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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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2nd time on asking this question but really want to know how to make my gorgeous wife get the most out of her fantasy.
Hopefully getting closer to making her fantasy (and mine too as I can't wait to see her having fun) so any ideas very very welcome.
Ta muchly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure what the question is? but if i'm right in thinking that it is how to ensure your wife gets the most out of her fantasy, well it's her fantasy - ask her? |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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There's just 2 things you'll need ...... D and P lol!
On a slightly more serious note, Seeing as this is your wife's fantasy let her choose the guy - try and find someone who ie willing to take the time to get to know and understand what she wants - same goes for you guys too - don't rush things - take the time to find the right person for you. |
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See you say you've not been to a club yet, think they're the places to try out this fantasy in a safe environment, there will be no shortage of single males to accompany you to a private playroom, and when you've finished, or if it's not really what you want, you can just say goodbye and go to the bar. Not so easy to get rind of a single guy if you've invited one home, and after starting, you don't want to go through with it, or you want it all to end. |
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"See you say you've not been to a club yet, think they're the places to try out this fantasy in a safe environment, there will be no shortage of single males to accompany you to a private playroom, and when you've finished, or if it's not really what you want, you can just say goodbye and go to the bar. Not so easy to get rind of a single guy if you've invited one home, and after starting, you don't want to go through with it, or you want it all to end."
Very good advice, Z |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for all your advice. The club idea sounds quite a good one, my wife is very shy so will need a lot of reasurance so I wondered if it better to get to know someone a little first to make her feel more comfortable.
Thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done a number of mfm meets, let your wife take charge. Let her choose the lucky guy, I know there are 1000's to choose from. Once you have found the one.
Take your time, do not rush it. |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all your advice. The club idea sounds quite a good one, my wife is very shy so will need a lot of reasurance so I wondered if it better to get to know someone a little first to make her feel more comfortable.
Thanks again"
If your wife is quite shy then the club idea might throw her in at the deep end, especially if you are unlucky enough to go on a night that ends up being mobbed by enough predatory guys to make the good ones hard to spot - so you (or they) might end up just scaring her off.
Of course it could go the opposite way and she finds it a liberating experience.
Hard to predict.
Personally I think taking things slowly and taking the time to get to know someone before meeting in a more private setting than a club would be the best way forward.
Alternatively a Fab social might provide a good middle ground between a club and a private meet.
Overall though the best person to answer the issues would be delilah - perhaps you should introduce her to the forums and she can voice her desires and her concerns directly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i liked the jumping assumptions that its the husbands fantasy....
anyway, clubs is a good choice...but in ur own home is fine...just choose a nice guy and I say in MY opinion someone whos got a decent track record to not turn out a fud..... think Ive just advertized myself hehehehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The choice is really important for a first meet, get that right and the rest flows easy - Ed lets me pick all the time but now he knows what i like I can leave it to him x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Raisealaff makes a good point and for our first mmf, I chose a guy I'd met before and who was an experienced swinger. Really nice, polite, non pushy guy. He knew it was our first time and was brilliant. ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the key to this is to have a guy who's experienced. Pushiness and or nerves aren't going to make your wife feel any more comfortable.
We did our first meet in a hotel bar, had a great chat and then everything just flowed from there.
Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think the key to this is to have a guy who's experienced. Pushiness and or nerves aren't going to make your wife feel any more comfortable.
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We agree with the above.
We have MMF with the same M (whom we known for a while) and it gets better each time, as we get to know each other more. Yr Mrs needs to choose the M though. Enjoy |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all your advice. The club idea sounds quite a good one, my wife is very shy so will need a lot of reasurance so I wondered if it better to get to know someone a little first to make her feel more comfortable.
Thanks again"
Not sure where people got from your post that it is your fantasy only.
Anyway, whatever anyone advises it needs to be your wifes decision as only she will know what she will be comfortable with. I can't see a club being a good place if she is shy so the other option is to meet a man in a more intimate place.
Either way, it is still down to what your wife is comfortable with, wether that is chatting a lot to the man first or just going for it. |
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