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By *ollie_J OP Couple
over a year ago
London |
If you don't look like the back end of a bus, live together, are actually swingers and appreciate playing with other peoples bits.. Then come talk us, in fact sod that sleep with us
We had a ball of a time when we first came to this site, on another heavenly, cough, site we only got laid twice.
But for the past six months nothing, we feel we are going to have to break our club virginity
The socials are not really for us, we don't want to laugh and giggle unless we are all naked
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
"If you don't look like the back end of a bus, live together, are actually swingers and appreciate playing with other peoples bits.. Then come talk us, in fact sod that sleep with us
We had a ball of a time when we first came to this site, on another heavenly, cough, site we only got laid twice.
But for the past six months nothing, we feel we are going to have to break our club virginity
The socials are not really for us, we don't want to laugh and giggle unless we are all naked
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Nice profile
Nice photos
You are both bi. That will put some couples off.
You insist on going to theirs. That will put some couples off.
You won't consider a club. That will put some people off.
You live in Peterborough. Even though you will do the travelling, it may put some couples off due to the fact that they may THINK you will need to stay overnight for along trip and there are lots of couples who don't want overnight stays.
And never forget..... it's hard to get 4 people who all fancy each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nice profile and pics so thats not the problem. It could be not being able to accomodate, finding another couple where all 4 of you like each other or it could just be a bit of a drought. We all have them so keep at it. Ms |
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By *DSRMan
over a year ago
leicester |
"If you don't look like the back end of a bus, live together, are actually swingers and appreciate playing with other peoples bits.. Then come talk us, in fact sod that sleep with us
We had a ball of a time when we first came to this site, on another heavenly, cough, site we only got laid twice.
But for the past six months nothing, we feel we are going to have to break our club virginity
The socials are not really for us, we don't want to laugh and giggle unless we are all naked
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Welcome to my world, won't you come on in.. leave your cares behind.. that's the advice everyone gives mate  7 they are right
I tink it's different for couples, but as a male i have to have the best pictures on the site or get nothing at all, it is that simple! No great emails or profiles will actually help! It's 90% about your pictures & then the ability to sustain their interest after they except your hot
But i am only seeing it form the single male perspective
& i am adding new pictures asap, so i'll finally know if i am good looking enough, with a nice enough body and a biog enough cock to get meets on a swingers site - if not, the site will become a forum only zone and i'll have to wait till summer to enjoy myself
that or try out these clubs i am still wanting to visit
good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, the talking pics makes us uncomfortable.
Us being thick.. Talking pics?
H and J"
We wondered the same .... Thought you had some new fangled whatsit that talked to us when we viewed your pics
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, the talking pics makes us uncomfortable.
Us being thick.. Talking pics?
H and J"
They meant taking pics (my phone does weird predictive text too!!) and it would put us off too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, the talking pics makes us uncomfortable.
Us being thick.. Talking pics?
H and J"
They meant taking pics (my phone does weird predictive text too!!) and it would put us off too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes taking pics. Or to expand, meeting a couple at our house, who don't want to get to know us via email, who want to play on the first meet and take pictures.
Pictures would be a deal breaker in isolation but with the rest it doesn;t sit comfortable at all. Sorry. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes taking pics. Or to expand, meeting a couple at our house, who don't want to get to know us via email, who want to play on the first meet and take pictures.
Pictures would be a deal breaker in isolation but with the rest it doesn;t sit comfortable at all. Sorry."
Looking at it that way, I'm suprised they've ever had a meet.
But thats just my opinion |
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"Yes taking pics. Or to expand, meeting a couple at our house, who don't want to get to know us via email, who want to play on the first meet and take pictures.
Pictures would be a deal breaker in isolation but with the rest it doesn;t sit comfortable at all. Sorry.
Looking at it that way, I'm suprised they've ever had a meet.
But thats just my opinion"
Same here...sorry but its not worth the risk.i think people are getting more internet savvy with every day that passes and realise pics could end up anywere |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
"If you don't look like the back end of a bus, live together, are actually swingers and appreciate playing with other peoples bits.. Then come talk us, in fact sod that sleep with us
We had a ball of a time when we first came to this site, on another heavenly, cough, site we only got laid twice.
But for the past six months nothing, we feel we are going to have to break our club virginity
The socials are not really for us, we don't want to laugh and giggle unless we are all naked
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Meh!
That's just the way it goes sometimes.
Right now I'm the opposite - I've got more offers and interest than I have spare time to deal with, but give it a month and I'll be back to resorting to having to smear my cock with Bovril and offering to take my neighbour's Dalmation for a walk again.
Of course if you guys ever feel like dramatically lowering your standards ........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had looked at your profile previously, but a few things stopped us messaging
1st, one of us is out of your age range.
2nd, we dont like photographs being taken but obviously we reserve the right to say no but it seemed like it was something you needed to do reading your profile.
3rd, your lack of interest in email exchange, thats a big part of getting to know someone for us. not endless emails but just a few to get to know people a bit better.
but hey, your close enough, if your interested you could always contact us. |
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By *ollie_J OP Couple
over a year ago
London |
"Yes taking pics. Or to expand, meeting a couple at our house, who don't want to get to know us via email, who want to play on the first meet and take pictures.
Pictures would be a deal breaker in isolation but with the rest it doesn;t sit comfortable at all. Sorry."
Gosh, that makes us sound awful. You forget how the written word can be interpreted many different ways. We always have e mail contact with people while we all decide whether a meet is a good idea and I (Mrs New) always have phone conversations with my female counterpart too. These conversations are not "yup, see I'm not a single male pretending to be a couple" (although this is a helpful bi-product) they're more to see that we could enjoy an evening together both socially and sexually. What we mean by endless email exchange is where you contact someone and they reply but three months later you're still playing email tennis without a meet date in sight.
The picture taking is not a prerequisite for a meet, just something we like to do. We know we're honourable people and would never upload photos anywhere without someones permission and even then only with their face obscured, but I take your point as you don't know us from Adam.
Footnotes on profile amended accordingly.
thank you all for your honest feedback |
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Remember...your profile is your advert. You don't need to state things which are up for negotiation like photos. Also hotels are an option of course. Btw I didn't look at your profile although judge away on ours if you like...it works for us...which afterall is the whole point. Good luck op. |
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By *ollie_J OP Couple
over a year ago
London |
"Remember...your profile is your advert. You don't need to state things which are up for negotiation like photos. Also hotels are an option of course. Btw I didn't look at your profile although judge away on ours if you like...it works for us...which afterall is the whole point. Good luck op. "
Thank you. We include our like of photography because it is such an emotive request. It is also why we are open about Mr New's bi playfulness. We are aware that we would maybe get more invites and replies to our mail if the profile said he was straight and we omitted our love of photos, but then we wouldn't be advertising who we really are and would only hit the same stumbling block we have with our profile, just maybe it would wait until email number 2.....
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I'm having the totally opposit problem, I just get ignored each and every time, save 2 couples, one said they couldn't (fair doos) and another want to meet but there never online so we can't talk (busy lives I guess, can't be helped) |
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