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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get some norethisterone from the Dr to delay it. "
Thank you for your advice- forgot to mention I can’t take a lot of drugs as I breastfeed and am even hesitant to take even paracetamol these days lol
Kx |
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"Get some norethisterone from the Dr to delay it.
Thank you for your advice- forgot to mention I can’t take a lot of drugs as I breastfeed and am even hesitant to take even paracetamol these days lol
Kx"
Oh in that case then I'd probably discuss it with they people I'm meeting.
In a club I don't mind being in blow job corner but if I'm meeting a guy I guess there is an expectation of sex so would need to manage that expectation. If its a group meet then again I guess blow job corner is an option. |
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I once met a lady that announced she was on her period as she was undressing.
I’m a girl too and I know we all have them but it kind of killed the moment. If I’d have known beforehand I’d still have met her, it just wouldn’t have been quite as much as an awkward moment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I once met a lady that announced she was on her period as she was undressing.
I’m a girl too and I know we all have them but it kind of killed the moment. If I’d have known beforehand I’d still have met her, it just wouldn’t have been quite as much as an awkward moment "
Thanks
Appreciate that advice
I just hope it comes over the next few days then I don’t need to worry about offending anyone.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't you just tell them or arrange another meet "
It’s a party and we rarely get a free night so don’t want to have to rearrange.
I guess the pressure is off a little as it’s a party
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get some norethisterone from the Dr to delay it.
Thank you for your advice- forgot to mention I can’t take a lot of drugs as I breastfeed and am even hesitant to take even paracetamol these days lol
Kx
Oh in that case then I'd probably discuss it with they people I'm meeting.
In a club I don't mind being in blow job corner but if I'm meeting a guy I guess there is an expectation of sex so would need to manage that expectation. If its a group meet then again I guess blow job corner is an option. "
Blow job corner! Love this idea....
On knees waiting ( period or not!)
Kx |
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"You could use a beppy tampon x
I always forget about these. Do they work well?!"
I didn't get on well with them when I tried them. Think you need to get the wet one....getting them out again is great fun and games lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could use a beppy tampon x
I always forget about these. Do they work well?!
I didn't get on well with them when I tried them. Think you need to get the wet one....getting them out again is great fun and games lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could use a beppy tampon x
I always forget about these. Do they work well?!"
They work brilliantly. I have trouble removing them but I have a tilted uterus which makes it more tricky... would still say they are worth the effort though and I've never not been able to retrieve them! |
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"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx"
I personally wouldn’t but it’s down to you OP, discuss it with any prospective playmates. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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If it’s a party you will be fine - people don’t mind if you just lick / suck but if it’s a one person or one couple meet then I would ask them. Most people would still be happy to play if you are but it’s a good idea to mention the possibility in case they or you prefer to postpone the meet for a week or two  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx"
Theres a trick workers use. Ive tried this. Using a supersoft baby sponge cut down to fit. Reusable just need to sterilise it
I was dubious at first, tried it towards end of period works wonders, just bit tricky to remove.
Ive tried it this week on heaviest flow day works amazingly well! No leaks.
Just have to remember to treat it as you would a normal tampon as you dont want to get TSS. Clean thoroughly and sterilise properly by various means. If doing by heat make sure it wont melt
And keep it in a ziplock bag between periods.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx
Theres a trick workers use. Ive tried this. Using a supersoft baby sponge cut down to fit. Reusable just need to sterilise it
I was dubious at first, tried it towards end of period works wonders, just bit tricky to remove.
Ive tried it this week on heaviest flow day works amazingly well! No leaks.
Just have to remember to treat it as you would a normal tampon as you dont want to get TSS. Clean thoroughly and sterilise properly by various means. If doing by heat make sure it wont melt
And keep it in a ziplock bag between periods.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be sad, celebrate the fact you are still fertile as when you're not in a few years time your libido may tail off a bit and those moments when you feel desperately horny mid month will fade into memory. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"You could use a beppy tampon x
I always forget about these. Do they work well?!
They work brilliantly. I have trouble removing them but I have a tilted uterus which makes it more tricky... would still say they are worth the effort though and I've never not been able to retrieve them!"
I have a tilted uterus so am similar with it being a little tricky however they work so well and are so comfy that I use them pretty much all the time, not just when I am on a promise..
I was introduced to them in my younger days (I worked in a brothel when I was at uni) because working girls don't get a day off for a period. Not one punter ever realised. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx
Theres a trick workers use. Ive tried this. Using a supersoft baby sponge cut down to fit. Reusable just need to sterilise it
I was dubious at first, tried it towards end of period works wonders, just bit tricky to remove.
Ive tried it this week on heaviest flow day works amazingly well! No leaks.
Just have to remember to treat it as you would a normal tampon as you dont want to get TSS. Clean thoroughly and sterilise properly by various means. If doing by heat make sure it wont melt
And keep it in a ziplock bag between periods.
