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How did you couples first start swinging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seeing a hot girl ATM and she realy likes me but I want to make a MF account if I get with her, only thing is how do I mention this to her? Tricky one I know help! Haha 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell her you used to be a swinger and you love MFMs and gang bangs  "
yeah but when I fuck her she gets well naughty man so I think she's got a naughty side to her she loves toys n stuff just don't want to kill it or make myself look a c*%t if you get me haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seeing a hot girl ATM and she realy likes me but I want to make a MF account if I get with her, only thing is how do I mention this to her? Tricky one I know help! Haha
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Does she know you're on here?
Show her your account and see what she thinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell her you used to be a swinger and you love MFMs and gang bangs yeah but when I fuck her she gets well naughty man so I think she's got a naughty side to her she loves toys n stuff just don't want to kill it or make myself look a c*%t if you get me haha"
So you think she will make a good swinger cos she likes toys  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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We each wrote a list of fantasies with yes no or maybe next to them as to whether we wanted to try them or not. We then swopped lists, saw we had a lot the same and tried a hell of a lot of them out |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Tell her you used to be a swinger and you love MFMs and gang bangs yeah but when I fuck her she gets well naughty man so I think she's got a naughty side to her she loves toys n stuff just don't want to kill it or make myself look a c*%t if you get me haha
So you think she will make a good swinger cos she likes toys "
Why not, some people won't use toys so at least she is open. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell her you used to be a swinger and you love MFMs and gang bangs yeah but when I fuck her she gets well naughty man so I think she's got a naughty side to her she loves toys n stuff just don't want to kill it or make myself look a c*%t if you get me haha"
All girls are naughty and like to have fun just like their male counterparts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No just think she would enjoy it as she loves to try new things.. just don't no how to bring up if I got into a relationship with her I would love to start a MF account on here as I think it would be hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No just think she would enjoy it as she loves to try new things.. just don't no how to bring up if I got into a relationship with her I would love to start a MF account on here as I think it would be hot "
Maybe start with the relationship first..
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
Something I always wonder too, how to have that initial conversation without the risk of getting a slap! Often one of the first things I like to know when talking to other couples, I’m nosy!
Luckily wasn’t a problem for us as we met on here as a single fem and single guy so was easy just to carry on as a couple 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No just think she would enjoy it as she loves to try new things.. just don't no how to bring up if I got into a relationship with her I would love to start a MF account on here as I think it would be hot "
Give me her number, I’ll tell her and have first MFM with you two to break the ice |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Yes I know that but how would I bring it up that we should start swinging it together maybe some clubs and stuff "
We each wrote a list of fantasies with yes no or maybe next to them as to whether we wanted to try them or not. We then swopped lists, saw we had a lot the same and tried a hell of a lot of them out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something I always wonder too, how to have that initial conversation without the risk of getting a slap! Often one of the first things I like to know when talking to other couples, I’m nosy!
Luckily wasn’t a problem for us as we met on here as a single fem and single guy so was easy just to carry on as a couple
Weheyyyyyy!!!! That's what I'm talking about
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so hard to bring this up.. lol |
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If you’ve got Netflix there’s a film called love on there. Tell her you stumbled across it looking for love actually or love diy or something similar. Show her saying you won’t believe this film I’ve just stumbled across, see how she reacts. There’s mff, mmf, club orgies, trans sex and straight sex in it. We haven’t watched it much  |
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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago
lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham |
"Tell her you used to be a swinger and you love MFMs and gang bangs yeah but when I fuck her she gets well naughty man so I think she's got a naughty side to her she loves toys n stuff just don't want to kill it or make myself look a c*%t if you get me haha"
Don't tell her straight away mate get good chemistry with her first you might ruin what good you've got just enjoy things with her for now |
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I was lucky,met Jack here as singles
We took some time out before deciding to come back as a couple on here.
Maybe just mention you have some swinging/club fantasies and see how it goes.
However if she isn't interested, you will have to decide if you can give this lifestyle up for her.
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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Seeing a hot girl ATM and she realy likes me but I want to make a MF account if I get with her, only thing is how do I mention this to her? Tricky one I know help! Haha
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Yes totally tricky, especially if she ain't aware of any of this! Just because she's naughty and like toys, doesn't mean she'd like sharing you!
Don't jump the gun, yr thinking too far ahead!
