. I understand everyone has a type and some people just arnt for others but it does give you a kick in the plums confidence wise. |
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"Are all large ladies classed as bbw ?
No, but it’s used loosely as a term to describe bigger girls.
I don’t think there is a cut off size to say they is & that isn’t - it’s just another label really
I don’t consider myself to be a bbw, just plus size or fat!! x"
I think the question was more in reference to the second "B" in BBW. |
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"Most guys on here will fuck anything thats why fat women get so much action "
Seriously?! They should just chop it off rather than fuck an "anything=fat woman". How disgusting 
And, us, fat women should just lock ourselves in the house, away from the world, rather than seeking fun in any way. How dare we! We're less than human beings anyway, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally get you OP. Mrs gets a lot of attention but Find that it’s me being the big guy, the one that lets the side down. I understand everyone has a type and some people just arnt for others but it does give you a kick in the plums confidence wise. "
That just about sums up my problem here.  |
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Being big hasn't put me off. Like any body type or other physical attribute.... Some ladies like a fat guy, some don't mind and some dislike us. If I do ok in the swinging world it's because I hope to have an air of confidence without being cocky, and I get out attending clubs, organising socials, meeting people. |
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By *ertsRobMan
over a year ago
Rickmansworth |
"I agree with u mate, as an overweight man I find it frustrating being on here"
Being “overweight” as opposed to large build is usually a lifestyle choice. If you find it frustrating why don’t you adopt a healthier lifestyle? |
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"I agree with u mate, as an overweight man I find it frustrating being on here
Being “overweight” as opposed to large build is usually a lifestyle choice. If you find it frustrating why don’t you adopt a healthier lifestyle? "
Because it isn't that simple.
If the diet industry worked.... There would be no diet industry.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to everyone for your replies. I am feeling better already  . To add, we have both decided to start gyming it up now, induction tonight for me so hopefully i can shift some fat and tone up a bit (get my dad bod going)
I dont agree though with the poster who said " guys will fuck anything, that's why fat girls are popular". If you could of been any more passive aggressive at fat shaming i would be surprised. Your statement insinuates that fat women are desperate, which is very rude and very wrong, and your statement has made me regret ever posting my original question in the first place |
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Similar issue, I'm older, heavy and hairy, my girl is much younger and a seriously hot size 8/10. The disappointment in the ladies of couples vs the thirst of the men was obvious. We met a couple of lovely couples as well though.
So we started meeting solo. Its a harder slog for me but I've still got Fet sites to sell my skills. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Are all large ladies classed as bbw ? "
Depends if you're working on the 2 out 3 ain't bad rule:
A large female is:
Big - tick
A woman - tick
Beautiful - not always
Unless being big makes them by default beautiful? |
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"Are all large ladies classed as bbw ?
Depends if you're working on the 2 out 3 ain't bad rule:
A large female is:
Big - tick
A woman - tick
Beautiful - not always
Unless being big makes them by default beautiful?"
That's a whooooooole other debate.
(For the record, I hate that term and I hope it vanishes from existence. In fact, I almost get offended when someone calls me a bbw. Just call me fat, since that accurately describes what I am. If you think I'm beautiful, you can always say it, rather than bunch everyone together and try to make them feel better by calling them beautiful by default. My self esteem is fine, thank you. I don't need generalisations or flattery to make me believe something that might not be true. Utterly ridiculous term. Be gone!). |
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"I totally get you OP. Mrs gets a lot of attention but Find that it’s me being the big guy, the one that lets the side down. I understand everyone has a type and some people just arnt for others but it does give you a kick in the plums confidence wise. "
You do not let the side down at all!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer bigger guys if I’m honest. I can appreciate that guys with a gym bod are gorgeous in their own right, but I find a bigger guy much more attractive x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer bigger guys if I’m honest. I can appreciate that guys with a gym bod are gorgeous in their own right, but I find a bigger guy much more attractive x"
That’s nice to see a women say that. |
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