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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try attending one of the socials or get to a club or party , get yourself known "
Yes this....
Going to a club or social will most likely get you a verification
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a social or club Is probably your best bet to meet someone and get that first verification.
It takes a lot of time and patience if you do it on here only. As that’s what I did the first time I joined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm....the site isn't letting you down, it makes no promises. It's a place to facilitate introductions and interaction, you are the only one who can do that.
As said before try being more sociable and get yourself known. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab Swingers is letting you down!?!? It’s not an escort site, where you pay your money in exchange for sex! And given that you are in the largest demographic looking to meet the smallest demographic, there is very little Fab can do to ensure single men get better value for money. Some single men do well on Fab, but probably most don’t because there are simply too many men and not enough women. But that’s not Fab’s fault that men keep joining a site where there are relatively few single women and even fewer female only couples.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps changing your attitude could be a good start OP. It's not for fab to find you meets. They are not letting you down at all. Joining a site and paying £5, does not give you leg over..... Sorry to burst the bubble. |
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"Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
Any help? "
You ask the question ‘there dont seem to be a problem with my profile?’ - “actually, there’s loads wrong with it” would be my answer to that question.
If you think the site is letting you down, then obviously and clearly it’s not making your stay a happy or sexually satisfied one, so maybe you should consider if this is the best site for you? After all, if it’s letting you down, what’s the point? The site isn’t going to change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Two thirds of £5 is £3.33. Do you think you should have got a woman to have sex with you because you’ve paid? I’ve paid more for a coffee  "
Some parts of Hull you can get 3 women for that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
Any help? "
FAB LETTING YOU DOWN? We aee in charge of our own destiny not them. Take responsibility for your profile and your meets OP. Good luck |
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"Two thirds of £5 is £3.33. Do you think you should have got a woman to have sex with you because you’ve paid? I’ve paid more for a coffee Some parts of Hull you can get 3 women for that "
. I don’t want to meet the 33p one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Two thirds of £5 is £3.33. Do you think you should have got a woman to have sex with you because you’ve paid? I’ve paid more for a coffee Some parts of Hull you can get 3 women for that . I don’t want to meet the 33p one. "
No 2 of them are £1 each and £1,33 for the high class one  |
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"Two thirds of £5 is £3.33. Do you think you should have got a woman to have sex with you because you’ve paid? I’ve paid more for a coffee Some parts of Hull you can get 3 women for that . I don’t want to meet the 33p one. No 2 of them are £1 each and £1,33 for the high class one "
Wait....is she the one known as the Hullk?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Two thirds of £5 is £3.33. Do you think you should have got a woman to have sex with you because you’ve paid? I’ve paid more for a coffee Some parts of Hull you can get 3 women for that . I don’t want to meet the 33p one. No 2 of them are £1 each and £1,33 for the high class one
Wait....is she the one known as the Hullk?
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No . The Bulk  |
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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"You ask the question ‘there dont seem to be a problem with my profile?’ - “actually, there’s loads wrong with it” would be my answer to that question.
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I agree, personally I find your profile difficult to read, I don’t find the hairy armpit pic attractive and 23 would be too young for me, you may well find that your age isn’t for quite a few ladies here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
Any help? "
Guys your age are two a penny, also you aren't fussy but want gym fit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on the same amount of time as you and now have 12 varifications.. Not that I'm bragging.. I am however not very shy ..lol and I can't meet at the drop of a hat as I have children.
If you don't mind me saying Put a little effort into your profile and messages not one liners and be respectful and polite .. No cock pictures .. Read other single guys profiles and look how many varifications they have ... You can learn a lot from doing a bit of homework .. Have a play around with your photos changing the angles slightly different lighting etc . Also get to a club and some socials .. It's basically networking yourself.. Good luck and Happy swinging
Mr_Nice.69 x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on the same amount of time as you and now have 12 varifications.. Not that I'm bragging.. I am however not very shy ..lol and I can't meet at the drop of a hat as I have children.