You should concentrate on her for a good while before you think about swinging with her!!
You both need no trust issues whatsoever!!! This could ruin what you have!
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seeing a hot girl ATM and she realy likes me but I want to make a MF account if I get with her, only thing is how do I mention this to her? Tricky one I know help! Haha
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When your fucking her whisper in her ear "have you kissed another girl" if she says yes ask her if she liked it. If she says no say would you like to
You can change the question to suit and follow up with more questions
After it tell her you think it was hot and take it from there
I wouldn't ask too much too soon tho. You've got a nice girl who your compatible with sexually. Enjoy that x |
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There is a website that lets you list your sexual fantasies separately and only tells you bout the ones that match i.e. if you want to see her gang banged by a rugby team then unless she wants the same she will never know.
Do a google search for "mojo upgrade" and you should find it.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a couple of drinks and casually chat about it cus at the end of the day most ladies are bi cur because some of the girls are so hot nowadays..but if she says no then never push the subject x"
Hahaha so are you bi because so many men are hot “nowadays”   |
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Had a couple of previous swinging partners, a girl I used to fuck who indicated during sex she’d like to try group sex, so we went to a club one Saturday. Also took a subsequent partner to Chameleons a couple of times, and my current partner was very open about wanting group sex when we got together and have been on here ever since. |
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As a single guy it's fairly easy for you, you're not really a "swinger" just using fab as a hook up site... which is all the range these days. You can tell her all about FAB without making it sound like you're some type of perv.
The usual way that couples seem to venture into swinging is through discussing their fantasies. Then trying to fulfil them through FAB and swinging clubs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be open and honest from now on in and talk to her, ensuring you both listen carefully to what each other says.
If she says no you then have to decide whether you can give up swinging, if she will give you permission to swing, or if you will have to cheat.
Good luck OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We each wrote a list of fantasies with yes no or maybe next to them as to whether we wanted to try them or not. We then swopped lists, saw we had a lot the same and tried a hell of a lot of them out"
We did the same, had an MFM for our first experience and went from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a website that lets you list your sexual fantasies separately and only tells you bout the ones that match i.e. if you want to see her gang banged by a rugby team then unless she wants the same she will never know.
Do a google search for "mojo upgrade" and you should find it.
Good luck"
That looks fun, this link should always be mentioned on the how do I persuade my partner threads. |
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"There is a website that lets you list your sexual fantasies separately and only tells you bout the ones that match i.e. if you want to see her gang banged by a rugby team then unless she wants the same she will never know.
Do a google search for "mojo upgrade" and you should find it.
Good luck
That looks fun, this link should always be mentioned on the how do I persuade my partner threads. "
That's what I thought. It gives both partners the security of knowing that some of there more way out fantasies won't be revealed unless the other party is receptive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something I always wonder too, how to have that initial conversation without the risk of getting a slap! Often one of the first things I like to know when talking to other couples, I’m nosy!
Luckily wasn’t a problem for us as we met on here as a single fem and single guy so was easy just to carry on as a couple
TB"
Blindfold her whilst having sex one night. And say, what if that wasn't my cock. Its another man's cock in your mouth/pussy right now. I'm watching and can't wait to spitroast you. See how she reacts. It's kinda how we started. Said I'd love to watch her get fucked and spitroast her. Eventually we did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve a super hot gf who’s younger than me (29) and a pro ballet dancer and she’s open to new things but trying to find a suitable couple or guy is harder than I ever thought it would be?,I was expecting to be deluged but my inbox is a baron as a tramps wallet!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve a super hot gf who’s younger than me (29) and a pro ballet dancer and she’s open to new things but trying to find a suitable couple or guy is harder than I ever thought it would be?,I was expecting to be deluged but my inbox is a baron as a tramps wallet!!!"
Try a couples profile instead. Then people know she’s real. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"I’ve a super hot gf who’s younger than me (29) and a pro ballet dancer and she’s open to new things but trying to find a suitable couple or guy is harder than I ever thought it would be?,I was expecting to be deluged but my inbox is a baron as a tramps wallet!!!
Try a couples profile instead. Then people know she’s real."
Definitely this!
Couples get messaged by fake profiles all the time, we’ve lost count recently. Set up a couple profile, have pics of both of you, and both send messages, that should boost your chances.
TB |
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