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Friend with benifits

By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple over a year ago

Craggy Island

Hi all. This is a question for all the lady swiwingers out there.

Me and my mrs have been swinging for a wile now and we are both looking for friends with benifits.

Wile she has her pic its realy hard for me to find one. Prob because this site is flooded with single men. What is the best way to ask a girl this question?

Need help please

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Are you looking for a fwb together? Or are you looking for one for yourself or Mrs? It's a little unclear from the OP. Perhaps you could clarify x

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Why not put a pic of the male on your profile ?

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By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Are you looking for a fwb together? Or are you looking for one for yourself or Mrs? It's a little unclear from the OP. Perhaps you could clarify x"

No she has her own one already. I am looking for one myself. Sorry for the confusion.

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By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Why not put a pic of the male on your profile ?"

Yes good idea i will try that. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try setting up a single male profile which outlines what you're looking for, and link it back to your couples profile.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Try setting up a single male profile which outlines what you're looking for, and link it back to your couples profile.

Good idea x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

"Why not put a pic of the male on your profile ?"

This totally and maybe pop what you are after on there too.

Miss

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By *luttyzoeTV/TS over a year ago

Lutterworth

"Hi all. This is a question for all the lady swiwingers out there.

Me and my mrs have been swinging for a wile now and we are both looking for friends with benifits.

Wile she has her pic its realy hard for me to find one. Prob because this site is flooded with single men. What is the best way to ask a girl this question?

Need help please

"
we are in the same boat and judging by the replies on another similar post we are looking for unicorns

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

Setting up separate singles profiles certainly helped us ...now I'd not have to sift through all the mail from guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try setting up a single male profile which outlines what you're looking for, and link it back to your couples profile.

This

make it clear you are a hot husband too. There are some ladies on here that are looking for this.

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By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple over a year ago

Craggy Island

Thanks for the advice folks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Very welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Asking doesn't work.

Meet people and if it happens it happens.

I've been luckily enough to meet an amazing fwb from here which just happened, neither of us asked or had a conversation about it, now we're practically in each other's pockets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with starting a separate single guys profile though x

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By *issLornaLoveWoman over a year ago

coventry

I agree with single profiles linked to couple profile. See example on my profile.

Be honest and open about what you are both looking for across all profiles. Happy hunting xXx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And you seem to of ignored all of the advice people have given, so I won't waste my time in writing something out.

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By *ebwizMan over a year ago

Clevedon

My wife has a fwb.I tried myself,but found it unsuccessful,so just enjoy party now and again,and chat on forums on hear.I think its much easier for the female partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If i was looking, id be looking for a good profile honest with photos

Couples profiles that hide the man i find that a bit distrubing as its a couples profiles.

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Why not put a pic of the male on your profile ?

Yes good idea i will try that. Thanks

Just not today.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not put a pic of the male on your profile ?

Yes good idea i will try that. Thanks

Just not today.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Why not put a pic of the male on your profile ?

Yes good idea i will try that. Thanks

Just not today.

Or yesterday either

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By *rs Butterfly.Woman over a year ago

Never NeverLand

"My wife has a fwb.I tried myself,but found it unsuccessful,so just enjoy party now and again,and chat on forums on hear.I think its much easier for the female partner."

I don't think it's as easy as you think finding a good FWB as a woman. Maybe I am too fussy but Mr B had a FWB but I found it very difficult to find my own took me over 9 months to find what I was looking for.

I don't think you can go out looking for a FWB it just happens. You play with someone a few times and over time, it gradually developers in go more.

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