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3 out of 7 - shameless plea for approval
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:
4x Not my type/no reply
1x At least you're normal (  )
1x Yeah, you're cute
1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)
Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At least you got a reply  "
Not always! Do hate that, though! I know Fab FAQ's say no reply = not interested but it just seems so rude! Especially after a good long, sexy message exchange |
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"At least you got a reply
But don't tell me you don't get a reply to yours? Surely not?"
Do I sense a hint of sarcasm??? Lol. My point is, most men complain about the lack of replies from single women. And all I’m saying is, even if it’s a thanks but no thanks, at least you got a reply |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"At least you got a reply
But don't tell me you don't get a reply to yours? Surely not?
Do I sense a hint of sarcasm??? Lol. My point is, most men complain about the lack of replies from single women. And all I’m saying is, even if it’s a thanks but no thanks, at least you got a reply "
No sarcasm whatsoever, not my style, I assure you - you look delightful, genuinely! But that's true, a reply is a reply whatever it says. I'm just pretty thin skinned, I think! |
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"At least you got a reply
But don't tell me you don't get a reply to yours? Surely not?
Do I sense a hint of sarcasm??? Lol. My point is, most men complain about the lack of replies from single women. And all I’m saying is, even if it’s a thanks but no thanks, at least you got a reply
No sarcasm whatsoever, not my style, I assure you - you look delightful, genuinely! But that's true, a reply is a reply whatever it says. I'm just pretty thin skinned, I think!"
You’ve had 3 veris by 3 meets. I’d say don’t take it personally. It’s a case of personal preference. If we all liked the same thing, how boring would life be! Move on |
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Do you mean you’re attaching a face pic to an early message? If that’s the case you’re doing well. Response rates to unsolicited stuff is low.
Or do you mean you’re chatting, getting on well, then you send a face pic and they scarper? Ouch. It stings but not everyone fancies everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Iv sent 100s of messages with a face pic on the 1st message, iv had 3 responses, the rest are either no reply or delete, blocked or marked as unread. Id love to get on with this site but im slowly losing interest. Best off sticking to my right hand, just me, myself and i |
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"Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:
4x Not my type/no reply
1x At least you're normal ( )
1x Yeah, you're cute
1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)
Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? "
You’re getting replies though OP. Keep going  |
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"Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:
4x Not my type/no reply
1x At least you're normal ( )
1x Yeah, you're cute
1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)
Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? "
Try sending out 100 and see what u get ??  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Iv sent 100s of messages with a face pic on the 1st message, iv had 3 responses, the rest are either no reply or delete, blocked or marked as unread. Id love to get on with this site but im slowly losing interest. Best off sticking to my right hand, just me, myself and i"
I am.surprised you have the time to read people's profiles, decide if you fit what they are looking for, and then written a personal message that would interest them.
Possibly you are sending cut and paste messages and not taking the time and effort needed to get replies. Just a thought  |
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"Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:
4x Not my type/no reply
1x At least you're normal ( )
1x Yeah, you're cute
1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)
Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? "
Have you measured lately? Maybe you're a solid 6.5?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:
4x Not my type/no reply
1x At least you're normal ( )
1x Yeah, you're cute
1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)
Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? "
Cute can sometimes be good OP. When I say someone is cute, it means I find them attractive. I can't be the only one who says that . That's an above average response rate. Take a bow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Iv sent 100s of messages with a face pic on the 1st message, iv had 3 responses, the rest are either no reply or delete, blocked or marked as unread. Id love to get on with this site but im slowly losing interest. Best off sticking to my right hand, just me, myself and i
I am.surprised you have the time to read people's profiles, decide if you fit what they are looking for, and then written a personal message that would interest them.
Possibly you are sending cut and paste messages and not taking the time and effort needed to get replies. Just a thought "
Utterly pointless reading profiles and writing new messages when 99% of women don't bother replying. |
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But then they might off had loads of mails.