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Really? You do this? |
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"As you are breastfeeding, do you let people play with your breasts ?"
I'm still breastfeeding my 18 month old & unless you suck REALLY hard nothing comes out so don't understand why you wouldn't let people play with them? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx
Theres a trick workers use. Ive tried this. Using a supersoft baby sponge cut down to fit. Reusable just need to sterilise it
I was dubious at first, tried it towards end of period works wonders, just bit tricky to remove.
Ive tried it this week on heaviest flow day works amazingly well! No leaks.
Just have to remember to treat it as you would a normal tampon as you dont want to get TSS. Clean thoroughly and sterilise properly by various means. If doing by heat make sure it wont melt
And keep it in a ziplock bag between periods.
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Or by the proper sponge tampons. (Beppy or gynotex) because I don't know any sex workers who used sponges and kept them *vom*
Honestly. Sex workers are, mostly, unsurprisingly careful about the health and wellbeing of their foof |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could use a beppy tampon x "
I've bought these but never yet dared to use them. Are they reliable at holding back the flow? Can men feel them during sex? And how in earth do you remove them?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get some norethisterone from the Dr to delay it.
Thank you for your advice- forgot to mention I can’t take a lot of drugs as I breastfeed and am even hesitant to take even paracetamol these days lol
Kx"
You can take them whilst breastfeeding Iv used them a few times whilst Iv been breastfeeding both my children x |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"You could use a beppy tampon x
I've bought these but never yet dared to use them. Are they reliable at holding back the flow? Can men feel them during sex? And how in earth do you remove them?!"
I'm heavy and they are fine for 2-3 hours. Like I said above I was a working girl, I saw 14-18 guys a shift and no-one ever noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx
Theres a trick workers use. Ive tried this. Using a supersoft baby sponge cut down to fit. Reusable just need to sterilise it
I was dubious at first, tried it towards end of period works wonders, just bit tricky to remove.
Ive tried it this week on heaviest flow day works amazingly well! No leaks.
Just have to remember to treat it as you would a normal tampon as you dont want to get TSS. Clean thoroughly and sterilise properly by various means. If doing by heat make sure it wont melt
And keep it in a ziplock bag between periods.
Really? You do this?"
Ive got a multipack cut up into quarters and halves I rarely have sex on red week as im a heavy bleeder. Bit like being at the slaughterhouse.
I do wonder how many women sterilise and sanitise their sex toys. No different. When sterile perfectly safe.
Before you judge.
Many reusable sanitary products on the market.
Be it cups or sponges, which come in various types from sea sponge to manmade types.
Its all about making sure its clean and safe |
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"Get some norethisterone from the Dr to delay it.
Thank you for your advice- forgot to mention I can’t take a lot of drugs as I breastfeed and am even hesitant to take even paracetamol these days lol
Kx
You can take them whilst breastfeeding Iv used them a few times whilst Iv been breastfeeding both my children x "
I took northisterone for a holiday once and it didn’t work, I also got a lot of facial hair as a side effect of it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't be sad, celebrate the fact you are still fertile as when you're not in a few years time your libido may tail off a bit and those moments when you feel desperately horny mid month will fade into memory."
Too true
Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx"
Haha you’re asking if a bloke would mind only him being played with by you? I would’ve thought the answer would be obvious x |
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"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx
Haha you’re asking if a bloke would mind only him being played with by you? I would’ve thought the answer would be obvious x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx
Haha you’re asking if a bloke would mind only him being played with by you? I would’ve thought the answer would be obvious x"
Hey! Lol- I can see your point but I also don’t want to frustrate anyone-
How do I bring it up?
I guess if I hang a string of tampons around my neck he may get the hint?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When playing sometimes the sexy ladies we've played with have had such deep orgasms that they've come on.
It's been a bit messy to be honest but boy oh boy did I feel good after that my cock and balls had made such a good impression
Definitely a Yes Yess Yessssssssss moment  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When playing sometimes the sexy ladies we've played with have had such deep orgasms that they've come on.
It's been a bit messy to be honest but boy oh boy did I feel good after that my cock and balls had made such a good impression
Definitely a Yes Yess Yessssssssss moment "
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I take a pill where there’s no gaps and no period.
I have been in a situation(s) where the lady of a couple turned out to be on her period. We didn’t know this till we started playing, so my partner at the time was disappointed as he wasn’t participating as fully as her partner.
Also a bit of topic, but someone else mentioned earlier about you breastfeeding. Again I’ve been in two situations where the lady of a couple was and we didn’t know until we were involved with play. It wasn’t for me, as some women do leak and I was a bit put out that neither of the ladies had said beforehand. Then again the one couple had the baby and toddler trapped in a room with a chair, which made us leave even quicker.
Communication to others is key to let them have informed choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find myself morbidly fascinated by some threads. This is one of them.