If you don't mind me saying Put a little effort into your profile and messages not one liners and be respectful and polite .. No cock pictures .. Read other single guys profiles and look how many varifications they have ... You can learn a lot from doing a bit of homework .. Have a play around with your photos changing the angles slightly different lighting etc . Also get to a club and some socials .. It's basically networking yourself.. Good luck and Happy swinging
Mr_Nice.69 x "
Someone's been a busy boy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on the same amount of time as you and now have 12 varifications.. Not that I'm bragging.. I am however not very shy ..lol and I can't meet at the drop of a hat as I have children.
If you don't mind me saying Put a little effort into your profile and messages not one liners and be respectful and polite .. No cock pictures .. Read other single guys profiles and look how many varifications they have ... You can learn a lot from doing a bit of homework .. Have a play around with your photos changing the angles slightly different lighting etc . Also get to a club and some socials .. It's basically networking yourself.. Good luck and Happy swinging
Mr_Nice.69 x "
11 actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blimey! Take a note out of Mr Nice 69’s ‘how to be a success at swinging in 7 weeks’ book
The man deserves an award! "
He said not that he's not bragging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you aren’t getting responses from messages then change you profile and pics. Stand out from the crowd...
As soon as you’ve messaged someone, be sure that your profile is up to scratch and your pictures picque interest.
Your profile, whilst it’s longer than most, doesn’t tell me anything that you want or can offer...just alludes to it.
Women have (at least) 50 guys messsge them a day...you get one chance to make a first impression...if you don’t, then the next guy gets a chance....don’t allow that next guy get the chance...
Change the way you are doing things before you moan that this site is not doing as intended.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheers guys Ha ha ha .. It's actually more as I haven't included the times we have had a meet twice .. lol .. Also it doesn't include the socials that I've gone to the trouble of to get a meet. You just have to be nice 
It's Barnsley social this weekend. Like i said it's all about networking and getting your self out there .. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try attending one of the socials or get to a club or party , get yourself known "
100% this.
Far too many people join Fab these days thinking it's 'instashag', it isn't a sex site, it's a swinging site, 2 completely different things.
Try putting mor effort in and you may just reap the rewards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel your pain fella but unfortunately there isnt a magical solution in solving your Fab problem. Most guys on here are experiencing the very same thing; day after day.
Stick with it, expect nothing, keep trying, keep persisting and maybe just maybe something might happen. Might happen, doesn't necesarilly mean it will.
Good luck dude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps changing your attitude could be a good start OP. It's not for fab to find you meets. They are not letting you down at all. Joining a site and paying £5, does not give you leg over..... Sorry to burst the bubble. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
Any help? "
Ask for your money back mate . £5 and no shag is outrageous |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"I have been on the same amount of time as you and now have 12 varifications.. Not that I'm bragging.. I am however not very shy ..lol and I can't meet at the drop of a hat as I have children.
If you don't mind me saying Put a little effort into your profile and messages not one liners and be respectful and polite .. No cock pictures .. Read other single guys profiles and look how many varifications they have ... You can learn a lot from doing a bit of homework .. Have a play around with your photos changing the angles slightly different lighting etc . Also get to a club and some socials .. It's basically networking yourself.. Good luck and Happy swinging
Mr_Nice.69 x "
Just goes to show that it can be done. Great pics as well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel for you dude. There are real good people here. Just gotta get lucky. Ive been analysing profiles for ages and turns out most just bleet the same crap day in day out. Bet never do anything. I don't even bother messaging anymore. Personally have more luck on pof. But just hang about see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on the same amount of time as you and now have 12 varifications.. Not that I'm bragging.. I am however not very shy ..lol and I can't meet at the drop of a hat as I have children.
If you don't mind me saying Put a little effort into your profile and messages not one liners and be respectful and polite .. No cock pictures .. Read other single guys profiles and look how many varifications they have ... You can learn a lot from doing a bit of homework .. Have a play around with your photos changing the angles slightly different lighting etc . Also get to a club and some socials .. It's basically networking yourself.. Good luck and Happy swinging
Mr_Nice.69 x
Just goes to show that it can be done. Great pics as well! "
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Thank you for your kind comment my dear .. you have some good ones too.. That corset looks fantastic xx |
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This whole thing reminds me of an incident at a club we used to go to.