I have the coil so for years, it hasn't been an issue. It's due to be changed so it's starting to become an issue but only for a couple of days and I'm rather regular so it's cool. It's just blowjob week.
Eve. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be upfront about it. If they don't like it, so be it but they can make an informed choice.
I enjoy sex on my period but am aware it could get a little messy, not everyone can cope with blood (even with a condom on), not everyone uses gloves for finger fucking but they are great particularly for period sex.
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I’ve has an endometrial ablation so should be periodless. No such fucking luck... spoilt my swingfields before I’ve even got there.
Gonna be begging the dr for that northisterone like something possessed lol |
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"You could use a beppy tampon x
I've bought these but never yet dared to use them. Are they reliable at holding back the flow? Can men feel them during sex? And how in earth do you remove them?!"
I have to use a spoon to hoick them out. Long vagina and short fingers! I just poke a teaspoon up there. Yes, I keep a special one just for that. |
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"I’ve has an endometrial ablation so should be periodless. No such fucking luck... spoilt my swingfields before I’ve even got there.
Gonna be begging the dr for that northisterone like something possessed lol"
The Drs suggested that for me, but I don't think it's viable having had caesareans, doubly glad I can't have it after reading your post. I now take the mini pill and it's been brilliant for me, took northisterone for 2 weeks on holiday once and I had a few hormonal banshee moments so I couldn't chance that again.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been to clubs before on my period and this weekend I'm going and there is a good chance that I will be on my period again. I just make sure that the people I meet are aware that I'm on my period from the start. I have played before, but just giving and boob play.
You can get beppy sponges that hold back the flo as well should you wish |
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"When playing sometimes the sexy ladies we've played with have had such deep orgasms that they've come on.
It's been a bit messy to be honest but boy oh boy did I feel good after that my cock and balls had made such a good impression
Definitely a Yes Yess Yessssssssss moment "
You really think that a "deep orgasm" can cause an ovary to release an egg and thickened womb lining to to be shed ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You could use a beppy tampon x
I always forget about these. Do they work well?!
They work brilliantly. I have trouble removing them but I have a tilted uterus which makes it more tricky... would still say they are worth the effort though and I've never not been able to retrieve them!"
Me too! I ended up in A&E, took 3 staff and an ultrasound scan to remove mine  |
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"When playing sometimes the sexy ladies we've played with have had such deep orgasms that they've come on.
It's been a bit messy to be honest but boy oh boy did I feel good after that my cock and balls had made such a good impression
Definitely a Yes Yess Yessssssssss moment
You really think that a "deep orgasm" can cause an ovary to release an egg and thickened womb lining to to be shed ?"
Lol!! Yes, not to burst your bubble, but she’d have been due on anyway!! Just good (or bad) timing I’m afraid!! I used to be able to time mine almost to the hour - the whole process of ‘coming on’ takes quite a few days!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely gutted but think may be on time of month when we have our next meet -
Is there a way to approach this? Is there a ribbon I can wear in my hair that represents this ( like a ribbon on pony’s tail means bite or kicks depending on colour )
Are people open to the lady just playing with them under these circumstances or is that a no go too?
Advice welcomed please xx"
Mrs MP uses a menstrual cup called softcup. Allows us to carry on playing. We always warn anyone if we are meeting so they can make the choice, so far no one has refused.
If it gets knocked during penetration there might be some leakage but we've never had that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I use latex makeup sponges... The wedge shaped ones. Works a treat every time plus they feel like the soft skin inside you so guys can't feel them at all. A fellow swinger told me about doing it... Then I read it's what pornstars use! |
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"I use latex makeup sponges... The wedge shaped ones. Works a treat every time plus they feel like the soft skin inside you so guys can't feel them at all. A fellow swinger told me about doing it... Then I read it's what pornstars use! "
Wow didn't know about these...just avoid any meets at that time of the month. Where do you get these from and have you ever had any problems at all when using them?? x |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"I use latex makeup sponges... The wedge shaped ones. Works a treat every time plus they feel like the soft skin inside you so guys can't feel them at all. A fellow swinger told me about doing it... Then I read it's what pornstars use!
Wow didn't know about these...just avoid any meets at that time of the month. Where do you get these from and have you ever had any problems at all when using them?? x"
I'd suggest a bebby or gynotex spine instead. (called soft or sex tampons)
Go for the 'wet' ones that have a small amount of lubricant on them so they are easier to put in but they are sterile and so I'm much happier putting them somewhere so sensitive... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve has an endometrial ablation so should be periodless. No such fucking luck... spoilt my swingfields before I’ve even got there.
Gonna be begging the dr for that northisterone like something possessed lol"
You can buy this online without any hassle whatsoever, it's great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's expensive to buy online, much cheaper to get prescription from GP."
I wouldn't want to sit and explain to my GP why I needed it though. It was cheap enough on the site I bough mine from. |
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