Debs and I were talking to a single guy who was obviously interested. I knew he ticked all Debs' boxes and just as we were going to suggest moving to a playroom he said:
"Well I'm going soon, I've been here two hours and haven't got laid yet"
Debs face was a picture. We just got up and walked away.
Oops. |
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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago
Derby |
"Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
Any help? "
J has looked at your profile, and this is what she says;
You're only 23, which cuts out a lot of people's minimum age limit.
You're looking for single women, or two women. That cuts out a whole range of others, probably 95% of the site, and there aren't many husbands/partners who would 'loan out' their better halves. As for a two woman couple? That's exponentially difficult to find.
You're looking for an age range of 18 to 99....which says you're not bothered about who it is, you just want a woman to fuck.
You've been on the site for 7 whole weeks....what did you think, single women would be falling over themselves to get to you from day 1?
You have no verifications...like someone else suggested, get to a couple of socials / clubs and try to get verified that way.
And your profile could do with proofreading and correcting some of the grammar and spelling - a minor issue, but you are at university!
Anyway, good luck with your search. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In addition to the above post, I think OP, you need to work out what you want. On one hand you are only looking for women. But on the other hand you are interested in numerous activities which tend to involve more than women: gangs bangs, dogging, DP, adult parties, swingers clubs, swapping. Clubs and parties are typically top heavy with MF couples, which you aren’t looking to meet. Dogging and gang bangs would normally be initiated by an MF couple. Eg if a husband is trying to organise a gang bang for his wife, you would not crop up on his searches. Swapping requires couples. And DP you definately need 2 cocks for, so that’s not an interest you can really explore if you are only meeting women. So if it’s hookups with women that you want, you’d probably be better off on Tinder, as I don’t think a swingers site is the best place to find that, given how few single women there are. (Or in my day a trip to the Student Union bar was a good way for young students to find sex). But if it’s swinging you want, as suggested by your list of interests, you will probably struggle if you restrict yourself to only women. Also if it’s swinging you want, your age will probably go against you unless you get to a club.
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
Reminds me of that old saying, here I sit broken hearted... paid a penny and only farted.
Sorry to hear you didn't get value for money from your membership fee, perhaps it would be better put towards a lap dance next time, us swingers are a funny bunch, it's more to do with attraction than the attitude of entitlement that you display.... just over a week left now ...tic tic tic tic.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
Any help? Ask for your money back mate . £5 and no shag is outrageous "
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
Any help? Ask for your money back mate . £5 and no shag is outrageous
Lol"
Does site supporter come with a shag guarantee?! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Been in here for over 2 thirds of my supporter site and still nothing? Ive made posts before and there dont seem to be a problem with my profile? Had no replies from any of the stunning kinky women out there and its just got me fed up
Free day today but nothing, fabswingers is letting down
Any help? Ask for your money back mate . £5 and no shag is outrageous
Lol
Does site supporter come with a shag guarantee?! "
Apparently it should, we should all be sitting here 24/7 ready to fuck anything that wants it. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Go on then, I'll take one for tge team
Tell you what Lisa, I'll join you there. Turns the £5 into a bargain, not always that there's a bogof offer "
OP, you have 3 hot ladies offering to shag you, all at the same time. Are you going to turn down a mfff? |
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"Go on then, I'll take one for tge team
Tell you what Lisa, I'll join you there. Turns the £5 into a bargain, not always that there's a bogof offer
OP, you have 3 hot ladies offering to shag you, all at the same time. Are you going to turn down a mfff? "
Well if he's not interested we'll just have to go with the fff... |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Go on then, I'll take one for tge team
Tell you what Lisa, I'll join you there. Turns the £5 into a bargain, not always that there's a bogof offer
OP, you have 3 hot ladies offering to shag you, all at the same time. Are you going to turn down a mfff?
Well if he's not interested we'll just have to go with the fff..."
Damn....ok then! |
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